Everything & Anything...and a bit gay Podcast

In this episode of Everything and Anything and a Bit Gay, host Zach Randles-Friedman sits down with Injector Chris — the expert behind viral procedures like penis filler (girth enhancement) and “HoleTox.” From starting out in makeup to building a groundbreaking business in sexual aesthetics, Chris shares how he became a leader in a fast-growing industry — and why confidence, sexuality, and mental health are more connected than we think. We get into: What penis filler actually is (and who it’s for) The truth about “HoleTox” and sexual health Why so many men struggle with confidence The psychology behind body image and masculinity Real stories from patients and how these procedures change lives This is an open, honest, and sometimes surprising conversation about sex, confidence, and breaking stigma — especially in the LGBTQ+ community. 👉 Follow & learn more about Injector Chris and Lushful Aesthetics in the links below. Learn more about Chris and Lushful Aesthetics: https://lushfulaesthetics.com/

What is the true purpose of art—and can it actually heal us? In this deeply emotional and thought-provoking episode of Everything & Anything… and a Bit Gay, Zach sits down with filmmaker Stefan to explore grief, storytelling, and the unexpected ways art can transform lives. From creating an indie film that landed on HBO Max to working with rising star Kit Connor, Stefan shares his journey through doubt, creativity, and breakthrough moments. But the heart of this conversation goes deeper—into loss, meaning, and a powerful real-life story about how a film changed his life after tragedy… and how he, in turn, changed the life of the artist who created it. This is a conversation about: The emotional impact of storytelling Why some art resonates and some doesn’t Grief, healing, and human connection Religion, purpose, and finding meaning The unpredictable nature of success If you’ve ever questioned your purpose, struggled with loss, or wondered if your work truly matters—this episode is for you. Follow Stefan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefan.vdg/ Follow Stefan on IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm8664327/

What does it really mean to live your truth—no matter the cost? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Zach sits down with author, speaker, and radio host Ellie Krug, who transitioned at 52 after decades of living a life that didn’t fully reflect who she truly was. Ellie shares her journey from a “perfect life on paper” to embracing authenticity, even when it meant losing nearly everything. From navigating marriage, parenthood, and identity, to rebuilding her life and becoming a voice for compassion and inclusion, Ellie’s story is one of resilience, honesty, and courage. The conversation also dives into LGBTQ+ identity, the challenges facing the transgender community today, dating struggles, and what it really means to feel whole. This is a raw, inspiring, and eye-opening episode you don’t want to miss. Learn more about Ellie: https://elliekrug.com/ Buy Ellie's Books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ms.-Ellen-Krug/author/B00BISJYSC?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1777324473&sr=8-1&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=905cd415-ba48-4a01-83af-9858a9ed81e5

What happens when you die… and it’s not what you expected? In this powerful and emotional episode of Everything & Anything… and a Bit Gay, I sit down with Kathy McDaniel, who shares her shocking near-death experience after being placed in a coma with acute respiratory distress syndrome. Kathy didn’t just experience the light—she first experienced something far darker. From terrifying visions she describes as “hell” to an overwhelming transition into peace, love, and what she believes was heaven, her story challenges everything we think we know about life, death, and what comes next. We dive deep into: What she saw during her 18 days in a coma Why some near-death experiences are distressing Her belief that we create our own version of “hell” The moment she encountered her deceased fiancé How the experience completely changed her beliefs about religion, God, and purpose Why she says there is no judgment after death This is one of the most intense and thought-provoking conversations I’ve ever had—and it may change how you see life forever. 🎧 Listen now and decide for yourself: What really happens when we die? Buy Kathy's Book: https://www.amazon.com/Misfit-Hell-Heaven-Expat-Near-Death/dp/1952146089

What makes a home feel truly right—and why do so many of us keep buying things that don’t last? 🏡 In this episode of Everything & Anything…And a Bit Gay, I sit down with Marcus Hamblin, founder of Flourish & Foundry, to talk about Boston life, LGBTQ+ identity, and the real story behind building a small business rooted in quality and intention. Marcus shares his journey from growing up in a Mormon community in Utah to creating a design-forward retail experience in Boston. We get into the difference between big box stores and thoughtfully made products, how to stop wasting money on low-quality home goods, and why the spaces we live in have a real impact on how we feel every day. We also dive into relationships, dating in Boston, and what it means to build a life—and a space—that actually reflects who you are. ✨ In this episode: Growing up gay in a Mormon community Moving from Utah to Boston and building a new life The truth about big box stores vs. small businesses How to choose home products that actually last Creating a space that feels calm, intentional, and personal Dating, connection, and what really matters If you care about design, authenticity, and creating a home (and life) that feels aligned—this episode is for you. 👉 Check out Marcus’ shop: flourishandfoundryshop.com 🎙️ Subscribe for more conversations on LGBTQ+ culture, relationships, spirituality, and real-life stories that matter.

What if the stress you feel every day isn’t just “in your head”… but something you can actually measure, reset, and control in minutes? In this powerful episode of Everything and Anything… and a Bit Gay, I sit down with behavioral psychologist Deborah Rozman, co-founder of HeartMath, to uncover the science behind stress, anxiety, sleep issues, and emotional overwhelm—and how your heart may hold the key to fixing it all. We dive deep into the connection between your heart, brain, and nervous system—and why traditional stress advice like “just breathe” often doesn’t work long-term. Deborah explains how heart rate variability (HRV) reveals your emotional state in real time and how simple techniques can shift your body from chaos into calm. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stuck in your head, or unable to relax—this episode could genuinely change your life. 👉 Learn how to: Reduce anxiety and chronic stress Improve sleep naturally Reset your nervous system Gain emotional control in real-time Stop the cycle of overwhelm 💬 If this resonates with you, share it with someone who needs it. Learn more about Hearth Math: https://www.heartmath.com/

What if everything we’ve been shown… isn’t the full picture? In this explosive episode of Everything & Anything… and a bit gay, I sit down with researcher Ed Wilson to unpack a discovery that could change how we understand history, science, and truth itself. From a forgotten NASA archive sitting untouched for decades to alleged missing frames, altered imagery, and claims of suppressed evidence—this conversation dives deep into the possibility that we’ve only ever seen a fraction of what’s really out there. We explore: The rediscovery of a mysterious NASA image Claims that the public has only seen third-generation photographs The role of intelligence agencies in controlling information The blurred line between science, secrecy, and speculation Whether you’re a skeptic or a believer, this episode will leave you questioning everything you thought you knew. But Ed's Books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Ed-Wilson/author/B0GLGLSWSP?ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=50bd5ff9-6b3e-4667-979d-6e58b5ff52b1

Help David become the Entrepreneur of Impact and appear in Entrepreneur Magazine. Vote for him here: https://entrepreneurofimpact.org/2026/david-chum Follow David on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidchum.studio Check out David's website: https://www.davidchum.com/ In this deeply personal and inspiring episode, Zach sits down with Boston-based artist, designer, and entrepreneur David Chum to unpack a life shaped by resilience, identity, and transformation. Born in a refugee camp after his family fled the Cambodian genocide, David shares how art became his first language—and ultimately, his path to self-expression and success. From being bullied as a child for his race and sexuality to building a fashion line, appearing on Project Runway, and pivoting into the world of permanent cosmetics, David’s journey is anything but linear. He opens up about trauma, family acceptance, the reality of the beauty industry, and how “pretty privilege” and perception shape our lives more than we like to admit. This episode is about more than success—it’s about becoming who you truly are, unapologetically.

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Zach sits down with entrepreneur-turned-change-maker Adam Mizel, the founder of Us United, a movement dedicated to rebuilding connection, empathy, and unity across America. Adam shares his journey from a high-powered career in private equity to a life-changing moment in 2020 that pushed him to rethink everything. What followed was a bold decision to leave corporate success behind and dedicate his life to bringing people together—one conversation, one community, and one act of kindness at a time. From driving across the country in a purple pickup truck to launching nationwide initiatives like Unity Seats and the Holiday Giving Spectacular, Adam reveals what he’s learned about division, hope, and the truth about America that most people don’t see. This episode will challenge how you think about the world—and might just inspire you to take action in your own life. Learn more about US United: https://www.us-united.org/

There’s a difference between a straight man who’s confident—and one who’s performing confidence. And trust me, you can feel it instantly. In the first episode of my new segment “The Gay Bit", I break down the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways insecurity shows up—especially in how some straight men interact with gay men. From awkward conversations to over-the-top “bro energy,” we’re talking about what real confidence actually looks like—and why so many people get it wrong. This isn’t about calling anyone out—it’s about calling something in. Because at the end of the day, if someone else’s identity makes you uncomfortable… that says a lot more about you than it does about them. Raw, honest, and a little bit sassy—this is a conversation we don’t have enough. Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/therealzachre/

What happens when your child comes out—and everything you thought you knew gets turned upside down? In this powerful and emotional episode, Zach sits down with Heather Hester, host of More Human, More Kind, to talk about her journey from uncertainty and fear to becoming a fierce advocate for the LGBTQ+ community. After her son came out at 16, Heather found herself navigating crisis, confusion, and ultimately, transformation. Together, they dive into parenting through the unknown, unlearning harmful beliefs, navigating family dynamics, and why allyship matters now more than ever. This is a story about growth, courage, and choosing love—even when it’s hard. If you’ve ever wondered how to show up better for the people you love, this episode is for you. Follow Heather on IG: https://www.instagram.com/morehumanmorekind/ Buy Heather's Book: https://www.heatherhester.net/book

What happens when two “New York City career gays” lose everything… and rebuild from scratch with kindness, goats, and a little bit of grit? In this episode, Zach sits down with Josh Kilmer-Purcell—co-founder of Beekman 1802, Amazing Race winner, and author of Goat Wisdom—to talk about the unexpected journey from corporate life to building a global skincare brand. From meeting his husband on AOL dial-up to creating a business rooted in kindness, Josh shares the real, unfiltered story behind success—and why doing things the “old-fashioned way” might be the most powerful strategy of all. This conversation is funny, honest, inspiring, and packed with lessons on love, business, and building a life that actually means something. Find more details about Josh's Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B002BM2PJ4?ccs_id=3bcd5dae-df8b-40e5-8495-aae7d0fde164