Destroying Your Ex Does Not Win Your Case

About this episode

The episode discusses the ineffectiveness of trying to destroy your ex in family court and offers insights on achieving success in custody matters.

Destroying Your Ex Does Not Win Your Case - Episode 341 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Family Court hearings are typically full of all kinds of mudslinging in both directions. Since we are in an adversary system and most people experience the law as "guilty vs innocent", this may seem like a logical approach. But a Family Law Judge doesn't think in terms of "guilty vs innocent" so trying to destroy your ex in court doesn't necessarily solve your problems. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com /vip-coaching . Thanks for listening!

People in this episode

Host: Tammy R. Ferreira

Topics covered

• family court
• custody matters
• legal strategy
• adversary system
• co-parenting

Keywords

• divorce
• family law
• custody
• court strategy
• co-parenting

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Divorce University Online, Family Court, Family Law

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