113. A PARIERA: non-binary trans man

About this episode

A Pariera discusses his journey as a non-binary trans man, exploring identity, masculinity, and spirituality.

A Pariera is a philosopher, guide, and mentor, rethinking self, identity, and reality. A's pronouns are he/they , and he identifies as a non-binary trans man . Find out what that means to A in this episode. We talk about his journey from transitioning to detransitioning to retransitioning, going inward on a soul quest, embracing the journey, deconditioning, returning to home in the body, feeling safe, redefining masculinity and femininity and a spiritual and energetic perspective on these, and taking the long road. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/a

People in this episode

Host: Esther Lemmens

Guest: A Pariera

Topics covered

• non-binary identity
• transgender experience
• masculinity
• femininity
• spiritual journey
• deconditioning

Keywords

• non-binary
• trans man
• transitioning
• detransitioning
• retransitioning
• identity
• masculinity
• femininity
• spirituality

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