When Being Attracted to Someone Catches You Off Guard

About this episode

The episode explores the nature of unexpected attraction and its potential messages for personal development.

Ever find yourself attracted to someone you shouldn’t be attracted to especially when you’re already in a relationship? What if that attraction isn’t a threat…but a message? In this short video, I explore how attraction often points to something your unconscious is asking you to develop, reclaim, or live more fully. Instead of acting on attraction or suppressing it, I suggest lingering with it and listening for what wants to be known. I share personal examples of being intensely drawn to p...

People in this episode

Host: Deborah Lukovich

Topics covered

• attraction
• relationships
• self-discovery
• unconscious desires
• personal growth

Keywords

• attraction
• relationships
• unconscious
• personal examples
• self-improvement

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