
Fatherhood Unscripted: A Dad Life and Parenting Podcast
by Alec Hansen | Dj Clendenin
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Your Kids Are Watching You Grow Up Too
Apr 20, 2026
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Why I Almost Quit This Podcast
Apr 13, 2026
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EVERY DAD DOES THIS
Mar 23, 2026
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Kids Are Facing Things We Never Did
Mar 9, 2026
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Your Kids Will Inherit Your Anger
Feb 23, 2026
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| 4/20/26 | ![]() Your Kids Are Watching You Grow Up Too | I sat down to record something completely different… and this is where it went.This episode is about failure, growth, and what it really means to be a dad.We don’t have it all figured out—and we’re not supposed to.But here’s the truth most dads forget:your kids aren’t just growing up…they’re watching you grow too.In this episode:Why failing as a dad is normalThe pressure men carry (and why it breaks us)What my son taught me this weekWhy I’m taking this podcast seriously againIf you’re a dad trying to figure it out—you’re not alone.Subscribe and follow the journey. | — | ||||||
| 4/13/26 | ![]() Why I Almost Quit This Podcast | I stepped away from Fatherhood Unscripted… because something felt off. This episode is the reset—not just for the podcast, but for me as a dad. This isn’t just content anymore.This is a real-time archive for my kids—so one day they can see who their dad was, what he struggled with, and what he learned along the way.In this episode, I talk about:Why I took a breakWhat changed over the last 3 yearsWhy this podcast matters more now than everBringing real conversations with dads backThe vision behind Fatherhood AcademyIf you’re a dad trying to figure it out as you go… you’re not alone.Let’s build something that actually matters.👇 Subscribe and follow the journeyNew episodes every week. | — | ||||||
| 3/23/26 | ![]() EVERY DAD DOES THIS | One of the funniest parts of becoming a dad is realizing you slowly turn into your dad.The things you said you’d never say… you start saying.The things you didn’t understand… suddenly make sense.And one day you realize your parents were just figuring it out too.In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, we talk about the funny side of fatherhood, the things all dads say, and why being a dad matters more than we realize. | — | ||||||
| 3/9/26 | ![]() Kids Are Facing Things We Never Did | The other day my kid came up to me and asked a question that every dad feels in his chest:“Dad… are you proud of me?”What he told me next stopped me in my tracks.He had been talking with a friend who was struggling with suicidal thoughts, and in that moment he chose to pray for him and remind him that those dark thoughts weren’t who he was.It was one of those moments that made me incredibly proud as a father — but it also forced me to face something deeper.Our kids are growing up in a world very different from the one many of us grew up in.They’re exposed to more.They’re carrying more.And they’re facing battles earlier than we ever did.In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, I talk about that moment, the reality many kids are facing today, and why the role of fathers matters more than ever.Protect your kids online with BarkGet 15% off at checkout using code UNSCRIPTED👉https://www.bark.us/ | — | ||||||
| 2/23/26 | ![]() Your Kids Will Inherit Your Anger | You’re either breaking generational anger… or refining it.In Episode 3 of Becoming the Man Your Kids Will Remember, we talk about something every dad feels but few confront — anger.Not explosive rage.Not villain behavior.But the tension.The tone shifts.The moments we wish we could take back.Your kids won’t remember every lesson you tried to teach.They’ll remember how your anger made them feel.This episode is about ownership, regulation, repair, and stopping patterns that may have been handed down to you.Generational anger doesn’t disappear on its own.It stops when someone decides it stops. | — | ||||||
| 2/16/26 | ![]() Why Being There Matters More Than Doing More | You can provide everything your kids need… and still be emotionally absent. In Episode 2 of Becoming the Man Your Kids Will Remember, we talk about the tension many driven dads feel — working hard, building stability, and chasing success — while slowly drifting from the moments that actually shape our children. Providing creates stability. presence creates security. If Episode 1 asked “Who are you becoming? ”Episode 2 asks “Are you really there?”🔒 Protect your kids online with BarkGet 15% off at checkout using code UNSCRIPTED👉 https://www.bark.us/ | — | ||||||
| 2/9/26 | ![]() This Question Changed How I See Fatherhood | What if the most important part of fatherhood isn’t what you provide — but who you’re becoming while you raise your kids?In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, I kick off a new podcast series focused on identity, legacy, and the quiet ways fathers shape their children every day. This isn’t about being a perfect dad or having everything figured out. It’s about slowing down long enough to ask the hard questions most men avoid.Your kids are watching how you handle stress, how you respond when you mess up, how you show up at home, and how you treat the people closest to you. Long before they remember what you said, they’ll remember who you were.This episode is a raw, unscripted conversation for dads who want to be more present, more aware, and more intentional about the men they’re becoming while raising their kids.This is Episode 1 of the series Becoming the Man Your Kids Will Remember.Next episode: Presence Over Provision — why doing more isn’t the same as being present. | — | ||||||
| 1/28/26 | ![]() Your Kids Are Watching More Than You Think | Being a dad isn’t just about providing or being around—it’s about who you’re becoming in the process.In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec speaks directly to dads about the man their kids are learning from every single day. This is an honest, faith-rooted conversation about presence, leadership, legacy, and the quiet moments of fatherhood that shape our children more than we realize.This episode is for dads who:Want to lead their families wellFeel the weight of responsibilityAre trying to grow spiritually and emotionallyDon’t want to coast through fatherhoodCare deeply about the legacy they’re leavingYou don’t have to be perfect—but you do have to be intentional. | — | ||||||
| 1/5/26 | ![]() Don’t Waste This Year | A New Year Challenge for Dads | A new year doesn’t require a new you—but it does require intention.In this New Year episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, we’re speaking directly to dads who want to show up better this year—not perfectly, but consistently.This episode is a challenge for fathers to stop drifting, stop waiting for the “right time,” and start building presence, legacy, and intentional rhythms at home. No hype. No fluff. Just real talk for real dads.We also introduce Fatherhood Academy, a space built for men who want to grow in faith, fatherhood, and leadership—together.And in the middle of the episode, we talk about protecting our kids in a digital world with Bark, a tool every parent should know about👇 LINKS & RESOURCES• Join Fatherhood Academy: https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-brotherhood-3957• Get 15% off Bark with code UNSCRIPTED: https://www.bark.us/• Subscribe for weekly episodes and encouragement for dadsThis year will pass no matter what.The question is—who will you become as a father while it does? | — | ||||||
| 12/22/25 | ![]() Why Men Struggle in Silence | What happens when men finally stop pretending everything is fine?In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with Joe Speredon to talk honestly about men’s mental health, community, identity, faith, and the moments that bring us to our breaking point—and what actually helps us heal.Joe shares his personal journey through isolation, men’s groups, faith struggles, and purpose-driven work. This conversation is for dads who feel alone, burned out, or stuck carrying everything in silence.If you’ve ever done everything “right” and still felt empty—this episode is for you.🛡️ PROTECT YOUR KIDS ONLINEIf you’re a parent, keeping your kids safe online matters more than ever.Bark helps parents monitor texts, social media, and online activity for things like cyberbullying, explicit content, self-harm, and online predators—so you can step in early and have real conversations.👉 Get 15% off Bark with code UNSCRIPTED🔗 Click here: https://www.bark.us/?discount=UNSCRIPTED👥 CONNECT WITH JOEInstagram: @joesperedonWebsite / Coaching: https://coachgrid.com | — | ||||||
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| 12/15/25 | ![]() What Every Girl Dad Needs to Know | Being a dad is hard. Being a girl dad comes with a whole different set of challenges.In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, I sit down with Russell Kimura, founder of Fathers With Daughters and father of three teenage girls. Russ shares what he’s learned about connection, presence, emotional leadership, and why dads must intentionally pursue relationships with their daughters—especially as they grow older.We talk about:Why dating your daughter mattersHow dads can become a safe space for their girlsThe difference between being present vs. being intentionalWhy fathers were never meant to do this aloneHow community and mentorship shape better dadsRuss also shares the heart behind Father–Daughter Proms, coaching, and building environments where dads and daughters can connect in meaningful ways.If you’re a dad raising daughters—or preparing for what’s ahead—this conversation will challenge and encourage you.👉 Fatherhood AcademyIf you’ve ever felt the weight of leading your family and wished you had a clear roadmap, Fatherhood Academy was built for you. It’s a space where men grow spiritually, emotionally, and practically—together.Click the link below to learn more.https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-brotherhood-3957 | — | ||||||
| 12/8/25 | ![]() Men Aren’t Meant To Do Life Alone | In today’s episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with Bryan Hurd, founder of The Evolution Project, to talk about men’s work, brotherhood, faith, and the power of saying yes to the life God is calling you into.Bryan shares how retreats, adventure, service, and honest conversations can completely transform a man’s life — not because he’s “broken,” but because every man is invited into becoming more than he is today. From horseback trips in Wyoming, to father–son humanitarian projects in Mexico, to soul-level conversations around a fire, Bryan explains why men change when they finally step out of isolation and into community.If you’re a dad, a husband, or a man who feels that nudge in your spirit that something needs to shift — this episode is for you.👉 Connect with Bryan:Website: myevolutionproject.comIG: @theevolutionproject👉 Protect your kids online with Bark (Code: UNSCRIPTED for 15% off)If this conversation speaks to you, consider joining our community of faith-filled dads walking out purpose, growth, and fatherhood together. | — | ||||||
| 12/2/25 | ![]() From Reactive to Present: The Fatherhood Shift Men NEED to Make | Today on Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with men’s relationship coach Noel Cappelletti, a dad helping men stop reacting in anger and start leading their families with calm, grounded presence.If you’ve ever come home from work already at an 8 out of 10, snapped at your kids, shut down with your wife, or felt like your emotions were running you — this episode is going to hit home.Noel breaks down:Why dads get overwhelmed so easilyHow our nervous system shapes our tone, patience, and reactionsWhy your kids borrow your prefrontal cortexHow to regulate your emotions before you walk in the doorThe truth about generational fatherhood patternsWhy presence is greater than perfectionHow to rebuild your relationship with your kids at ANY ageThis one is PACKED with practical tools, real vulnerability, and hope for every dad who wants to do better — not perfectly, but presently. | — | ||||||
| 11/17/25 | ![]() The #1 Thing Kids Need From Their Dad | Today is a soft relaunch of the podcast — because life changed, the schedule shifted, and this season is going to look a little different. DJ is taking a longer hiatus, so for now I’m taking the reins and bringing you honest, faith-driven conversations for dads who want to grow, lead, and be present.In this solo episode, I’m sharing what I’ve learned from some of the incredible dads who’ve sat across from us:• Shawn Finnegan — compassion through your kids• Tyler McAdams — legacy and responsibility• Logan & Tyson (DadBodsandBeards) — presence over perfection• Joe from You Matter Dad — grace for the journeyAnd here’s the truth:Your kids don’t need a perfect dad. They need a present one.Not distracted. Not overwhelmed. Not silently struggling. Present.In this episode we talk:• Being overwhelmed & showing up anyway• Breaking the “I’m fine” cycle• How a distracted dad becomes an absent dad• Taking ownership of your growth• Faith, fatherhood, and the gaps only God can fillIf this message hits home… share it with a dad who needs it.✨ Bark x UnscriptedProtect your kids online with Bark.Use code unscripted for 15% off.📌 Connect with me on Instagram@fatherhood_unscripted👍 Like, subscribe, and leave a rating — it helps more dads find this community. | — | ||||||
| 10/27/25 | ![]() Why Being a Dad Is the Best (and Hardest) Job in the World | Modern fatherhood looks a lot different — and The Dumb Dads are showing us why that’s a good thing.In this Fatherhood Unscripted episode, Alec sits down with Evan and Kevin, the creators of The Dumb Dads, to talk about:👨👧👦 Stay-at-home dad life and breaking stereotypes😂 Finding humor in parenting chaos💬 Why talking about your struggles makes you a better parent❤️ Teaching kids confidence without arrogance⚖️ Balancing identity, creativity, and familyWhether you’re a dad trying to figure it out or just need a laugh, this one’s for you.Watch till the end for their best advice for any dad—new or seasoned—who’s trying to do his best.📺 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, faith, and real talk with Alec and DJ.Follow Fatherhood Unscripted: @fatherhoodunscripted👇 Connect with The Dumb Dads🎧 Podcast: https://linktr.ee/TheDumbDads📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedumbdads/🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDumbDads🎭 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thedumbdads🌐 Website: https://www.thedumbdads.com | — | ||||||
| 10/20/25 | ![]() Why Dads Snap (and How to Stop It) | In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with men’s coach Jason Schnitzer to talk about one of the toughest struggles dads face: losing our cool at home.We dive deep into emotional regulation, why dads often snap under pressure, and how to stay calm even when life feels chaotic. Jason breaks down the nervous system’s role in fatherhood, the generational patterns we pass down, and practical tools for being present with your wife and kids.What you’ll learn in this episode:Why dads succeed everywhere but struggle at homeHow to regulate emotions and build capacity under stressWhy bottling up feelings backfires with kids and marriagePractical steps to stay calm in chaos (and stop yelling)How to break generational cycles and model strength for your kidsWhether you’re a dad in the thick of parenting struggles or just want to show up better for your family, this conversation is for you.🔔 Subscribe for more real conversations on faith, family, and fatherhood: [Your Channel Link]📲 Connect with Jason Schnitzer: [Instagram link]💬 Join our free dad community: Rooted in Brotherhood → [link]🛡 Protect your kids online with Bark Phone — 15% OFF with code UNSCRIPTED | — | ||||||
| 10/14/25 | ![]() Fatherhood Podcast Milestone: 100 Honest Dad Conversations | We’ve officially hit 100 episodes of Fatherhood Unscripted! 🎉What started at “DJ’s Table” has grown into one of the top dad podcasts for men, faith, and fatherhood. In this milestone episode, Alec and DJ reflect on what it means to be fathers, friends, and men of faith who are chasing legacy.✅ What you’ll learn in this episode:Why taking risks as a dad can change your lifeThe importance of faith in fatherhood and legacy-buildingHow community, values, and brotherhood strengthen menFavorite moments and guests from the past 100 episodesWhat’s next for Fatherhood Unscripted and our journey👊 If you’re a dad looking for encouragement, growth, and a real conversation about the challenges and joys of fatherhood—this is for you.📲 Don’t miss what’s next: Subscribe to Fatherhood Unscripted and join a growing brotherhood of fathers making an impact. | — | ||||||
| 10/9/25 | ![]() The Heavy Truth About Fatherhood: Challenges Every Dad Faces | The Weight of Fatherhood dives deep with Kevin Clevenger, better known as Iron Sanctuary, in one of the most powerful and raw conversations we’ve had on Fatherhood Unscripted. Kevin opens up about his journey from addiction to redemption, how becoming a dad changed everything, and the constant battle between providing for your family and being present with them. This episode explores: The mental weight fathers carry in silence The struggle to balance success, family, and purpose The power of transparency in men’s mental health How fitness, faith, and fatherhood intersect in Kevin’s life Why vulnerability might be a dad’s greatest strength🎙️ Guest: Kevin “Iron Sanctuary” Clevenger📍 Follow Kevin: TikTok / Instagram: @ironsanctuaryCoaching: ironsanctuaryfit.com Apparel: ironsanctuaryshop.com | — | ||||||
| 10/6/25 | ![]() Why True Peace Can’t Be Counterfeited | In this powerful episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec sits down with Curtis J. Morley (Counterfeit Emotions Podcast) to dive into faith, peace, and the struggles dads face in today’s world.We talk about:How tragedy sparked revival and renewed faith across communitiesThe difference between surrender and resignation—and why true peace can’t be counterfeitedThe impact of church hurt, shame, and how to guide kids through tough seasonsConversations dads need to have with their children about faith, fear, and even tough topics like pornographyFinding healing through Christ and how to pass that peace on to our familiesThis episode is raw, real, and filled with encouragement for dads and men of faith.👥 Connect with Curtis J. MorleyWebsite: counterfeitemotions.comPodcast: Counterfeit Emotions (Apple, Spotify, Amazon)Pornography Recovery Program: counterfeitemotions.com/recovery📌 Don’t forget—next week is our 100th episode with DJ back in the studio! | — | ||||||
| 9/30/25 | ![]() Balancing Fatherhood and Legacy: Parenting, Work and Faith as a Dad | In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ sit down to share some big updates with the community. 🎙️DJ opens up about entering a busy season with his family—three kids in sports, weekends packed with games, and the reality of balancing fatherhood with creative projects. After much thought (and prayer), DJ is stepping back for a few weeks to focus on his family.But don’t worry—the podcast isn’t going anywhere. Alec has exciting guests lined up, including Curtis Morley, and momentum is only growing as we approach our 100th episode. 🚀We also talk about:The reality of busy seasons as dads 👨👧👦Why rest and reprioritizing matterHow we’re keeping the podcast strong with new guests and conversationsFunny behind-the-scenes moments you won’t want to miss👕 Sponsored by Bark — keeping your kids safe online. Use code UNSCRIPTED for 15% off for life.👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe so you don’t miss what’s coming. And if our podcast has impacted you, share it with another dad—it might impact him too. | — | ||||||
| 9/22/25 | ![]() How a Side Hustle Became a Billion Dollar Business | Marine → LAPD → Quest Nutrition → Legendary Foods. Bruce Cardenas breaks down side hustles, sampling, customer obsession, listening, culture, and why you can’t out-market a bad product. Chapters below. Join our dad community—click the link below.🔗 BruceIG: @brucee_cardenasSite: brucecardenas.comBook (working title): Lead With ValueIf this helped, hit 👍 and share it with one entrepreneur who needs the nudge. | — | ||||||
| 9/15/25 | ![]() How to Be a Strong Father AND a Successful Entrepreneur | Today on Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ sit down again with Shawn Finnegan to kick off our month of entrepreneurship for dads. We talk about the recent tragedy that’s weighed on many families, the importance of showing up for our kids even when life and business get heavy, and how to pursue your entrepreneurial dreams without sacrificing your family.Shawn shares:• What he wishes he’d done differently as a young dad starting his business• The Tony Robbins firewalk story he experienced with his daughter• How to juggle “glass balls” (family, health, faith) while building a business• Why including your kids in your work builds their confidence and self-beliefIf you’re a father thinking about starting a business—or you’re in the grind right now—this conversation will give you perspective, practical advice, and hope.🔔 Subscribe to Fatherhood Unscripted for more real conversations about modern fatherhood, faith, and personal growth.Connect with Shawn Finnegan: Search “Finnegan Shawn” on social (he’s not the fitness model 😉). | — | ||||||
| 9/8/25 | ![]() Is Technology Rewiring Our Kids’ Brains? | In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ dive deep into one of the biggest struggles parents face today: technology overload and screen addiction in kids.We talk about what happens when you take away screens (yep—withdrawals and meltdowns are real), how ADHD and dopamine hits make it even tougher, and why creating tech-free zones is crucial for your family.We also share our personal stories—Alec’s son and Fortnite withdrawals, DJ’s kids navigating routine shifts, and how our own habits as dads set the tone for our families.Plus—we introduce our new partnership with Bark, a tool that helps parents monitor online activity, protect kids from bullying, explicit content, and online predators—without “spying.” Think of it as a digital seatbelt for your kids. 🚦👉 Use code “unscripted” for 15% off Bark for life: [link here]If you’re a dad (or mom) trying to figure out this tech-driven world, this conversation is for you.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop a comment on how you handle screen time at home. | — | ||||||
| 9/1/25 | ![]() Most Dads Get This Wrong (Counterfeit Emotions) | In this episode of Fatherhood Unscripted, Alec and DJ sit down with Curtis Morley, founder of Counterfeit Emotions, to expose the lies behind counterfeit emotions like “nice,” “lust,” and “shame.”Curtis explains why kindness is radically different than niceness, how dads can sit with emotions instead of stuffing them down, and why sobriety without recovery is a trap. He also shares practical steps for dads to guide their kids through emotional health, pornography exposure, and breaking free from shame.👉 Special offer for our listeners: Protect your kids online with Bark parental controls. Use code UNSCRIPTED for 15% off.🔗 Try Bark hereCurtis’s Next Recovery Cohort (Sept 24th):https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/recoveryhttp://recoverynotsobriety.com/ | — | ||||||
| 8/29/25 | ![]() This Is How to Win Your Battles | This is it—the finale of our Armor of God series.In this episode, Alec unpacks the Sword of the Spirit from Ephesians 6:17—the only offensive weapon in the armor God gives us. You can’t fight lies with silence. You need the Word of God.📖 Ephesians 6:17“…take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.”We’ll talk about:Why you can’t outthink the enemy’s lies—you have to fight themHow Jesus used Scripture as His weapon in the wildernessHow dads can model fighting with truth for their familiesPick one verse that speaks against a lie you’ve been believing. Write it down. Memorize it. Speak it out loud when the lie comes.That’s how you swing the sword.If this series encouraged you, make sure to subscribe—so you don’t miss the new season of Father Like the Father on its own channel and podcast.🧠 Weekly Challenge🔔 Subscribe CTA | — | ||||||
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