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EP 67 Why Some Kids Can’t Sit Still (And It’s Not What You Think) with Dr. Christine Payard
Jun 24, 2026
53m 46s
Ep 66 Don’t Be an Easy Target with Damian Porter
Jun 10, 2026
56m 52s
Ep 65 They’re Not Leaving You - They’re Just Doing a Lap with Michelle Mitchell
May 27, 2026
49m 33s
EP 64 Building healthy digital habits and relationships with Jocelyn Brewer
May 13, 2026
55m 13s
Ep 63 Sometimes "just one more" is all we need with Brooke McIntosh
Apr 29, 2026
57m 23s
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| 6/24/26 |  EP 67 Why Some Kids Can’t Sit Still (And It’s Not What You Think) with Dr. Christine Payard | In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi sits down with neurodevelopment specialist and educator Dr. Christine Payard to explore something many parents and teachers have never been taught - how early physical development shapes the way children learn. Dr. Christine explains how the body and brain work together during the earliest years of life, and how movements such as rolling, crawling, balancing, and reflex responses play a foundational role in learning, attention, reading, and behaviour later on. Together, Kristi and Dr. Christine unpack the concept of primitive reflexes - automatic movement responses present from birth - and how these reflexes help build the neurological pathways that support learning. When these reflexes don’t fully mature, children may struggle with things like sitting still, focusing, reading, or coordinating their movements. This conversation challenges the idea that children who struggle in school simply “aren’t trying hard enough.” Instead, it encourages parents and educators to consider what a child’s body might be communicating about their learning needs. Kristi and Dr. Christine also discuss why many children are quickly labelled with behavioural or attention challenges, when in reality their nervous system may still be developing foundational skills that support learning. This episode is not about blame - for parents, teachers, or children. It’s about understanding development, recognising what children’s bodies are telling us, and supporting them to thrive. Content Covered in This Episode What primitive reflexes are and why they matter in early development How early movement patterns influence learning later in life Why some children physically struggle to sit still or concentrate The connection between balance, vision, and reading ability How retained reflexes can impact attention, behaviour, and coordination Why children often develop creative workarounds when learning is difficult The importance of crawling, movement, and sensory development How educators can better understand what behaviour may be communicating Why supporting the body-brain connection can improve learning outcomes Why This Conversation Matters Many children who struggle in classrooms are quickly labelled as disruptive, inattentive, or difficult. But as Dr. Christine explains, behaviour is often the body communicating something important. When children haven’t fully integrated early movement patterns or reflexes, their nervous systems may still be working hard just to regulate movement, balance, or focus. This means far less energy is available for academic learning. Understanding the body-brain connection can help educators and parents shift from asking: “What’s wrong with this child?” to asking: “What might this child’s body be telling us?” When we understand how development works, we can support children in ways that build confidence, resilience, and learning capacity. About Dr. Christine Payard Dr. Christine Payard is an educator, researcher, and neurodevelopment specialist who works with schools and educators to help them better understand how early development impacts learning. Her work focuses on the connection between movement, reflex development, sensory systems, and academic learning, helping teachers identify underlying developmental factors that may influence behaviour and learning in the classroom. Dr. Christine is the creator of the Body to Brain Learning at School program, which provides educators with practical tools and strategies to support children’s neurological readiness for learning. Learn More About Dr. Christine’s Work 🌐 Website https://bodytobrainlearning.com 📱 Social Media Instagram/Facebook: @bodytobrainlearning 💼 LinkedIn Dr. Christine Payard Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about parenting, boundaries, or guiding children through adolescence, Kristi offers trauma-informed education and practical tools for parents and carers. 🔗 Explore education and resources:👉 www.kristimcvee.com Resources include: Guidance on connection-based parenting Tools for teaching children advocacy and self-expression Conversation guides for families Trauma-informed strategies for resilience and safety Support Services (Australia) If you or someone you love needs support: Lifeline – 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.au MensLine Australia – 1300 78 99 78 | mensline.org.au 1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.au Kids Helpline (ages 5–25) – 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services. | 53m 46s | ||||||
| 6/10/26 |  Ep 66 Don’t Be an Easy Target with Damian Porter | In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi is joined by Damian Porter, also known as The How Not To Die Guy, for a powerful, practical conversation about situational awareness, self-protection, bravery, and what it really means to prepare for unsafe situations. With a background in the New Zealand Army, including Special Forces, policing in Western Australia, and over 15 years as a firefighter, Damian brings lived experience from high-risk environments - but what stands out most is his grounded, teachable approach to helping everyday people stay safer. This is not a fear-based conversation.It’s a preparation-based one. Kristi and Damian unpack why most people freeze in dangerous situations, how practice changes reaction time, and why “hypervigilance” isn’t the goal - awareness is. They explore how violence often arrives as a surprise, why ego can escalate risk, and how simple behavioural shifts - like using your voice, creating distance, or taking early action - can interrupt harm. The episode also bridges their shared work in child safety and prevention. They discuss: Teaching children to recognise unsafe behaviour Practicing “emergency no” and using your voice The power of situational awareness in everyday settings How offenders rely on silence, compliance, and disbelief Why most perpetrators avoid resistance and exposure How bravery is a choice - not a personality trait Damian shares practical frameworks for handling threats, from verbal deterrence to physical self-defence, while Kristi connects those principles to child protection, early warning signs, and empowering families. Together, they reinforce a simple truth: Preparation reduces panic.Practice reduces freezing.Bravery is chosen in seconds. This episode is about building files in your brain - so if something ever feels “off,” you already know your next step. Key Themes Covered Situational awareness without hypervigilance Why violence is often unexpected The biology of fight, flight, freeze, and fawn Practicing responses before you need them Using your voice as a deterrent Creating distance and changing positioning When force is legally justified - and when it isn’t Staying alive, staying out of jail, and managing aftermath Teaching children about safe and unsafe people Domestic violence safety planning Why ego escalates risk Choosing bravery in critical moments Why This Conversation Matters Many people walk through life believing, “It won’t happen to me.” But safety is not about paranoia - it’s about preparation. Children benefit when adults model awareness and confident boundary-setting. Families are safer when they’ve had conversations about what to do if something feels wrong. Adults are more capable when they’ve mentally rehearsed scenarios before they occur. This episode reminds us that: You don’t have to live in fear.But you do need a plan. And bravery isn’t about being fearless - it’s about choosing action when it counts. About Damian Porter – The How Not To Die Guy Damian Porter is a former New Zealand Special Forces soldier, police officer, firefighter, and long-time instructor in practical self-protection. Through his platform, How Not To Die Guy, Damian teaches everyday people - including women, elderly individuals, parents, and children - how to: Avoid dangerous situations Recognise early warning signs Use verbal deterrence effectively Protect themselves when necessary Understand legal considerations around force His mission is simple: teach good people how to handle bad situations. 🔗 Website:👉 https://www.hownottodieguy.com 📱 Instagram:👉 @hownottodieguy Damian responds personally to messages and inquiries. Practical Support & Resources If this episode has raised questions about child safety, boundary setting, prevention, or building safer family environments, Kristi offers trauma-informed education and practical tools for parents and carers. 🔗 Explore education and resources:👉 www.kristimcvee.com Resources include: Body safety education tools Conversation guides for families Support for teaching children to use their voice Trauma-informed strategies for prevention Guidance on safe and unsafe behaviours Support Services (Australia) If you or someone you love needs support: Lifeline – 13 11 14 | lifeline.org.auMensLine Australia – 1300 78 99 78 | mensline.org.au1800RESPECT – 1800 737 732 | 1800respect.org.auKids Helpline (ages 5–25) – 1800 55 1800 | kidshelpline.com.au If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services. | 56m 52s | ||||||
| 5/27/26 |  Ep 65 They’re Not Leaving You - They’re Just Doing a Lap with Michelle Mitchell✨ | parentingconnection+5 | Michelle Mitchell | Conversations with Kristi | — | parenting expertresilience+5 | — | 49m 33s | |
| 5/13/26 |  EP 64 Building healthy digital habits and relationships with Jocelyn Brewer✨ | digital habitsparenting+4 | Jocelyn Brewer | Digital Nutrition | — | digital wellbeingparenting+5 | — | 55m 13s | |
| 4/29/26 |  Ep 63 Sometimes "just one more" is all we need with Brooke McIntosh✨ | mental healthcourage+4 | Brooke McIntosh | Just One More | — | mental healthcourage+5 | — | 57m 23s | |
| 4/15/26 |  Ep 62 The Value of a Gap Year with Dr. Justin Coulson✨ | raising boysresilience+4 | Dr. Justin Coulson | Happy Families | — | gap yearraising boys+5 | — | 46m 20s | |
| 4/1/26 |  Ep 61 The challenges parents face discussing tough topics with Kimberly King✨ | child safetyparenting challenges+4 | Kimberly King | Tough Topics Mom | — | child safetyparenting+5 | — | 49m 02s | |
| 3/18/26 |  Ep 60 Your Baby Isn’t Giving You a Hard Time - They’re Having a Hard Time with Monique Christidis✨ | infant developmentparenting+4 | Monique Christidis | BaaBaa Baby | — | infant communicationcrying+4 | — | 1h 00m 13s | |
| 3/4/26 |  EP 59 Why Connection Comes Before Protection with Neil Milton✨ | connectionchild protection+4 | Neil Milton | The Table Talk Project | — | childhood sexual abusesafe relationships+5 | — | 53m 59s | |
| 2/18/26 |  Ep 58 Supporting our neurodivergent families with Sharon Collon✨ | neurodiversityADHD+4 | Sharon Collon | The Functional FamilyADHD Families Podcast | — | neurodiversityADHD+5 | — | 1h 11m 39s | |
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| 2/4/26 |  Ep 57 The Ripple Effect of Abuse with Rosalia Rivera✨ | child safetyabuse prevention+4 | Rosalia Rivera | Consent Parenting | — | childhood sexual abuseparenting+4 | — | 52m 49s | |
| 1/21/26 |  Ep 56 When adults stay silent, kids pay the price with Andrew Goss✨ | childhood abusefamily violence+4 | Andrew Goss | — | — | childhood sexual abusedomestic violence+4 | — | 52m 18s | |
| 1/7/26 |  S3 Ep14 - Parental Awareness on Child Safety with Vanessa Hamilton✨ | child safetysexual violence+4 | Vanessa Hamilton | — | — | child safetysexual violence+5 | — | 32m 44s | |
| 12/17/25 |  S3 Ep13 - Navigating the Digital Landscape with Trent Ray✨ | digital generationtechnology education+3 | Trent Ray | — | — | digital landscapetechnology+6 | — | 38m 11s | |
| 12/3/25 |  S3 Ep12 - The Rise of AI Deepfakes and Child Exploitation with Ben Gillenwater✨ | AI deepfakeschild exploitation+4 | Ben Gillenwater | Conversations with Kristi | — | child exploitationAI deepfakes+5 | — | 1h 08m 02s | |
| 11/19/25 |  S3 Ep11 - The Impact of Trauma on Identity with Jessica Ella | Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we delve into the profound impact of trauma on identity, particularly for women as Jessica Ella shares her profound journey of healing from childhood sexual abuse. Jess discusses her unique approach to trauma recovery, emphasising the importance of understanding complex trauma and its impact on identity. She recounts her personal experiences of abuse, the challenges of navigating family dynamics, and the power of disclosure. The conversation highlights the flaws in the justice system and the necessity of support systems for survivors. Ultimately, Jessica's message is one of empowerment and hope, encouraging others to reclaim their power and heal from their past. Takeaways: Jessica Ella's journey into healing began from her own trauma. She developed a unique method to help others heal from trauma. Complex trauma can significantly affect one's identity and self-worth. The act of abuse is often less traumatic than the secrecy surrounding it. Disclosure is a powerful tool for survivors to reclaim their narrative. Family dynamics play a crucial role in the experience of abuse. Support systems are essential for healing and recovery. The justice system often fails to protect victims of familial abuse. Survivors can choose how to respond to their abusers. Healing is possible, and it requires a commitment to self-discovery. Healing is a continuous journey that requires daily commitment. Children often mirror the behaviors of their parents, triggering unresolved issues. Seeking justice can be a complex and emotional process. Empowerment comes from healing and helping others. Trauma can be understood as an open memory that needs closure. Creating safe spaces for children to express their feelings is crucial. Parents must address their own trauma to effectively support their children. It's important to communicate openly with children about difficult topics. Healing from trauma is possible and does not define a person's future. Resources and education are vital for both parents and children. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Jessica Ella's Journey 03:09 - Healing Through Trauma: Jessica's Methodology 07:08 - Understanding Complex Trauma and Identity 10:24 - Jessica's Personal Story of Abuse 13:59 - The Impact of Abuse on Mental Health 17:38 - The Power of Healing and Self-Discovery 22:08 - The Dynamics of Power in Abuse 24:23 - The Role of Family in Trauma 27:46 - Recognising Red Flags in Abusive Relationships 29:51 - The Challenges of Family Court and Child Support 31:07 - Trust Issues with the Justice System 32:12 - The Complexity of Child Disclosure 34:08 - Factors Influencing Child Recantation 35:51 - The Confusion of Love and Abuse 37:21 - The Child's Need for Parental Love 40:08 - The Impact of Parental Abuse on Self-Love 42:15 - The Betrayal of Trust in Family Dynamics 44:06 - Navigating the Justice System 47:37 - Finding Empowerment Beyond Trauma 51:53 - Understanding Trauma and Healing Methods 55:54 - Understanding Trauma and Memory Processing 01:00:59 - Navigating Difficult Conversations with Children 01:05:19 - Healing from Complex Trauma 01:09:34 - Supporting Children After Trauma Disclosure 01:12:19 - Resources for Parents and Caregivers 01:16:07 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/zl2VFsIw8qA To learn more and connect with Jess please head to her Instagram @iamjessicaella and you can grab a copy of the book "Secret or Surprise" at https://www.secretorsurprise.com.au | 1h 17m 00s | ||||||
| 9/2/25 |  Series 3 - Special Episode, Child Safety in Early Education: A Critical Discussion with Chey Carter | Summary In this special episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kristi McVee and Cheyenne Carter discuss the critical issues surrounding child safety in early childhood education. They explore Chey's journey in the field, the impact of COVID on childcare quality, and the importance of transparency and communication between parents and childcare providers. The conversation delves into the dynamics of grooming and abuse, the psychological aspects of offenders, and the need for better training and support for educators. Parents are encouraged to be vigilant and proactive in ensuring their children's safety, while also understanding the systemic challenges faced by educators. The episode concludes with actionable steps for parents to take in assessing childcare environments and reporting concerns. Takeaways Child safety must be prioritised in childcare settings. COVID has exacerbated challenges in early childhood education. Grooming behaviours are often subtle and manipulative. Parents should be proactive in asking questions about childcare. Transparency from childcare providers is crucial for trust. Staff ratios and breaks are essential for child safety. CCTV can assist but is not a comprehensive solution. Legislative gaps exist in childcare safety regulations. Understanding offender psychology can help in prevention. Parents should feel empowered to report concerns. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Child Safety Concerns 02:28 - Chey's Journey in Early Childhood Education 04:25 - Consulting for Better Standards in Education 06:18 - The Importance of Child Safety in Education 07:39 - Kristi's Background in Child Protection 11:19 - Understanding Grooming Behaviours 12:02 - Identifying Patterns Among Offenders 12:28 - The Role of Grooming in Abuse 14:31 - Creating Safe Relationships in Childcare 19:15 - Staffing Ratios and Child Safety 22:01 - The Role of CCTV in Child Safety 23:35 - Legislation and Child Safety Measures 26:23 - Working with Children's Checks and Their Limitations 29:14 - The Psychology of Offenders and Child Safety 31:28 - The Impact of Early Exposure to Inappropriate Content 34:55 - Understanding Different Types of Offenders 36:24 - Ensuring Child Safety in Educational Settings 38:51 - Parental Vigilance and Transparency in Childcare 41:47 - Navigating Compliance and Regulatory Standards 45:15 - The Importance of Consistency in Regulatory Practices 49:37 - Empowering Parents and Educators to Report Concerns 52:40 - Advocating for Better Support for Educators 01:00:19 - Episode Close & Follow-Up Information For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at To learn more and connect with Chey please head to https://www.divergented.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/cheyannecarter/?originalSubdomain=au | 1h 01m 10s | ||||||
| 8/4/25 |  S3 Ep10 - From Survivor to Advocate: Jeanie Dean's Journey | Episode Summary: In this heartfelt conversation, Kristi McVee and Jeanie Dean discuss Jeanie's journey from being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse to becoming an advocate for child safeguarding. They explore the challenges of coping with trauma, the impact of addiction, and the importance of supportive relationships. Jeanie shares her experiences working with sex offenders and in child protection, emphasising the need to see the person behind the behaviour. The conversation also touches on parenting through trauma and the struggle to break cycles of abuse, ultimately highlighting the journey of self-discovery and healing. In this conversation, Jeanie and Kristi delve into the complexities of child protection, discussing systemic failures, personal trauma, and the importance of creating safe environments for children. They emphasise the role of organisations and parents in safeguarding children, the need for open communication, and the community's responsibility in ensuring child safety. The discussion highlights the challenges faced by professionals in the field and the necessity for proactive measures to protect vulnerable individuals. Key Takeaways: Jeanie is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and family violence. Coping mechanisms often lead to unhealthy behaviours, such as drug use. Arrest can serve as a turning point for change and self-reflection. Supportive relationships can be life-saving and transformative. Parenting through trauma requires awareness and intentionality to break cycles. Understanding child safeguarding is crucial for protecting vulnerable individuals. Working with sex offenders requires separating the person from their behaviour. Therapy and self-discovery are essential for healing from trauma. Labels like 'victim' can be triggering and limiting for survivors. Personal growth involves accepting oneself without needing a title. Systemic failures in child protection lead to repeated trauma. Personal experiences shape professional choices in child welfare. Creating child safe environments is essential for community organisations. Organisations must understand their legal duties regarding child safety. Parents should actively inquire about child safety policies in organisations. Older children face unique risks that require vigilant supervision. Open communication is crucial for safeguarding children. Community responsibility is vital in creating safe environments for kids. Education and awareness are key for parents in safeguarding their children. Child safety policies must be actively lived and enforced within organisations. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Personal Challenges05:28 - Coping Mechanisms and Consequences09:17 - Turning Point: Arrest and Realisations12:33 - Building a Life Together17:30 - Breaking Cycles: Parenting and Self-Reflection21:50 - Navigating Parenting Challenges26:18 - Career Path: From Personal Struggles to Professional Advocacy30:23 - The Complexity of Working with Offenders34:01 - Navigating Personal Bias in Professional Roles38:05 - The Challenges of Child Protection43:17 - The Systemic Failures in Child Safety48:10 - Creating Safe Environments for Children56:51 - Trust and Disillusionment in Public Service57:51 - Bridging the Gap in Public Service58:42 - The Reality of Child Protection Work01:00:57 - Navigating the Justice System for Children01:02:29 - Expectations for Child Safety in Organisations01:04:26 - Empowering Parents for Child Safety01:06:21 - Understanding Risks for Older Children01:08:05 - Meeting Children Where They Are01:10:13 - Creating Safe Spaces for Disclosure01:12:21 - Safeguarding Starts at Home01:14:03 - Community Responsibility in Child Safety01:15:47 - Policies and Culture in Organisations01:17:34 - Observing Organisational Culture01:19:43 - Intergenerational Culture in Sports01:22:02 - Accountability in Child Safety01:23:57 - The Importance of Compliance01:26:31 - The Role of Safeguarding Solutions01:27:42 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/GGJWDiFTm9Y To learn more and connect with Jeanie please head to https://safeguardingsolutions.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/jeanie-dean-90a46483 | 1h 22m 39s | ||||||
| 7/21/25 |  S3 Ep9 - Empowering Children Through Storytelling with Kerri Sloper | Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Kerri Sloper shares her journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and her mission to empower children and parents through her children's books. Kerri discusses the healing power of music and writing, the importance of speaking out, and the role of parents in preventing abuse. She emphasises the need for open communication about good and bad touching and how her books serve as tools for healing and understanding. The conversation highlights the significance of breaking the cycle of abuse and fostering a safe environment for children. Key Takeaways: Kerri Sloper is a musician and author who writes children's books about her experiences with childhood sexual abuse. Her books aim to help both children and adult survivors relate to their experiences and find healing. Music and writing have been crucial coping strategies for Kerri throughout her healing journey. Kerri emphasises the importance of speaking out about abuse to help others heal. She believes that forgiveness is an internal journey that does not require forgiving the abuser. Kerri's books are designed to be relatable for children and to help them understand their feelings about abuse. Parents play a vital role in preventing abuse by trusting their instincts and believing their children. Teaching children about good touching and bad touching is essential for their safety. Kerri's mission is to break the cycle of abuse and empower future generations. The conversation highlights the importance of open communication between parents and children about sensitive topics. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Kerri Sloper and Her Journey03:06 - The Healing Power of Storytelling05:44 - Navigating the Impact of Childhood Trauma08:50 - Understanding the Complexity of Belief and Truth11:42 - The Role of Forgiveness in Healing14:57 - The Journey of Writing and Sharing Her Story17:41 - Breaking the Cycle of Abuse20:32 - The Importance of Internal Healing23:20 - The Process of Writing and Publishing Books24:24 - The Journey of Writing and Inspiration26:01 - Understanding the Target Audience for Children's Books28:48 - Exploring Themes of Healing and Resilience30:28 - The Importance of Forgiveness in Healing32:32 - Navigating the Complexities of Disclosure35:42 - The Role of Art in Healing38:15 - Spreading Awareness and Reducing Stigma40:17 - Empowering Parents to Protect Their Children For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/O12JXIWLDDw To purchase Kerri's books please head to https://www.amazon.com.au/s?i=books-single-index&rh=p_27%3AKerri%2B%2BJ%2BSloper&s=relevancerank&text=Kerri++J+Sloper&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1 and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/kerri-sloper-a56420253 | 43m 13s | ||||||
| 7/7/25 |  S3 Ep8 - Navigating Self-Development with Susan Dunlop | Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi we catch up with Susan Dunlop, Susan discusses her journey through self-development, the challenges of family dynamics, and her understanding of avoidance in personal growth. She reflects on her childhood experiences and the conscious choices she has made to improve her relationships and emotional well-being. Key Takeaways: Self-development requires conscious practice and effort. Family dynamics can significantly impact personal growth. Avoidance can hinder emotional connections and relationships. Recognising patterns from childhood is crucial for healing. It's important to make conscious choices in relationships. Personal growth often involves confronting difficult emotions. Therapy can provide valuable insights into personal behaviour. Breaking free from past patterns is a liberating experience. Emotional well-being is a continuous journey. Connection with others is essential for personal development. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Child Development and Healing03:46 - Understanding Abuse and Its Impact on Development06:46 - The Connection Between Childhood Trauma and Adulthood09:38 - The Drama Triangle: Roles in Trauma Responses12:35 - Parenting and Communication: Breaking the Cycle17:40 - Conscious Choices: Moving Beyond the Drama Triangle23:04 - Emotional Healing: Feeling to Heal26:00 - Understanding the Drama Triangle28:16 - The Impact of Childhood Experiences30:53 - Empowering Future Generations33:30 - The Ripple Effect of Change36:07 - Finding Your Voice and Healing41:05 - Rediscovering Leadership Through Trauma42:34 - The Impact of Sibling Sexual Abuse44:49 - Starting Conversations on Abuse46:13 - Understanding the Complexity of Abuse48:09 - Navigating Historical Cases of Abuse51:34 - Being a Supportive Listener53:42 - The Importance of Trauma-Informed Leadership55:48 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/hWvGKx-e8vg To learn more and connect with Susan please head to https://susandunlop.com.au/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/susan-dunlop-641526142 | 56m 46s | ||||||
| 6/23/25 |  S3 Ep7 - Navigating Trauma: A Journey of Healing with Diane Tarantini | Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, I speak with Diane Tarantini, a body safety educator and author, about the critical importance of conversations surrounding child safety and trauma. We discuss Diane's personal journey as a survivor of childhood abuse, the significance of body safety education, and the alarming statistics regarding child sexual abuse. The conversation emphasises the need for open discussions about difficult topics, the impact of pornography on youth, and the role of therapy in healing. Diane shares valuable tips for parents on how to create safe spaces for their children to talk about their experiences and feelings, highlighting the importance of consistent communication and education in preventing abuse. Key Takeaways: Every conversation about child safety is vital. Survivors often hide their trauma until they can't anymore. Body safety education is crucial for children. Conversations about difficult topics should start early. Statistics show a high prevalence of child sexual abuse. Peer-to-peer abuse is a growing concern. Education on consent and safe touch is essential. The impact of pornography on youth is significant. Therapy can be a powerful tool for healing. Writing can help survivors process their experiences. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction and Connection Across Borders02:09 - Diane's Journey: From Survivor to Educator06:22 - The Importance of Open Conversations06:58 - Statistics and Disclosure of Childhood Trauma10:40 - Understanding Peer-to-Peer Abuse14:24 - The Role of Pornography in Child Abuse18:29 - The Impact of Unsupervised Internet Access22:55 - Consequences of Misguided Sexual Education27:20 - Navigating Parenting in a Complex World27:49 - Understanding Body Safety and Consent30:03 - The Dynamics of Grooming and Peer-to-Peer Abuse32:54 - The Impact of Family Dynamics on Abuse35:56 - The Role of Parents in Recognising Abuse38:54 - The Complexity of Emotional and Physical Abuse41:48 - The Journey to Therapy and Healing46:02 - The Role of Trauma in Parenting50:35 - Exploring EMDR Therapy for Trauma Recovery56:11 - Healing from Trauma: The Power of Memory Work59:36 - Understanding Complex Trauma and Its Effects01:02:03 - Empowering Children: Body Safety Education01:06:05 - Fostering Open Conversations with Kids01:12:17 - Navigating Difficult Topics: Communication Strategies01:15:33 - The Journey of Writing and Sharing Stories For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/MboNI4FsHAY To learn more and connect with Diane please head to https://dianetarantini.com/ and follow her on LinkedIn at linkedin.com/in/diane-tarantini-b883938a | 1h 22m 41s | ||||||
| 6/9/25 |  S3 Ep6 - Hope and Forgiveness in Parenting with Nikki Butler | Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Nikki Butler to discuss the importance of teaching protective behaviours to children and instilling a sense of hope for parents who may feel they have missed opportunities in their children's upbringing. She discusses the significance of recognising non-verbal cues and behaviours that indicate harm, and encourages parents to forgive themselves for past mistakes, highlighting that it is never too late to start making positive changes in their parenting approach. Key Takeaways: It's never too late to start teaching protective behaviours. Parents should forgive themselves for past parenting mistakes. Recognising nonverbal cues is crucial in understanding children. There are ways to work with young people effectively. Hope is an essential element in parenting. Teaching kids about safety is a continuous journey. Understanding a child's language of harm is important. Parents can always improve their skills and knowledge. It's vital to address missed opportunities in parenting. Support and resources are available for parents. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Child Protection and Safety02:40 - Nikki Butler's Journey in Child Safety07:39 - Working with Young Mothers and Their Challenges11:08 - Navigating Teenage Years: Parenting Challenges16:45 - Understanding Teen Development and Identity30:56 - Building Communication and Connection with Teens37:21 - The Importance of Communication in Parenting39:36 - Understanding Teen Emotions and Self-Expression45:36 - Navigating Risky Behaviours in Adolescents50:16 - Recognising Changes in Teen Behaviour57:33 - Building Connections with Teen Friends01:01:34 -The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Experiences01:08:37 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/6FiPVbiu4sI To learn more and connect with Nikki please head to www.nikkibutler.com.au and follow her on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikki-butler-577132149/ | 1h 04m 25s | ||||||
| 5/26/25 |  S3 Ep5 - Empowering Children: The My Body Tells the Truth Program with Colleen Murphy | Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, we catch up with Colleen Murphy to discuss the importance of teaching children to trust their bodies and recognise their own signals, especially in environments where they may feel uncertain. Colleen discusses the role of adults in fostering this trust and provides practical strategies for empowering children to navigate their feelings and experiences. Key Takeaways: Trusting your body is essential for children. Children can rely on their bodies even in uncertain environments. Body signals are truthful indicators of feelings. Empowerment comes from understanding one's own body. Adults play a crucial role in teaching body trust. Resilience is built through body awareness. Practical strategies can help children trust their bodies. Encouraging open conversations about feelings is vital. Children need guidance to navigate their experiences. Creating a supportive environment fosters body trust. Episode Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Colleen Murphy and Her Journey07:53 - From Hairdresser to Victim Advocate12:54 - The My Body Tells the Truth Program16:54 - Understanding Disclosures from Children21:15 - The Impact of First Responders on Abuse Awareness23:35 - The Cycle of Abuse and Its Long-Term Effects28:50 - Supporting Families of Abuse Survivors33:23 - Empowering Children Through Education34:58 - Understanding Consent and Coercion37:35 - Empowering Children to Speak Up41:21 - Questioning Authority and Building Confidence44:17 - The Importance of Parental Guidance47:39 - Navigating Sleepovers and Safety51:16 - The Role of Community in Parenting54:10 - Empowering Children Through Education57:53 - Validation and Communication in Parenting01:03:57 - Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/fZJUcbJkXjg To learn more about Colleen and her mission, head to her LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/colleen-murphy-17416a182/ | 1h 01m 02s | ||||||
| 5/12/25 |  S3 Ep4 - The Fear Behind Parental Anger with Andy Briercliffe | Episode Summary: In this episode of Conversations with Kristi, Andy and Kristi delve into the emotional dynamics of parenting, particularly focusing on how parents react to situations involving their children, emphasising the importance of remaining calm and understanding the underlying fears that often drive parental anger. They discuss strategies for effective communication and the need for support in navigating challenging conversations with children. Key Takeaways: There are people who are there to help you. Remain calm, don't freak out in tough situations. Most anger stems from fear for children's safety. Disappointment can arise from unmet expectations. Conversations about difficult topics can be challenging. Instant reactions often lead to exaggerated responses. Understanding emotional triggers is key to effective communication. Parents should strive for calmness in crises. Fear can drive parental anger and reactions. Support systems are crucial for parents. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Online Harms and Child Safety04:21 Understanding Online Harms and Their Complexity07:03 The Role of Algorithms in Child Safety09:24 The Debate on Social Media Regulations12:04 Challenges in Enforcing Age Restrictions14:51 The Need for Comprehensive Education on Online Safety17:22 Navigating the Legal Landscape of Online Content20:03 The Nuances of CSAM and CSEM Terminology23:09 Navigating Consent in Adult Content25:11 The Challenges of Law Enforcement and AI27:38 The Role of Education in Online Safety32:42 Understanding Sextortion and Grooming37:58 The Importance of Open Communication39:39 Addressing Broader Online Risks41:41 The Responsibility of Social Media Platforms44:31 Navigating Online Safety and Parental Responsibility47:34 The Role of Education in Digital Safety48:41 Resources for Parents and Guardians51:52 Understanding Misinformation and Influences54:59 The Landscape of Trust and Safety in Technology01:05:07 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://youtu.be/3hcCp_Nq2Ug To access the Global Child Safety List that Andy speaks about in his interview, please go to - Global List - Online Child Safety.xlsx - Google Sheets or follow Andy on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-briercliffe-760621191/ | 1h 06m 06s | ||||||
| 4/28/25 |  S3 Ep3 - Understanding Child-on-Child Sexual Abuse with Lauren B | Episode Summary: This episode of Conversations with Kristi delves into the sensitive topic of child-on-child sexual abuse, highlighting the experiences of individuals involved in the ABAR project. It emphasises the misconceptions surrounding children's behaviour in such situations and the importance of recognising the seriousness of these incidents rather than dismissing them as mere experimentation or curiosity. Key Takeaways: The ABAR project focuses on child-on-child sexual abuse. Personal experiences can shape memories and perceptions of abuse. Misconceptions about children's behaviour can be harmful. Child-on-child sexual abuse is often underreported and misunderstood. It's crucial to recognise the seriousness of such incidents. Psychological support is vital for survivors of abuse. Awareness and education are key in addressing these issues. Children's experiences should not be trivialised or dismissed. The impact of abuse can vary based on frequency and context. Conversations about child abuse need to be more open and honest. Episode Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Child Abuse Prevention03:27 Lauren's Journey as a Survivor05:52 The Importance of Trauma-Informed Care07:17 Navigating the Disclosure Process10:53 The Impact of Dismissive Language12:39 Understanding Child-on-Child Abuse17:32 The Complexity of Child-on-Child Abuse24:14 The Need for Better Terminology26:20 The Role of Education in Prevention30:05 Understanding Victim Behaviour and Support33:03 Finding Purpose Through Helping Others35:47 Parental Guidance on Child Safety41:07 Improving Police Response to Victims47:33 The Need for Support Services in Reporting Abuse49:34 Balancing Healing and Advocacy51:57 Introduction to Child Safety Education For additional resources and support services, please head to my website at https://www.cape-au.com/free-resources You can also watch the full video version of this episode on my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjvH4Rc4aT0 | 52m 55s | ||||||
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