Equestrian Adult Amateur

What happens when everyone tells you it's over?In this episode of The Equestrian Adult Amateur, we share the incredible story of Wyatt, a Thoroughbred who suffered a devastating injury that many believed would end his career for good. Faced with difficult decisions, discouraging prognoses, and multiple professionals advising against continuing, Wyatt's team chose a different path. They chose patience, faith, and the willingness to trust the process.What followed was a journey filled with setbacks, uncertainty, sacrifice, and determination. Through careful management, unwavering support from his owner, trainer, and community, Wyatt not only recovered but returned to the show ring and reminded everyone exactly who he was.But this episode is about much more than one horse's comeback.We dive into the realities of the equestrian world, the pressure many riders feel to appear successful, the role social media plays in shaping perception, and the lack of support that adult amateurs often experience. We talk about why the sport needs more real stories, more vulnerability, and more conversations about the challenges behind the highlight reels.This episode is a reminder that horses don't care about followers, ribbons, or appearances. They care about partnership, trust, and showing up every day. Sometimes the greatest victories aren't championships—they're simply getting back in the ring when nobody thought you could.Whether you've experienced a setback with your horse, struggled with confidence, or needed a reminder of why you fell in love with horses in the first place, Wyatt's story is one you won't want to miss.In this episode:• Wyatt's career-ending injury and unexpected comeback• The emotional reality of horse ownership• Trusting the recovery process when others doubt you• The importance of community in equestrian sport• Social media, pressure, and comparison culture• Why adult amateurs need more representation• The bond between horse and rider• Inspiring listener stories from across the equestrian communityIf Wyatt's story resonates with you, we'd love to hear about a horse that changed your life. Share your story in the comments.#EquestrianAdultAmateur #HorseRecovery #Thoroughbred #HorseShowLife #AdultAmateur #EquestrianPodcast #HorseTraining #HorseRiding #HorseCommunity #ComebackStory #HunterJumper #EquestrianLife

Why does it feel like no one outside the equestrian bubble cares about our sport? In this episode, we get honest about the stuff most riders only whisper about — the bitterness, the inequality, and the quiet competition between disciplines that nobody wants to admit is there.We dig into the hunter ring and the subjective side of judging, the "horse girl" stereotype, and why so many of us feel judged differently depending on what we ride. From there we get into the big one: why equestrian events struggle for attendance and attention, and how that's really a marketing and community problem more than a sport problem. (Yes, we bring up F1 and Boyd Martin's personal branding — because it proves this CAN change.)We also talk honestly about the dark side of being online in this community: trolling, the fear of speaking up, and how the internet makes the horse world look way worse than it actually is. Our take? Context matters. Know the people behind the video before you judge the clip. Is there bias in judging? Sometimes. Corruption? It exists in every industry — but it's not as rampant here as people love to claim.Then we get into amateurs vs. pros in show jumping — the stricter rules amateurs play by, the looser ones pros seem to get, and that uncomfortable conversation about money buying wins and how fairness actually gets enforced. We close on bias, gender inequality, and why the sport desperately needs more storytelling and more people willing to tell the truth.If you've ever felt like an outsider in your own sport, this one's for you.🎧 New episodes weekly. Subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss one.💬 Drop a comment: do you think money buys wins in our sport? We want to hear it.👍 Like & share if this hit home.#TheEquestrianAdultAmateur #EquestrianPodcast #HorseGirl #HunterJumper #AdultAmateur #EquestrianLife #ShowJumping #HorseWorld #Dressage #Eventing

What does it take to breed a horse that can truly succeed in the hunter ring?In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Kelly sits down with Ashley Adler of Oasis Sport Horses, along with trainer Josh Dolan, to talk about breeding, temperament, and the journey behind one of the hunter world's most recognizable palomino stallions, Kiss of Gold.Ashley shares how a childhood dream of owning a stallion eventually led her to build a breeding program centered around producing horses with not only beauty and athletic ability, but the kind of minds that amateur riders can trust. Together, they discuss the stigma surrounding stallions, why temperament should be a breeder's top priority, and how Kiss of Gold has helped challenge traditional ideas about color in the hunter ring.The conversation also dives into the realities of breeding horses, foaling season, selecting mares, raising young horses, and the emotional investment that comes with creating future equine partners from the ground up.Whether you're interested in breeding, own a young horse, or simply love hearing the stories behind successful horses and the people who raise them, this episode offers a fascinating look into a side of the industry many riders never get to see.In this episode:🐴 The story behind Kiss of Gold and Oasis Sport Horses✨ Breaking color barriers in the hunter world🧠 Why temperament matters more than talent alone🏆 Breeding horses for amateur riders👶 Foaling season and raising young horses🤝 Trusting trainers and building successful partnerships🌟 The realities of owning and standing a stallion💛 Following a childhood dream and building a breeding businessIf you enjoyed this episode, be sure to like, subscribe, and share it with a fellow horse lover.Kiss Of Gold Docuseries

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Kelly sits down with Orchid In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur podcast, Kelly sits down with Orchid Bertelsen to talk about returning to the horse world after a 25-year break, rediscovering passion as an adult, and navigating the realities of balancing horses, motherhood, work, and personal identity. With a background in digital marketing, Orchid opens up about leaving her career to pursue something that truly fulfilled her and how documenting her equestrian journey online has helped her reconnect with the sport in an entirely new way.The conversation dives deep into the emotional side of being an adult amateur rider — the guilt of taking time for yourself, the pressure to “have it all together,” and the struggle to balance family responsibilities while still pursuing personal goals. Kelly and Orchid discuss how horses become more than just a hobby; they become therapy, connection, and a way to reconnect with yourself outside of everyday life.They also unpack the realities of modern equestrian culture, from the financial commitment of the sport to the elitism and pressure often felt within the industry. Together, they explore why horsemanship, community, and inclusivity matter more than appearances or status, and why newcomers to the sport deserve encouragement rather than judgment.This episode is an honest conversation about passion, identity, self-care, and what it really means to be an adult amateur equestrian in today’s world.to talk about returning to the horse world after a 25-year break, rediscovering passion as an adult, and navigating the realities of balancing horses, motherhood, work, and personal identity. With a background in digital marketing, Orchid opens up about leaving her career to pursue something that truly fulfilled her and how documenting her equestrian journey online has helped her reconnect with the sport in an entirely new way.The conversation dives deep into the emotional side of being an adult amateur rider — the guilt of taking time for yourself, the pressure to “have it all together,” and the struggle to balance family responsibilities while still pursuing personal goals. Kelly and Orchid discuss how horses become more than just a hobby; they become therapy, connection, and a way to reconnect with yourself outside of everyday life.They also unpack the realities of modern equestrian culture, from the financial commitment of the sport to the elitism and pressure often felt within the industry. Together, they explore why horsemanship, community, and inclusivity matter more than appearances or status, and why newcomers to the sport deserve encouragement rather than judgment.This episode is an honest conversation about passion, identity, self-care, and what it really means to be an adult amateur equestrian in today’s world.

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, Alexis and I are sitting down for a real life update — and it’s one of those conversations that feels a little messy, a little emotional, and very real.We talk about what’s been going on behind the scenes, especially with my young horse, Oli. After being in training while I was recovering from a broken leg, he’s come back struggling with anxiety and spookiness in a way I didn’t expect. It’s been frustrating, overwhelming, and honestly has pushed me to question what the right next step is — including the possibility of selling him.We also get into the ups and downs of training in general — from regressions in new environments to working through things like lead changes, confidence, and consistency. It’s a reminder that progress isn’t always linear, and sometimes the setbacks hit harder than expected.Outside of the barn, life has been just as full — from navigating big personal decisions, to the stress of everyday responsibilities, to trying to balance it all while still showing up for our horses.This episode is a little bit of everything:The emotional side of owning and training young horsesDealing with setbacks and uncertaintyThe pressure we put on ourselves as adult amateursAnd the reality of trying to hold it all together when things feel a little chaoticIt’s not polished. It’s not perfect. But it’s honest — and sometimes that’s exactly what we need.

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re diving into one of my favorite (and slightly controversial) topics — equestrian fashion, brands, and the trends we love… and the ones we don’t.We get into some honest opinions on brands like Cowgirl Up and Charles Owen, and talk through what we’re actually drawn to when it comes to style in the ring. From rust-colored breeches to helmets with a little bit of shine, we break down what feels elevated versus what might be trying a little too hard.I also share my take on why I’ll always lean toward classic white breeches that can cross between hunter and jumper rings, and how practicality plays a bigger role than people think when it comes to what we wear.We also talk about the comeback of full chaps — yes, they’re back — and how trends in the equestrian world tend to cycle in ways that are both nostalgic and slightly chaotic. And beyond the ring, we get into brands that are doing a really good job of blending barn life with everyday wear, like Solid Citizen, and why that shift matters for adult amateurs.This episode is fun, opinionated, and very real — because style in this sport isn’t just about how you look, it’s about how you feel when you walk into the ring.

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re addressing something that’s been coming up a lot lately — the conversation around how adult amateurs are portrayed, both online and within the horse world. If you’ve seen our skits, you know we lean into humor. Yes, they’re exaggerated. Yes, they’re satirical. But they’re also rooted in very real experiences — things I’ve felt, things I’ve seen, and moments that so many of us as adult amateurs can relate to (even if we don’t always want to admit it out loud). Recently, there’s been some backlash — not just toward us, but across the space — about how adult amateurs are represented. In this episode, we talk about that openly. We discuss the criticism, the stereotypes, and the tension between sharing relatable content and being misunderstood. We also touch on conversations happening across other podcasts in the equestrian space — including differing opinions on whether humor like this reinforces negative narratives or simply reflects reality. And instead of avoiding it, we lean into it. Because here’s the truth: This community is too small — and too important — to be tearing each other down. We talk about: Where the “adult amateur stereotype” actually comes from Why humor can feel uncomfortable (especially when it hits close to home) The difference between intention and interpretation And why supporting each other matters more than being right This episode is not about calling anyone out. It’s about opening the door for better conversations, more understanding, and a stronger, more supportive community. And to anyone who’s had a different perspective — you’re welcome here. The conversation isn’t closed… it’s just getting started.

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, we’re having a conversation that isn’t always comfortable — but it’s necessary. We talk openly about the pressure to be perfect in today’s equestrian world and how that pressure has evolved over the years. The horses are more athletic, more powerful, and the expectations — from judges, trainers, owners, and even social media — are higher than ever. Somewhere along the way, flawless rounds became the standard instead of the goal. We dive into the very real and serious issue of performance-enhancing drugs in our sport. Why does it happen? Where does the pressure come from? And how do amateurs — often unintentionally — contribute to the culture that prioritizes winning over well-being? This episode isn’t about pointing fingers. It’s about accountability, awareness, and responsibility. We discuss: The role money plays in raising the stakes The pressure trainers face to produce perfect results The responsibility owners have to ask hard questions And how social media amplifies unrealistic expectations Most importantly, we talk about advocating for our horses. As adult amateurs, we have more power than we think. We can set boundaries. We can accept mistakes. We can redefine what success looks like. And we can choose to prioritize our horses’ health and long-term happiness over ribbons. Drugging and doping are not just rule violations — they are welfare issues. And if we truly love this sport, we have to be willing to have hard conversations about it. This episode is about protecting the horses, supporting ethical horsemanship, and remembering why we started in the first place. WATCH

In this episode of the Equestrian Adult Amateur Podcast, I’m taking a step back to reflect on a year that stretched me in ways I didn’t expect — personally, professionally, and within the horse world. 2025 was hard. I struggled, I questioned myself, and I watched so many other adult amateurs go through similar seasons. I even managed to break my ankle in a ball pit while playing with my nephew — a reminder that life doesn’t always slow down when you need it to. But through all of it, I’ve chosen to see 2026 as a year of opportunity, growth, and intention. I talk openly about the evolution of my brand, KB Media Equine, and why taking the risk to produce a docuseries felt scary — but ultimately became one of the most fulfilling things I’ve ever done. We dive into what it really means to think bigger than your fear, face insecurities head-on, and stop shrinking your dreams to feel safe. This episode also touches on real conversations happening in the horse world — including trainer-client dynamics, unspoken power struggles, and my long-term goal of building a community that feels honest, supportive, and grounded in shared experience. I reflect on my two horses, the lessons 2025 forced me to learn, and the direction I’m intentionally stepping into for 2026. At its core, this episode is an invitation: ✨ to dream louder ✨ to pursue the goals you’ve been putting off ✨ and to reconnect with why horses matter so deeply to us Thank you for being here and for supporting this podcast. I’m endlessly grateful for this community, and I’d love to hear what you’re calling in for the year ahead — share it in the comments and let’s move forward together.

In this episode, we’re recording right from the horse show grounds—Hannah isn’t with us today—so it’s Alexis and her horse stepping into a flat class together. Alexis opens up about the nerves that come with putting a horse in the ring for good, confidence-building experiences, even when you’re not totally sure what’s going to happen. We talk about how differently we ride now compared to when we were juniors: more grace for ourselves, less pressure to be perfect, and a deeper focus on creating positive moments for our horses. We dive into the unique pressure that comes with riding seasoned horses, the expectations adult amateurs carry, and how much support from the community means in this sport. Alexis also shares the real-life balancing act of being a mom and a rider—and how learning to ask for help has become part of her growth both inside and outside the arena. This episode is a celebration of the real equestrian life—the nerves, the joy, the community, the parenting juggle, and the constant balancing act of chasing your passion while caring for the horses you love. It’s a reminder that we’re all doing our best, and none of us are doing it alone. Watch

In this episode, Alexis and I dive into a topic that so many riders can relate to — dealing with toxic trainers in the equestrian world. We’ve all either experienced it ourselves or watched someone else go through it, and it’s time to have an open, honest conversation about it. We share our personal experiences and unpack what really makes a trainer “toxic,” from emotional manipulation to poor communication and blurred boundaries. We also talk about the responsibility that both trainers and clients share in keeping relationships professional and healthy — and why setting boundaries, being honest, and communicating clearly matter so much in this sport. We even touch on whether horse trainers should be regulated, how to find the right fit for you, and how to protect your mental health and peace in a sometimes chaotic industry. At the end of the day, we both believe that training should be something you enjoy — not something that causes stress — and, as we like to say, communication is lubrication. WATCH

In this episode, I sit down with Brad DiMaggio from Scrapyard Media to talk all things filmmaking, pre-production, and the chaos of shooting in the performance boating world. Brad and I first met while working for a mutual client — and let’s just say, things got a little wild when we got kicked out of a boat race mid-filming! From there, we dive into what makes great content actually work: planning, teamwork, and the power of good pre-production. We also chat about our shared experiences filming the Devon Horse Show, dealing with unpredictable weather, troubleshooting on the fly, and why great audio can make or break a story. Brad shares how Scrapyard Media started, their goals for the future, and what it’s like balancing creative vision with real-world logistics. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to pull off a big production—or just want some behind-the-scenes laughs from the field—you’ll love this one.

Hosting a live episode of The Plaidcast during the Inside the Ingate Season Finale Watch Party was such a special moment for me. There’s something about being surrounded by my local horse people community — sharing stories, laughter, and memories — that reminds me why I love doing this! For this episode, I had the chance to talk with Cheryl Simms, the Horse Show Manager at Wills Park Equestrian Center, and Piper Klemm, Publisher of The Plaid Horse. Wills Park has been a vital part of the Atlanta horse community for decades, and hearing Cheryl share its history and her vision for its future was truly inspiring. We discussed how the park has evolved, the renovations and fundraising efforts that sustain it, and Cheryl’s mission to ensure it remains affordable, welcoming, and community-driven. Piper brought great insight into why it’s so important to preserve spaces like this — places where riders can grow, connect, and feel at home in the sport. For me, this conversation really highlighted the heart behind what we do. Wills Park isn’t just a showgrounds — it’s a reflection of how much love and dedication go into keeping equestrian life alive at every level.