Confessions of a Dog Trainer

In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, I’m sharing the real story behind the book I didn’t plan on writing - and why e-collar training became the thing I couldn’t stop thinking about.After posting a few videos on Facebook and getting flooded with negative comments, I almost stopped sharing about e-collars altogether. But instead of getting defensive, something shifted. I got curious.This episode breaks down the biggest misconceptions I see about e-collar training - the ones that keep so many dog owners stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure of what to trust.If you’ve ever felt confused, hesitant, or judged for even considering an e-collar… this is for you.In this episode, I talk about:Why I started writing my next book (working title: The Truth About E-Collar Training)The impact of negative comments on social media - and how it shifted my perspectiveHow curiosity changed the way I respond to criticismThe real goal behind this book: helping owners feel less confused and more confident“It’s a shock collar” Why that label is misleading and doesn’t reflect how modern e-collars are actually used“It electrocutes dogs” What e-collars actually are (muscle stimulation, similar to a TENS unit) and how they work“It’s a shortcut or lazy training” Why e-collar training actually requires more intention, structure, and consistency - not lessWhy saying “the e-collar doesn’t cause discomfort” can actually do more harm than goodThe importance of honesty and nuance when talking about training toolsThe 3 Biggest E-Collar Misconceptions:Bonus Misconception:Show Notes:Resources Mentioned:My book Dear Owner (available on Amazon)E-Collar Starter GuideReactive Dog Handbook (E-Collar Training for Reactive Dogs)Separation Anxiety Guide30-minute coaching / reassurance calls

In today’s episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, I’m bringing you behind the scenes with Hazel - a sweet, houndy little “Bambi body” dog who’s fearful of people and famous for one frustrating walk habit: putting on the brakes and refusing to move.I’m sharing what I expected when she arrived, what I actually saw, and the biggest game-changer in her training so far - including why the dial-up method on the e-collar didn’t work for her the way it usually does, and why a prong collar ended up being the missing piece to help her stop freezing and start moving forward.We’ll also talk about one of my favorite confidence-building frameworks for nervous dogs: job + exposure (and exactly what that looked like for Hazel this week), how my dog Johnny helped her warm up to my husband without anyone forcing an interaction, and what “real progress” looks like when you’re living with a fearful dog (hint: it’s usually subtle - and easy to miss if you don’t know what to watch for).Plus, I answer Hazel’s owner’s questions about measuring progress at home, nervous pooping, and whether running with a dog like Hazel is a good idea - and I touch briefly on Azula’s update, including why tools aren’t about “correcting dogs all over the place,” but about clear communication and safer, calmer outings.If you have a nervous dog and you’ve ever wondered, Am I doing this right? - this one’s for you.Products & ResourcesBook: ⁠⁠Dear Owner⁠⁠ (⁠⁠Amazon link⁠⁠)⁠⁠Dog Diary Desk Calendar ⁠⁠⁠⁠E-Collar Starter Guide ⁠⁠⁠E Collar Video Library ⁠⁠Brick device - get 10% off code⁠⁠Find me on Instagram @walkingdogtraining

In this episode, Bethany breaks down how e-collar training can look totally different depending on the dog in front of you - and why it’s not a one-size-fits-all tool. She shares what she’s currently working on with Nola (a pushy 9-month-old Frenchie), what she’s preparing for with her first-ever Cup of Joe Scholarship board + train (a big, powerful, highly reactive dog already e-collar trained), and how her approach shifts for a dog who is extremely fearful of people.Bethany walks you through her real-time thought process: how she handles drop-off day, why she ignores nervy dogs at first, what she’s watching for with kennel behavior, and how she thinks about safety and fit as a trainer. She also explains her framework for using the e-collar as both a boundary setter (stimulation - “red light”) and an encouraging guide (tone - “green light”), especially for fearful dogs where fleeing becomes the default option.To wrap up, she answers three common questions owners ask: pairing “no” with stimulation, heeling vs potty needs, and how to handle judgment when your dog wears a muzzle - with a reminder that most people who get it are quietly rooting for you.Products & ResourcesBook: ⁠Dear Owner⁠ (⁠Amazon link⁠)⁠Dog Diary Desk Calendar ⁠⁠E-Collar Starter Guide ⁠E Collar Video Library Brick device - get 10% off codeFind me on Instagram @walkingdogtraining

Two reactive dogs. Two very different personalities. In this episode, I walk you through what I’ve been prioritizing with Toast and Ozzy during their first few days of training, how I use the e-collar for both reactivity and recall, and why understanding “pushy” moments matters more than where reactivity stems from.I’m sharing behind-the-scenes updates, breakthroughs with tone + stim, and how one correction helped Toast soften in a way that reminded me why I love this work. Plus: a little life update, a sprinkle of grief, and some lessons from my chickens.This one’s for the dog owner who wants to better understand their reactive dog, and the trainer who’s ever wondered if they’re doing it right.Resources mentioned:→ E-Collar Starter Guide (now $50 off!)→ Reactive Dog Handbook→ Guide to Separation Anxiety→ Instagram Highlights: Toast & Ozzy @walkingdogtraining🎧 Let me know what resonated over on IG!

If you’ve got a little dog with big energy, this episode is for you. I’m talking through real-life lessons from recent board and train dogs - including a spicy little Frenchie named Valentina - and what surprised me about her reactivity and E-Collar training.I’m also sharing a heartfelt update on the book I’m writing (Dear Owner), how grief shaped the timing, and why it feels more important than ever to share the stories that have shaped me (and my training).Plus:When to upgrade from a Micro to a Mini EducatorThe mindset shift that helps owners stop underwhelming their dogsWhy sustainability in training matters more than perfectionHow one message from an owner brought me to tears (in the best way)If you’ve ever felt stuck, second-guessed your training, or wondered if you were doing it “wrong,” this one’s for you.Resources Mentioned in This Episode:🐾 Free 7-Day Reset Guide🐾 Place Command Starter Guide🐾 Free Reactivity Guide🐾 E-Collar Starter Guide + Video Library🐾 Separation Anxiety Guide🐾 Reactive Dog HandbookConnect with me on Instagram: @walkingdogtrainingLet me know what resonated with you — I love hearing from you.

In this episode, Bethany discusses the training journey of Jax, an anxious Australian Shepherd. She shares insights on managing his whiny behavior, the effectiveness of the e-collar, and the importance of establishing calm routines. Bethany emphasizes the owner's role in continuing the training at home and offers practical advice for dog owners dealing with similar challenges. In this conversation, Bethany discusses effective dog training techniques, emphasizing the importance of establishing calm routines, consistency, and structure in a dog's life. She shares insights on how to manage anxious behaviors, the significance of giving dogs jobs to help them relax, and the necessity of navigating messy moments during training sessions. Bethany also highlights the need for tailored approaches based on individual dog behaviors and the positive impact of calmness on a dog's overall happiness.Resources for YOU:7-Day Reset FreebieE Collar Starter GuideTraining Guide BundlesCoaching Calls (aka Reassurance Calls)Where I got my favorite coffee cup

Show Notes:Go Home Guide TemplateCoaching Sessions (aka Reassurance Calls)The Trainer In You Mastermind- Apply for the next one in May!I hope this episode inspires you! - Bethany

In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany discusses the significance of follow-up visits after a board and train program, emphasizing the importance of owner involvement in dog training. She shares insights on e-collar training, addressing common misconceptions and providing practical advice for managing dog reactivity. Through a real-life case study, Bethany illustrates how to effectively use e-collars while boosting a dog's confidence and ensuring a positive training experience. In this conversation, Bethany discusses the effective use of e-collars in dog training, emphasizing the importance of understanding the dog's behavior and the owner's role in the training process. She highlights the significance of follow-up visits, setting realistic expectations for owners, and providing them with the necessary resources to ensure success after training. The conversation also addresses common challenges faced by owners, such as reactivity and vocalization, and offers insights into navigating these issues with confidence and clarity.Training Resources:E Collar Starter Guide + VideosReactive Dog Training BundleGuide to Separation AnxietyNEW Go Home Guide Template for trainers!

In this episode of Confessions of Dog Trainer, Bethany discusses the essential aspects of bringing a new dog or puppy home, including the importance of crate training, managing puppy behavior, and insights into e-collar training. She shares personal experiences, coaching session takeaways, and practical tips for new dog owners, emphasizing the significance of structure and routine in dog training. In this conversation, Bethany discusses various aspects of dog training, focusing on introducing puppies to older dogs, setting boundaries for resource guarding, and the importance of individual attention for multiple dogs. She emphasizes the use of e-collar training, the significance of establishing structure, and strategies to prevent leash reactivity. Throughout the discussion, Bethany shares personal anecdotes and practical tips for dog owners to enhance their training experience and foster positive relationships with their pets.Podcast resources:E Collar Starter GuideReactive Dog HandbookGuide to Separation AnxietyTraining Guide BundlesEpisode Chapters:02:50 E-Collar Training Insights05:46 Coping with Loss and Grief09:05 Owner Coaching Session Takeaways12:00 Bringing a New Dog or Puppy Home14:56 Crate Training Essentials17:45 Managing Puppy Behavior21:03 Introducing Puppies to Older Dogs33:25 Setting Boundaries and Structure for Resource Guarding35:24 Individual Time and Attention for Multiple Dogs38:18 Training Basics Before E-Collar Introduction42:41 E-Collar Training Insights and Recommendations47:10 Preventing Leash Reactivity and Managing Hyperactivity

In this episode of Confessions of a Dog Trainer, Bethany is joined by Heather and Kuryne from Pawsitively Calm. They discuss their experiences in dog training, the importance of vulnerability, and how to find joy in the work. The conversation touches on the challenges of training difficult dogs, the significance of mindset, and the empowerment of dog owners. They also share personal anecdotes about their connections and the lessons learned throughout their training journeys. In this engaging conversation, Kuryne and Heather discuss the nuances of dog training, focusing on building connections, community support, and effective strategies for managing reactive dogs. They emphasize the importance of small adjustments in training and the power of e-collar training, while also addressing the social dynamics within the dog training profession. The discussion highlights the significance of changing associations and empowering dog owners with practical tips to enhance their training experience.Be sure to follow @pawsitivelycalm on Instagram where Kuryne and Heather share so much of the training process and helpful tips for owners.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Connections02:51 The Power of Vulnerability in Training05:56 Finding Joy in Dog Training09:08 The Importance of Mindset12:13 The Long Game in Dog Training15:00 Empowering Owners Through Training18:00 Difficult Cases and Their Lessons21:00 The Role of Patience in Training24:10 Expectations vs. Reality in Training27:05 Feedback vs. Setbacks29:57 Lessons Learned from Training Experiences41:50 Building Connections and Relationships44:15 Navigating the Dog Training Landscape47:07 The Importance of Community in Dog Training50:49 Overcoming Social Anxiety in Professional Settings55:32 Effective Strategies for Reactive Dogs01:01:08 Changing Dog Behavior Through Small Adjustments01:04:15 The Power of E-Collar Training01:10:15 Creating Positive Associations with Training01:13:05 Empowering Owners with Small ChangesShow notes and resources for continued education:E Collar Starter GuideReactive Dog HandbookThe Guide to Separation AnxietyDog Training Guide BundlesOur favorite hands-free leashes

In this episode, Bethany addresses common struggles and questions about using e-collars for reactivity in dogs. She emphasizes the importance of timing and using meaningful levels to interrupt reactive moments. Bethany also discusses the challenges of staying calm as a handler and offers tips for managing adrenaline and anxiety. She dispels the misconception that e-collars escalate reactivity, explaining that it's how the tool is used that matters. Bethany encourages owners to reflect on their levels and be willing to dial up to find what is meaningful for their dog. She concludes by reminding listeners to be patient and consistent in their training.Show Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Overview06:10 Addressing Timing and Meaningful Levels20:09 Staying Calm as a Handler27:36 Dispelling the Myth of E-Collars Escalating Reactivity32:55 The Role of Experience and Confidence in E-Collar Training39:07 Reflecting on Levels: Finding What is Meaningful for Your DogUnlock the Power of E Collar Training with My E Collar Starter Guide!Are you struggling with your dog’s reactivity, anxiety, or pushy behavior? You’re not alone, and the good news is that there’s a solution! My E Collar Starter Guide is your step-by-step roadmap to transforming your dog's behavior and building a stronger, healthier relationship with your furry friend.In this guide, you'll learn:How to introduce the e collar to your dog in a safe, effective, and humane way.Proven strategies for addressing common behavioral issues like leash reactivity, barking, and boundary-pushing.Tips to boost your dog’s confidence and improve their overall mindset.Practical exercises you can start implementing today to see real results!Whether you're new to e collar training or looking for ways to enhance your current training routine, this guide gives you the tools and confidence to enjoy more with your dog.Don’t wait! Get your E Collar Starter Guide now and take the first step towards a calmer, more balanced life with your dog.Our FREE Owner ResourcesE Collar Starter Cheat SheetsPlace Command Cheat Sheets7-Day Reset Freebie30-Minute Coaching (Reassurance) Calls:Feel Confident, Empowered, and Ready to SucceedAre you feeling unsure about your dog’s training progress or struggling to get consistent results? My 30-Minute Reassurance Calls are designed to give you the guidance and confidence you need to move forward with clarity.During our call, we’ll:Discuss any challenges you’re facing with your dog’s behavior or training.Provide personalized advice and actionable steps tailored to your dog’s specific needs.Address any concerns you have about training methods, including e collar usage, and ensure you feel confident in your approach.These calls are more than just advice—they’re a source of reassurance that you’re on the right track. By the end of the session, you’ll feel more empowered and ready to continue your journey toward a better relationship with your dog.Book your call today and let’s work together to unlock the best version of your dog!

In this episode, Bethany shares her experience and tips for introducing a new dog to existing dogs in the household. She discusses the importance of taking it slow, setting boundaries, and using movement during introductions. She also talks about the role of temperament and how to recognize signs that the introduction is not going well. The host emphasizes the need to trust your gut and take your time with the process. She also addresses questions about introducing reactive dogs and whether dogs should be on leashes during introductions.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background03:24 Thought Process Behind Introductions11:01 Personal Experiences and Tips for Socializing Dogs20:36 Introducing Dogs with Different Personalities28:18 Introducing Dogs with Reactivity37:01 Choosing the Best Place for Introductions41:04 Interrupting with the E-collar and Walking vs Coexisting

In this episode, Bethany discusses the importance of understanding a dog's personality when it comes to e-collar training. She shares her own experiences with different dogs and how they can impact the training process. Bethany also provides three key tips for those who are new to e-collar training: prioritize place time after an active session, remember that less is more when it comes to training sessions, and consider scheduling a virtual coaching session for extra help. She emphasizes the importance of serving and supporting owners throughout the training process.Show notes:Virtual (Reassurance) Coaching Sessions: https://walkingdogtraining.com/virtual-sessionE-Collar Training Guides: https://walkingdogtraining.com/shop00:00 Introduction and Gratitude07:55 The Impact of Dog Personality in E Collar Training29:38 Three Essential Tips for Owners New to E Collar Training38:09 The Power of Serving and Supporting Owners in Training