Cradled in Hope | Podcast for Grieving Moms | Biblical Hope for Miscarriage, Stillbirth, & Infant Loss

In this deeply vulnerable and spiritually honest episode, Ashley welcomes Lisa Rowell—host of the Silent Footprints Podcast and founder of Julianna Grace Ministry—for a conversation that moves beyond advocacy into the raw realities of grief, mental health, spiritual warfare, and identity in Christ.Lisa has become a powerful voice for families impacted by pregnancy and infant loss—providing grief boxes worldwide, helping pass the Stillbirth Prevention Act in Louisiana, advocating for the Shine for Autumn Act, and funding cooling cots for hospitals.Together, Ashley and Lisa speak candidly about the mental health struggles that can follow loss, including seasons of despair and even suicidal thoughts. They discuss how grief can open the door to spiritual warfare, lies from the enemy, and distorted views of God—especially when father wounds shape how we interpret suffering. They explore the tension between faith and works, the temptation to strive for healing through doing, and what it means to transform heartbreak into holy purpose.In this episode, we discussed:Lisa’s story and the founding of Julianna Grace MinistryHow grief boxes provide tangible comfort and remind parents they are not aloneThe mental health impact of grief, including suicidal thoughts and despairSpiritual warfare and the enemy’s lies during vulnerable seasonsThe importance of cooling cots and giving families time and dignity to say goodbyeLegislative advocacy surrounding stillbirth and infant loss, including the Stillbirth Prevention Act and the Shine for Autumn ActWhat it means to carry your baby’s legacy forward through actionAdvocacy as a form of love, remembrance, and honoring our childrenThe spiritual tension between faith and works—serving from love vs. striving for worthHow grief can expose deeper wounds, including father wounds that affect how we see GodThe sacred responsibility of stewarding our babies’ legaciesThis episode is both tender and empowering—a reminder that while we never would have chosen this path, God can use even our deepest sorrow to bring comfort, awareness, and change. Whether you are newly grieving or years into your journey, this episode offers encouragement that your baby’s life matters—and your voice does too.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode69]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley vulnerably shares how spiritual warfare often intensifies in the wake of pregnancy and infant loss. Centered on Chapter 9 of Cradled in Hope, “The Good Fight: When You Encounter the Enemy’s Attacks,” she recounts her own season of darkness on bedrest with Bridget—and the moment she voiced aloud, “Nothing good will ever come from this.” In that valley of isolation, fear, and pain, Ashley came to understand how the enemy targets grieving moms with lies meant to destroy their hope and faith.Through personal testimony and biblical truth, Ashley exposes the enemy’s tactics: sowing lies about God’s goodness, confusing us with counterfeit answers, and isolating us when we are already hurting. But she also shares how we can fight back—with Scripture, discernment, and the full armor of God. This episode is both a warning and an encouragement to moms walking through spiritual battle in grief.In this episode, Ashley shared:The types of lies the enemy speaks to grieving moms—and how to recognize his tacticsHow isolation and pain make grieving moms especially vulnerable to the enemy’s attacksA biblical understanding of how Satan schemes to steal, kill, and destroy in seasons of sufferingThe truth that our fight is not against flesh and blood, and how the armor of God equips us to standA breakdown of the “rotten seeds” the enemy plants and the “spoiled fruit” they produceA side-by-side comparison of God’s voice versus the enemy’s voiceAshley reminds us that while the enemy is cunning, Jesus is our Shepherd—and when we listen closely for His voice, we will be led into truth, peace, and hope.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub10]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley walks alongside grieving moms who are struggling with guilt, shame, or regret after the loss of their baby. Centered on Chapter 7 of Cradled in Hope, “Grace Upon Grace: When You Can’t Forgive Yourself,” she offers compassionate truth for the mom who wonders if she could have or should have done something differently. With tender honesty and biblical reassurance, Ashley shares how grace—not guilt—is the way forward.Ashley shares her personal struggle with shame and how she once believed her body had failed her daughter. With real-life stories, scriptural encouragement, and an invitation to rest in the finished work of the cross, this episode helps grieving moms understand that self-forgiveness is possible through Christ—and that His mercy is more than enough.In this episode, Ashley shared:Why grieving moms often struggle with shame and regret after lossHer personal battle with body resentment after Bridget’s stillbirthThe impact of living in broken bodies in a broken world—and how that shapes our perspectiveThe difference between hindsight and control, and how we can’t hold ourselves accountable for things we didn’t knowWhy we need to extend the same compassion to ourselves that we would give to a friendWhat it means to forgive our bodies, our decisions, and our broken expectations through the lens of graceA biblical understanding of how our babies were knit together body, soul, and spiritThe eternal hope we have because our babies are alive in HeavenAshley reminds us that our bodies were never meant to carry the blame. They were created by God, designed to be temples for His Spirit—and through Christ, we are forgiven and free. Our babies were miraculously knit together, and even if their lives were brief on earth, they are eternal in Heaven. There is no condemnation in Christ—only grace upon grace.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub8]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley takes us on a hope-filled journey into the wonder of Heaven. In Chapter 5 of Cradled in Hope, “Heaven on Earth: When You Wonder Where Your Baby Is,” she helps grieving moms find peace in knowing where their babies are now (the current Heaven)—and where they will one day be (the New Heaven). Drawing from Scripture and trusted theological resources, Ashley paints a biblically rooted picture of Heaven, offering comfort and confidence that our children are safe in the arms of Jesus.Ashley invites listeners to imagine the most beautiful place they’ve ever seen, then reminds them that even the most breathtaking views on earth pale in comparison to the splendor of Heaven. She explains what the Bible says about the current Heaven, the future New Earth, and the resurrection to come. This episode is filled with hope and assurance for every mom longing to hold her baby again.In this episode, Ashley shared:Why this chapter was one of the first she wrote—and why Heaven is central to our hopeHer personal “Heaven on earth” memory in St. Lucia, where Bridget’s life beganWhy Heaven is more than an ethereal, cloud-filled space—and how our perceptions may need reshapingThe difference between the current Heaven and the future New Earth (the eternal Heaven)What it means that our babies are “with Jesus” now, even as we await the resurrection of glorified bodiesInsights from Heaven by Randy Alcorn, including a chart on common assumptions vs. biblical truthsScriptural promises from Revelation 21 and 22 that describe our eternal homeWhy our babies are not angels—and why that’s actually really good newsThe question of “How old will my baby be in Heaven?” and the peace that comes from trusting God's planFour biblical reasons Ashley believes babies go to Heaven, including Jesus’ love for children and David’s words in 2 Samuel 12Ashley reminds us that our reunion with our babies is not just wishful thinking—it is a promise grounded in God’s Word. She invites you to picture that reunion: holding your baby again, walking hand in hand, never to be separated. Heaven is not only real—it is more beautiful than we can imagine.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub6]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley shares the heart of the Christian faith and the unshakable hope grieving moms have in Jesus. In Chapter 3 of Cradled in Hope, “The Gospel Changes Everything: When You Are Desperate for Hope,” Ashley walks through the full Gospel message—from creation to restoration—and shows how it directly speaks to the pain of being separated from our babies. In our grief, the Gospel isn’t just comforting—it’s everything. It’s the only hope strong enough to anchor us when we’re desperate for answers, for meaning, and for reunion.With theological clarity and compassionate understanding, Ashley reminds listeners that death is not the end of the story. Because of Jesus’ death and resurrection, we can have confidence that we will see our babies again. She explains the Gospel simply and beautifully, extending an invitation to believe—or believe again—that Jesus alone has conquered sin and death. This chapter is a powerful turning point in the book club, grounding our grief in the greatest news ever told.In this episode, Ashley shared:Her most painful moment of separation from Bridget, and how that moment pointed her to the hope of reunion through JesusWhy our grief makes sense in the context of the fall—and how the Gospel is the only remedy for the brokenness we feelA clear, simple explanation of the Gospel and its four-part story: Creation, Fall, Redemption, and RestorationThe bad news of sin and Hell—and why we need to understand this in order to grasp the beauty of the Good NewsHow Jesus' sacrifice saves us from eternal separation and secures our place with our babies in HeavenWhy believing in Jesus is as simple as confessing with your mouth and believing in your heart (Romans 10:9–10)The promise that one day, we will be reunited with our children in glorified bodies on a restored earthA loving invitation for any listener who has not placed their faith in Jesus to do so todayAshley invites each listener to reflect on the beauty of the Gospel—not just as a theological idea, but as the most personal and powerful truth we can cling to in our grief. Jesus changes everything, and His resurrection gives us the promise of our own—and of seeing our babies again.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub4]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley reflects on the raw emotions that come in the early days of grief after pregnancy or infant loss. Centered on Chapter 1 of Cradled in Hope, “Sitting with Jesus | When You Are Overwhelmed with Sadness,” she invites grieving moms to slow down, feel the weight of their sorrow, and meet Jesus in their pain. Ashley explains how grief is not just sadness—it’s love. She encourages moms to express that love in healthy, meaningful ways that honor their baby in Heaven. With personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical survival tips, this chapter is a gentle invitation to sit in the sadness with Jesus, who grieves with us and comforts us in our sorrow.In this episode, Ashley shared:Real reflections from grieving moms on what grief feels likeHow grief is rooted in love, and why the pain is so deep when death has separated us from our babyPersonal experiences from the early days after Bridget’s death, and how Ashley found healing in the quiet space of sitting with JesusThe cultural and personal pressures to “move on” from grief—and why true healing requires slowing down and lamentingPractical ways to survive the early days of loss, including self-care, sleep, nutrition, and realistic expectationsWhy Jesus is the safest place for our grief and how He connects us directly to our babies through His SpiritBiblical truths from the story of Elijah and Jesus' promise to comfort those who mourn (Matthew 5:4)Ashley reminds us that grief is rooted in deep love—and that we don’t have to hide our pain or rush our healing. With compassion and honesty, Ashley encourages grieving moms to let the tears fall and begin learning what it means to grieve with Jesus, one breath and one day at a time.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub2]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this second part of a deeply heartfelt conversation, Ashley continues her discussion with dear friend and fellow grieving mom, Kristin Hernandez, as they dive deeper into the story behind Cradled in Hope. With warmth, vulnerability, and unwavering faith, Ashley shares how the book was born out of her ministry work, her personal healing journey following the loss of her daughter, Bridget, and her longing to walk alongside grieving mothers with truth and compassion.They explore how the book was shaped by years of support group ministry at Bridget’s Cradles, Ashley’s own story of loss, and the refining grief of losing her father during the final stages of editing. Ashley also offers an inside look at the writing and publication process—from weekends spent writing in quiet solitude to the God-ordained partnership with her literary agent and publisher. Through it all, her desire is to point hurting hearts to the comfort of Christ and the eternal hope of Heaven.This episode is an honest and hope-filled look at the heart, process, and purpose behind Cradled in Hope. Whether you are newly grieving or supporting someone who is, Ashley’s vulnerability and biblical encouragement will remind you that you are not alone—and you are cradled in hope.In this episode, we discussed:How Cradled in Hope originated from years of support group messages and real conversations with grieving momsThe structure of the book: felt needs as subtitles and biblical truth as chapter titlesHow the book ties into the mission of Bridget’s Cradles and serves as more than a book—it’s a doorway to community and Christ-centered healingThe free downloadable Cradled in Hope Journal companion guide and how it complements each chapter with Scripture, prompts, and practical reflectionThe vision for churches, hospitals, counselors, and support groups to use the book as a biblical resource for grieving momsAshley’s writing process—including weekend retreats, long writing sessions, and her “rock tumbler” metaphor for editingThe emotional weight of sharing vulnerable stories, including Ashley’s experience of holding both grief and gratitude during her pregnancy after lossHow her editor encouraged her to share even the hard-to-admit feelings so other moms could feel safe and understoodA tender conversation about the eternal family we long for—and how God's plan is good even when it doesn’t match our expectationsKristin’s powerful closing prayer over Ashley, the book, and every grieving listener holding on to hopeThis episode will meet you in the midst of sorrow and remind you: you are seen, loved, and never alone. Jesus is with you, holding your broken heart as He holds your baby in Heaven.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode62-2]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★