How Men Fall In Love

How Men Fall In Love

From Daddy Issues with Violet Benson by Violet Benson

June 4, 2026 · 30 min

About this episode

Violet Benson explores the science behind how men fall in love and the common mistakes women make in dating.

Everyone thinks men fall in love because of chemistry. According to science? Not even close. Violet breaks down what actually makes a man go from interested to invested, why so many women accidentally sabotage the early stages of dating, and the biggest mistake people make when they confuse attraction with commitment. From the science of attachment to the psychology of pursuit, Violet explains how men really bond, what makes them stay, and why forcing a relationship almost always backfires. If you've ever found yourself wondering, "What are we?" this is for you. Thank you for supporting our sponsors: Nutrafol: Receive $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code DADDYISSUES. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY.COM/daddyissues See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

People in this episode

Host: Violet Benson

Topics covered

  • men in love
  • dating psychology
  • attachment theory
  • commitment
  • relationship advice

Keywords

  • love
  • dating
  • attraction
  • commitment
  • psychology

Sponsors

Nutrafol, Shopify

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