Ep. 42. Why do we sabotage to let more GOODNESS IN

About this episode

Elaira discusses the challenges of receiving goodness and expansion when the nervous system is accustomed to survival mode.

In this episode, I talk about why expansion isn’t always easy on the nervous system, especially if you’ve spent a lot of time in survival mode. We’re sold this story, both in religion and Hollywood: you struggle, you overcome, and then once the good arrives, it’s happily ever after. The End. But what happens after The End? Real life isn’t like that. The truth is, anything new, even goodness, can be stressful for the nervous system. Receiving more love, success, money, or opportunity req...

Topics covered

• nervous system
• survival mode
• expansion
• goodness
• stress

Keywords

• self-sabotage
• love
• success
• money
• opportunity

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