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Therapy-Speak & Thirst Traps: Let's Talk About Emotionally Slutty Men
May 6, 2026
22m 14s
You’re Not Too Much. They're Just Not Consistent.
Apr 24, 2026
16m 04s
Toxic Friendships: What's Your Breaking Point?
Apr 22, 2026
5m 53s
Intuition or Insecurity? - What We Can Learn From Carrie Bradshaw and Facegirl
Apr 10, 2026
28m 10s
Friend or Dangerous Frenemy?
Apr 3, 2026
12m 33s
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 5/6/26 | ![]() Therapy-Speak & Thirst Traps: Let's Talk About Emotionally Slutty Men✨ | emotionally slutty menvulnerability+4 | — | Character AnalysisSubstack+3 | — | therapy-speaktrauma dumping+3 | — | 22m 14s | |
| 4/24/26 | ![]() You’re Not Too Much. They're Just Not Consistent.✨ | datingmixed signals+3 | — | PatreonSubstack+1 | — | mixed signalsdating advice+3 | — | 16m 04s | |
| 4/22/26 | ![]() Toxic Friendships: What's Your Breaking Point?✨ | toxic friendshipsemotional burnout+3 | — | Character AnalysisSubstack+5 | — | toxic relationshipsfriendship+3 | — | 5m 53s | |
| 4/10/26 | ![]() Intuition or Insecurity? - What We Can Learn From Carrie Bradshaw and Facegirl✨ | intuitioninsecurity+3 | — | PatreonSubstack+1 | — | Sex and the CityCarrie Bradshaw+5 | — | 28m 10s | |
| 4/3/26 | ![]() Friend or Dangerous Frenemy?✨ | toxic relationshipsmanipulation+3 | — | PatreonSubstack+1 | — | toxicliar+5 | — | 12m 33s | |
| 3/20/26 | ![]() Danielle Walter: Fast Love or Red Flags?✨ | quickie engagementsinfluencer culture+3 | — | People | — | Danielle WalterLucas Alcantara+4 | — | 10m 12s | |
| 3/17/26 | ![]() Dating App Trend or Serious Red Flag?✨ | dating appsemotional unavailability+3 | — | Good Will Hunting | — | dating appsGood Will Hunting+3 | — | 19m 37s | |
| 3/6/26 | ![]() Character Analysis: The Birthday "Social Experiment" That Backfired✨ | social experimentfriendship+3 | — | PatreonSpotify | — | social experimentbirthday+3 | — | 4m 22s | |
| 1/16/26 | ![]() The Carrie Bradshaw Effect: Why Danielle Walter's Smug Docuseries Flopped✨ | datinginfluencers+3 | — | The Carrie Bradshaw Effect | — | Danielle Walterrelationship docuseries+3 | — | 29m 40s | |
| 12/20/25 | ![]() Character Analysis: The True Crime Trifecta✨ | forensic psychiatrymental health defenses+4 | Dr. Ziv E. Cohen | — | — | forensic psychiatrymental health+6 | — | 40m 10s | |
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| 6/23/25 | ![]() And Just Like That: Shattered Illusions | Enjoy a teaser of this week's And Just Like That Recap. To listen to the full episode, subscribe to our Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/worththeweightshowThis week, I made a bold declaration: Season 3, Episode 4 of And Just Like That might be one of the best of the entire series—not Sex and the City, but definitely AJLT. In this recap, Sarah and I break down all the reasons why—from the long overdue focus on the core three characters to the emotional wreckage that is Aiden’s family dynamic.We dive deep into the chaos that is Wyatt—his VR assault on Carrie, the shattered glass moment (literally and metaphorically), and Aiden’s infuriating denial of reality. We talk about what this episode says about parenting, denial, neurodivergence, and how Carrie, for once, actually seems turned off by drama. Was this a soft breakup or just a soft launch into the inevitable end?We also touch on Miranda’s “wild cunt” moment, Lisa’s barely-there storyline, Seema’s independence era, and Harry’s midlife crisis (with a horny twist). Oh, and let’s not forget Charlotte navigating polyamory and porn downloads.Honestly? This episode gave us everything: heart, cringe, chaos, and finally—finally—some emotional depth. And I have a theory about who Carrie’s next love interest might be (spoiler: it’s not Aiden).✨Subscribe to this Patreon and join the inner circle. 💅In addition to the weekly public Worth The Weight episodes, you’ll get:💘Bi-weekly Worth the WEIGHT subscriber-only podcast episodes about dating, beauty standards, pop culture analysis, and mental health🧠Regular subscriber-only podcast episodes, videos, and posts with real talk on dating, pop culture analysis, trauma healing, and some truly excellent F*ck That Guy storiesSUBSCRIBE HERE https://www.patreon.com/c/worththeweightshow✨ If you haven’t already, be sure to follow us on our new socials so you don’t miss anything:Instagram/Threads: @worththeweightshowTikTok: @worththeweightshowYouTube: @worththeweightshowSubstack: WorthTheWeightShow.Substack.com👀 Got a dating dilemma? A ghosting mystery? An “is-it-me-or-is-he-just-delusional?” situation? Send it in! We’re answering listener questions on the pod, and we want yours. Whether it’s a green flag you’re second-guessing , a walking ick 🥴, or a text you need decoded —spill it. We’ve got thoughts. Probably too many. 😏 Submit your dating questions here. | — | ||||||
| 10/14/24 | ![]() How men define a high-value women and why we don't care - Extended teaser | Let’s listen to Joshua, a self-perceived high-value man, describe his idea of a woman “of his caliber.” According to Joshua, these attraction metrics are: Youth Beauty Fertility Fidelity Agreeableness Sir, is this you? Listen to what we think of Joshua and his article in the full-length episode here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-men-define-113820068 I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission. Please send them to hello@dateologycoach.com and put "forensics" in the subject line. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 10/6/24 | ![]() First date questions destined to keep men single | Today's episode discusses Tripp, The Dating Coach For Men. He has created three must-ask questions men should ask women on a first date. 1. What's your relationship like with your Dad? 2. How do you deal with stress? 3. What's the longest friendship you've had? These questions have an underlying motivation, and Tripp knows it. They're used to gauge the emotional intelligence and effort a woman will require. With these questions, he's advising men to abandon the thought of dating a woman who shows the slightest hint of emotional turmoil. What these questions reveal is the person asking them isn't self-actualized. If they were, they'd know that human beings are more than the sum of their parts. Subscribe to listen to our weekly full-length episodes and get access to other bonus content. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe Submit your dating questions here, or you can leave us a voice message by calling (929) 266-6123. Please note: your message WILL NOT be played on the podcast. We will read the transcript of your call. I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission. Please send them to hello@dateologycoach.com and put "forensics" in the subject line. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to 3 monthly members-only episodes, advice posts, and bonus episodes. Subscribe here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach | — | ||||||
| 9/18/24 | ![]() Gaslighting, Manipulation & Mask Slipping | The best way to know if you're dating a narcissist is to express a boundary. Their reaction will tell you everything you need to know. Listen as we analyze a letter from a woman who needs help determining if the man she's dating is a walk red flag. Subscribe to listen to our weekly full-length episodes and get access to other bonus content. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dateologycoach/subscribe Submit your dating questions here, or you can leave us a voice message by calling (929) 266-6123. Please note: your message WILL NOT be played on the podcast. We will read the transcript of your call. I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission. Please send them to hello@dateologycoach.com and put "forensics" in the subject line. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to 3 monthly members-only episodes, advice posts, and bonus episodes. Subscribe here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach | — | ||||||
| 9/7/24 | ![]() The Worst Exes Ever | Speaking of the worst ex ever... If you listened to the show a few weeks ago, you remember the vile message a listener received from a man she rejected. She sent us the complete message string. We provide a dramatic reading of this rage machine's responses and analyze how he manipulates and insults her under the guise of wanting to reconnect. This guy is so despicable that I googled his social media. When I tell you that "mid" would be a compliment, I'm not exaggerating. We also discuss Netflix's new series, "Worst Ex Ever." This week, we cover one of the four terrifying episodes and will review the other three in a bonus episode to be posted at the end of next week. Note: After the recording of this episode, Leila's dementia took a terrible turn, and her owners decided to put her down. She crossed The Rainbow Bridge on Wednesday morning. Submit your dating questions here, or you can leave us a voice message by calling (929) 266-6123. Please note: your message WILL NOT be played on the podcast. We will read the transcript of your call. I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission. Please send them to hello@dateologycoach.com and put "forensics" in the subject line. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to 3 monthly members-only episodes, advice posts, and bonus episodes. Subscribe here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach | — | ||||||
| 8/30/24 | ![]() Indecent Proposals & Dead-End Situationships | In this episode: A man unleashes his rage on a woman for rejecting his sleazy sexual proposition. A woman endures a length long-distance situationship only to be dropped like a bad habit for being honest. In previous episodes, I've discussed my fascination with analyzing writing. Those who've been around for a while know I was involved with exposing a man whose marketing agency fabricated dozens of fake female personas. Many of these phantom authors went viral for their manufactured personal memoir pieces. I want to create a segment for the show where Sarah and I analyze messages, posts, and profiles to help listeners learn to spot signs of catfishing and deception and avoid potentially dangerous situations/people. I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission. Please send them to hello@dateologycoach.com and put "forensics" in the subject line. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to 3 monthly members-only episodes, advice posts, and bonus episodes. Subscribe here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach | — | ||||||
| 8/14/24 | ![]() True crime predators, break-up coaches & toxic besties | Topics discussed in the episode: Why men who insert themselves in women's spaces are often predators. Is it worthwhile to try to reconcile with an Ex? When the Female Best Friend is a red flag. The perfect first date question to ask to avoid getting into a situationship. Delete your account, Sir. A man on TikTok had a disturbing reaction to a recent video of mine where I expressed that men in women's spaces are usually predatory and exploit women's trauma. They're an Ex for a reason (14:00) How-to-get-your-ex-back coaches are a booming niche in the coaching industry. Is this kind of support more hurtful than helpful? Girl, get those deposits back! (24:26) A woman finds out her fiancee's female friend has been trying to sabotage their wedding. The one question you must ask on a first date (35:34) Are you sick of falling into situationships? We've created must-ask questions that will let you know if your date is a time-waster. Connect with us: Podcast InstagramChristan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanmTiktokYoutube Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to bi-weekly members-only episodes, advice posts, and our bi-weekly bonus episodes & Character Analysis Rewind Recap series. | — | ||||||
| 7/27/24 | ![]() Fck That Guy: Gaslighting Boyfriend Edition | Topics discussed: The patterns that motivate someone to pursue a married man or woman. How FOMO convinces average-looking people they're more desirable than they are. Gaslighting tactics used by toxic men. Co-dependent friend groups like How I Met Your Mother & Friends and why they can cause trouble for your relationship. From the "This Fucking Guy" file: Her husband wants a divorce because another woman flirted with him (12:05) Gaslighting 101 - He gave his woman bestie lingerie (31:15) Submit a dating question/rant: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question Listen to bonus episodes: Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to bi-weekly members-only episodes, advice posts, and our bi-weekly Character Analysis Rewind Recap series. https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Connect With Me: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 7/17/24 | ![]() Why Men Can No Longer Find "Real Women" | In this week's episode: Ex drama continued (3:47) When will men learn they can no longer threaten women with their absence? She wants more than a hook-up (27:52) A listener asks why men ignore certain boundaries, like when women say they aren't looking for a casual relationship. The ridiculous discourse around "mixed weight" couples (33:54) Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49) A recent article criticized Bridgerton's choice to pair stunner Nicola Houghlan with a conventionally attractive man. In response, the internet did its thing and proved "mixed weight" couples have been a thing since the invention of television. (Looking at you, Fred and Wilma Flintstone.) Apparently, it's only an issue when it's the woman who is the heavier partner in the relationship. Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49) They're probably hiding where this guy stashed his personality. Submit a dating question/rant: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question Listen to bonus episodes: Join our community as a paid subscriber for access to bi-weekly members-only episodes, advice posts, and our bi-weekly Character Analysis Rewind Recap series. https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Connect With Me: Podcast InstagramChristan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanmTiktokYoutube | — | ||||||
| 7/2/24 | ![]() Internet Boyfriends, Exposing Cheaters & Roommate Red Flag | Things we learn in this episode: Patrick Swayze was the first internet boyfriend. When men go low, Sarah goes lower. Calling yourself a "girl's girl" doesn't absolve you of shitty behavior. Straight men hate drama except when it benefits them Follow Up - Fuck That Guy It's been almost two weeks since I told my Ex I missed him and still haven't received a response. I'm officially angry. Fuck that guy for making me cry. What do we mean when we say a man is "non-threatening?" (13:03) We received a thoughtful and insightful letter from a listener regarding our old friend Alpha Dom Dating Coach. It inspired a discussion about which celebrities embody the term and why. Exposing a cheater (30:19) A viral Tiktok outing a cheater shines a light on the selfish motivation behind publicly exposing a woman's sleazy boyfriend/husband via social media. He won't introduce her to his female roommate (40:38) Red flag alert! Join our community as a paid subscriber to receive 1-3 bonus podcast episodes per month, read exclusive members-only posts like this one, and hear our bi-weekly Sex & The City Rewind Recap series. Join here. Connect With Me: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 6/22/24 | ![]() Bridgerton Bodies, Sex Maids & Clown Ex Boyfriends | Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length podcast. To listen to the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/it-was-week-of-106552875 In This Episode: Be a Clown (00:27) It's been an agonizing three days since I confessed to my Ex that I miss him. The lack of response is making me question my decision and feel utterly foolish. Writer Thinks Her Opinion Of Women's Bodies Matters (15:20) Op-Ed author Zoe Strimpel felt compelled to word-vomit a piece about how Bridgerton's Nicola Coughlan isn't hot enough to attract a conventionally attractive man. Man-Child Expects His Girlfriend To Play Housekeeper and Sex Maid (28:28) A woman wrote to columnist Carolyn Hax complaining about her spoiled boyfriend. Is he looking for a partner or a Mommy/Nanny/Sex Worker? Share your thoughts in the comments! Submit Your Dating Questions—Questions are answered on free episodes. If your letter is used on a members-only post, you will be sent the answer to your letter via email. Join our community as a paid subscriber to receive 1-3 bonus podcast episodes per month, read exclusive members-only posts like this one, and hear our bi-weekly Sex & The City Rewind Recap series. Join here. Connect With Me: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 6/14/24 | ![]() Could You Date Someone Who Cheated On An Ex? | Could you date someone who cheated on a previous partner? (01:42) We revisit an exchange between Carrie and Big about his admission of infidelity in his first marriage. The scene spawned a conversation about whether we'd ask a new mate if they'd been unfaithful and how we'd handle it if they said yes. Could you date a cheater? Vote in our poll! How do you stop romanticising a failed relationship? (14:49) A woman is having second thoughts after breaking up with her long-distance partner How does she go about dating women after years of dating men? (23:57) A listener seeks advice about navigating the dating scene as a woman looking to date women. Why do well-rounded women struggle to find a partner? (34:20) Ugh. This tired conversation about men being turned off and intimidated by self-sufficient women. Share your thoughts in the comments! Submit Your Dating Questions—Questions are answered on free episodes. If your letter is used on a members-only post, you will be sent the answer to your letter via email. GET BONUS EPISODES & EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: Join our Patreon community as a paid subscriber to receive 1-3 bonus podcast episodes per month, read exclusive members-only posts like this one, and hear our bi-weekly Sex & The City Rewind Recap series. Join here. Connect with us: Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 6/7/24 | ![]() Predictors of Long-Term Singlehood & Creepy Married Men | This episode would be perfect for #messytok. #dating #datingadvice #datinghumor To listen to our latest Sex & The City Rewind Recap Episode and get access to our bonus content, subscribe to our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Maybe Don't Try To Date When You're Married (03:42) I posted the full letter here. It's...a lot. Feel free to leave your thoughts. Ask Dateology Coach - Green Card Marriage Confusion (12:29) Predictors of Long-Term Singlehood (23:23) An article in Psychology Today examines a study regarding long-term singlehood and which personality traits are most likely to contribute to this outcome. Should She Dog Sit Her Ex's Dog While He Travels With His New Girlfriend? (41:25) Submit Your Dating Questions Connect With Us Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 5/24/24 | ![]() How Social Media Is Messing Up Your Love Life | Listener Letter - This Is What Decentering Men Looks Like (05:41) So, I've been seeing this girl for 2 months. We're hitting it off really well. I'm 30+ and this is the first time in a long long time I think we could have a future together. The problem is I'm only seeing her like once every 3-4 weeks. We've seen each other 3 times by now and last time also had s*x. Everything is there, the connection, the intimacy, the attraction... I really like her. But she's currently in therapy and admits that maybe she shouldn't have started dating yet but wasn't expecting to find someone she'd bond with like me so quickly. Next to therapy (2 days a week) she still works (3 days a week), which I respect a lot. But in the weekends her (social) battery has run out and she's not able to see anyone. This will probably go on for more than a year and I don't know what to do... Also when it comes to emotions, I wear my heart on my sleeve (INFP) and she's the opposite (INTP). This causes some problems too sometimes but nothing big. Our communication is also very open and we can talk about everything. But sometimes she disconnects from the world for 2 days. I can understand but it makes me feel like I'm just a tool to use whenever she's up for it. Don't get me wrong, I want to support her in the process of therapy, I've been there myself. But sometimes it's hard. I want to settle and that's not going to happen for the coming year(s). One day I'm prepared to wait that long and the next day I'm not. It's weird to ask this to you, I have never done that before because I'm a very intuitive person. But what would you do? Listener Letter - Instagram Dating Dillema (15:23) Hello, I'm interested in your opinion. A week ago I unfollowed my ex from Instagram. I still have feelings for him, we ended up on good terms but he doesn't seem to be doing anything about reaching out to me. Actually he did reach out a few times in these few years, but nothing significant in my opinion. And so it ended that I unfollowed him and removed him from my followers. What do you think about my action? (and what he might be thinking) Basically, I really don't know how I feel about this, like it's him watching all my activities and stories all the time but never reached out in a serious way. So in closure, I thought okay...if you don't want anything serious why would I give you the pleasure of knowing what is going on in my life right now. He's Intimidated By Her Social Media Presence (25:33) On a second date, a man grills Tiktoker StaceyDee about her social media presence. We discuss ways to avoid these kinds of awkward conversations and how much information you should provide in the first few dates. Submit Your Dating Questions Connect With Us Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
| 5/17/24 | ![]() Bumble's Fumble - Are Singles Done With Dating Apps? | Please rate us five stars on Spotify! Listen to our exclusive bonus episodes on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Listener Question - Who Pays For The Uber? (01:36) Am I the asshole for thinking she was actually using this man for his money? https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMMvBSbRR/ Should a man give you a ride or pay for your Uber when you spent the night with him? Should he walk you home(if you live nearby) or walk you to your car/stop? Bumble's Fumble (08:10) If you're a dating app user and on any social media platform, you've probably heard about Bumble's disastrous re-branding campaign. Women across the interwebs collectively pushed back on their anti-celibacy messaging. The groundswell of criticism was so overwhelming that Bumble issued an apology. Well, an "apology." This Bumble Fumble shined a light on just how done women are with the apps and dating as a whole. Listener Question - Should She Meet Up With Her Ex? (28:37) Connect With Us Podcast Instagram Christan’s Instagram & Threads @thechristanm Tiktok Youtube | — | ||||||
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