Do Divorce Right Podcast

In this episode of Do Divorce Right podcast, stories take centre stage as Becca recalls a recent coaching session with a client who believed they couldn't achieve success in both career and personal life. Unpacking the origins of this belief led to a powerful realisation. Becca also shares a personal journey, breaking through a limiting belief about not being able to earn more than her ex-husband. We encourage you to audit your own stories, jot them down, share on Instagram, and let’s collectively call BS on those that no longer serve us!  Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and share the podcast. Need advice for 2024? I'm here for you. Take care! Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right   ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce   ✨Check out the FREE download packed with simple ideas to entertain your children, and yourself, to create some beautiful fun memories these holidays, despite your changing family dynamics. ✨ Free Download: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/funholidays

Welcome back to the "Do Divorce Right" podcast! In today's episode, I've got a game-changing technique to share that can help you tackle overwhelm when life gets crazy. The 4D method. It's simple but powerful: Delegate: Get your support system involved. Let others help where they can. Delay or Defer: Not everything is urgent. Schedule tasks for a more manageable time. Delete: Some things aren't essential. Cross them off your list and free up mental space. Do: Block time for must-dos. Start small to build momentum, then tackle bigger tasks. I share this with clients, and actively use this technique myself.  It works wonders. Give it a try, and let me know how it goes!  Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and share the podcast. Need advice for 2024? I'm here for you. Take care! Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce ✨Check out the FREE download packed with simple ideas to entertain your children, and yourself, to create some beautiful fun memories these holidays, despite your changing family dynamics. ✨ Free Download: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/funholidays

The period between Christmas & new year is a period of reflection for so many and, in this episode, Becca walks through her yearly reflection routine, shares the details on her vision board, and discusses the powerful questions that shaped her 2023. Ever felt a tad guilty about being too happy? She discusses that too, exploring the concept of the hedonic treadmill and Australia’s tall poppy syndrome as potential reasons that have held her back from truly enjoying the happiness she feels and deserves.  Something that you deserve too! Hear Becca talk about happiness and a simple technique to extrapolate any small moment of enjoyment to something that you can hold and recall anytime.  Don't forget to rate, subscribe, and share the love. Until next time, soak in those good vibes! 💖   Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right   ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce    ✨Check out the FREE download packed with simple ideas to entertain your children, and yourself, to create some beautiful fun memories this Christmas. Despite your changing family situation. ✨   Free Download: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/funholidays Or 👉🏻DM Becca with "fun holidays" on Instagram, or drop an email at hello@dodivorceright.com. Let's make these holidays memorable, fun, and totally yours.

  When Alyssa and her then ex-boyfriend found themselves accidentally pregnant in their early 20s they made the brave and optimistic decision to marry and create a family together.  Coming from a strong faith background and a divorced family herself, Alyssa felt the pressure to stay in a very unhappy marriage that turned abusive.  This story is sadly too common.  But what is wonderful about Alyssa’s story is her openness in sharing how she overcame the shame of divorce, her dating journey and her beautiful evolution over time. She shares what grounded her through the difficult times and what led her to create a stable and loving family post-divorce. Send Becca or Alyssa a DM and let them know your key takeaways from this episode! Please also remember to rate and subscribe. Follow Alyssa at: Instagram: @alyssabooth_lpc Website: heyalyssabooth.com Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce   Visit Becca’s website: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/ ✨Check out the FREE download packed with simple ideas to entertain your children, and yourself, to create some beautiful fun memories this Christmas. Despite your changing family situation! ✨ 👉🏻DM Becca with "fun holidays" on Instagram, or drop an email at hello@dodivorceright.com. Let's make these holidays memorable, fun, and totally yours.

Today, the fabulous Sarah McLeod joins Becca for an exciting conversation on revamping your style post-divorce. Sarah shares insights on navigating style challenges after divorce, emphasising the importance of self-acceptance. From positive self-reflection to infusing freshness into your wardrobe, she provides invaluable guidance. Sarah delves into the intricacies of trends and personal style, encouraging listeners to revel in the joy of experimenting with fashion. She advocates for embracing change without stress, fostering an environment where finding delight and expressing creativity through clothing becomes a natural process. Join us for this conversation on reclaiming your style post-split. Embrace the change, and remember, it's perfectly okay to take things at your own pace. Send Becca or Sarah a DM and let them know your key takeaways from this episode! Please also remember to rate and subscribe. Follow Sarah at: Facebook: Sarah McLeod Instagram: @sjmstyling Website: sjmstyling.com.au Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce Visit Becca’s website: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

Janice Holland lived in a strict religious community in the US and had a lingering dream to live overseas. She all but let go of the thought when an opportunity came up for her and her then-husband to BOTH have jobs in a school in Shanghai, China.  Janice shares her story about how this distance from home allowed their family to grow dramatically - including, for her (now ex) husband to discover that he is gay. Listen to the episode and hear Janice share what this meant for their family and how they’ve been able to work through the pain, navigate this with their sons in a small expat community and move on to become good friends who each have their own boyfriends.    Janice has her own practice as a therapist and trauma specialist in Shanghai and you can find out more about this in the links below. Please remember to rate, subscribe and share this episode. Follow Janice at: Instagram: @the.trauma.teacher Website: www.janiceholland.com Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce Visit Becca’s website: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

As a child, Danielle (Dani) Zetzer was the child of a traumatic divorce and became hugely motivated to support families to ‘do divorce differently’ - or Do Divorce Right if you will ;-) Dani now leads a successful family law practice with offices in Melbourne and Sydney, Australia and recently found herself in the position of having to navigate her own divorce.  Listen in to learn that - even when you’ve seen the best and worst of divorce - it’s *still* possible to make mistakes. But with a healthy dose of personal responsibility, self-reflection and huge amounts of compassion, Dani continues to learn and support her family to  successfully re-design their lives together and apart. Including dating and introducing new partners.  Becca and Dani talk about the challenges of being modern women who’ve been led to believe that we can ‘have it all’ and the dynamics created by this, which can make it difficult for someone to be in a relationship with us! Both during a marriage and when we are ready to start dating again. And can you imagine what it’s like to begin dating again when you’re a family lawyer? Listen to this full conversation and send Becca or Dani a DM and let them know your key takeaways from this episode!   Please also remember to rate and subscribe. Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right   Follow Dani at: Instagram: @respect_legal_ and @diaryofadivorcelawyer Website: www.respectlegal.com.au    ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce   Visit Becca’s website: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

In this episode of the "Do Divorce Right" podcast, meet Liya Yohannes, a transformational coach and author of "Memoirs Of A Young Ethiopian Girl”. The part of Liya’s story that we explore in this episode focuses on her inspiring journey from being a stay-at-home mom for 18 years, to becoming a financially independent divorcee, homeowner and mother - even within the confines of a global pandemic.  Throughout this story, Liya and Becca discuss their shared beliefs in the importance of having strong values, a clear vision on what you’re hoping to achieve and the courage to embrace change and face fears.  Liya’s journey is an excellent example of thriving at divorce and the ability to create a life by design.  Send Liya or Becca a DM and let them know what are your key takeaways from this episode!   You can find Liya on: Instagram: @liya_yohannes_  Facebook: Liya Yohannes Visit Liya’s website at www.dioplife.com    Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce   Visit Becca’s website: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

Welcome to the latest episode of Do Divorce Right podcast, where Becca has a special guest today, Angela Vassallo. She's a highly accomplished business coach, entrepreneur, wife, mother, stepmother, speaker, and author of "The Second Wives’ Guide." Angela shares her journey and insights into navigating blended families. She wrote her book to help women like her, who meet men with previous marriages and children, find a blueprint for success in these complex situations. Angela discusses her own experience as a stepmother in a blended family for over two decades. She emphasises the importance of patience and not rushing into the family dynamic. Angela advises against inserting yourself too quickly and recommends respecting the existing family space and boundaries. Over time, your place in the family will naturally evolve, so taking things slow can lead to a smoother transition. Listen to this episode for more valuable advice from Angela on successfully navigating the challenges of blended families while keeping the focus on the well-being of the children. Send Angela or Becca a DM and let them know what are your key takeaways from this episode! You can find Angela on Instagram at @angelavassallo88 ✨Purchase Angela Vassallo’s book "The Second Wives' Guide" using the link below ✨ 👉🏻https://www.amazon.com/Second-Wives-Guide-Discover-Stepparent-ebook/dp/B00NTR0F42/ Follow Becca on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: @Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Sign Up For Thrive Divorce Programme✨ 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/thrive-divorce Visit my website: 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

Welcome back to another episode of “Do Divorce Right Podcast”. In this episode, we are focusing on "The Importance Of Fabulous Women Around You”, a topic that is very close to my heart. This topic has been on my mind lately, and it has been fueled by a recent experience I had at a business launch event, as well as my personal journey in developing and cherishing female friendships. I delve into the unique attributes that make female friendships so special, particularly the aspects of emotional intimacy and vulnerability that often define them. Drawing from my own life, I shared some personal experiences. There have been times when I leaned more towards male friendships, finding them interesting for their directness and different dynamics. However, as I have grown, I have come to realize the high value of connecting with supportive women. This is especially suitable during challenging life transitions, such as divorce. I highlight the importance of female friendships and the incredible support they can provide during tough times. In fact, I'm excited to announce that I'm in the process of launching a membership designed specifically for women going through divorce. This community will offer a safe and supportive space for women to connect, share experiences, and empower one another during this significant life change.   Follow me on: Instagram: @dodivorceright Facebook: @Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right   ✨Learn more about the Do Divorce Right Membership here✨ 👉🏻 https://www.dodivorceright.com/ddrmembership  Visit my website 👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

In this episode of the "Do Divorce Right" podcast, I had the privilege of hosting Holly Carruthers, a domestic violence survivor, coach, and guide. We shared our personal journeys from surviving abusive relationships to discovering empowerment and healing. Holly shared her experience surviving domestic violence and helping others. I also shared my journey of self-improvement and finding happiness. In summary, our conversation is focused on seeking help, finding strength, and breaking free from abuse. For women preparing to leave abuse, the podcast recommends starting with self-safety. Techniques like body work, affirmations, and better sleep routines help. Positive words gradually boost a sense of safety. Our discussion ends by urging listeners not to compare journeys and to be open to different healing tools. Send Holly or myself a DM and let us know what you take away from this episode! You can find Holly on Instagram at @hollycarruthers.co Visit her website at www.hollycarruthers.com.au Follow me on:1. Instagram: @dodivorceright2. Facebook: @Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Join Do Divorce Right Membership Waitlist✨👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/ddr-membership-waitlist Visit my website👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/

Welcome back everyone to another episode of the Do Divorce Right podcast! Today, I want to dive into what you can do if your divorce process or asset division has hit a roadblock due to economic challenges. The current landscape is a mix of rising interest rates and falling house prices in some markets, creating a challenging situation. You might find yourself unable to sell your home or dealing with assets that have lost value. Since the situation won't resolve immediately and you're not in control of the timing, I'm here to offer guidance. I've put together four pieces of advice to help you navigate this situation. It's important to remember that you're not just dealing with assets – you might feel stuck in a holding pattern with your marriage or relationship. This situation could last for a couple of years, and I understand how tough that can be. So, if you find yourself in a situation where you must maintain contact with your ex due to non-saleable assets or if you struggle with having little to no visibility into your financial situation for the foreseeable future, this episode is for you. I'll share some insights on how to maintain your sanity and navigate this uncertain path, even if it feels like there's no end in sight. I understand how challenging your situation is, and I'm here to support you. Follow me on:1. Instagram: @dodivorceright2. Facebook: @Becca Maxwell - Do Divorce Right ✨Join Do Divorce Right Membership Waitlist✨👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/ddr-membership-waitlist Visit my website👉🏻https://www.dodivorceright.com/