When to Have Sex & What to Say First: Conscious Dating in a Fast-Moving World | #05

About this episode

Shari Van de Craen and Alexa Lynn discuss conscious dating and empowerment in a fast-paced world.

In this raw and radically honest episode, I sit down with conscious dating and empowerment coach Alexa Lynn to explore how to date with intention, embodiment, and confidence—even in a world that constantly rushes us into the next thing. Together, we unravel what it means to pause after a breakup, stop being the CEO of the story factory, and let your authentic woman drive the car instead of the people-pleasing “nice girl.” We also explore the powerful R-B-D-S-M framework for clear, sexy, and s...

People in this episode

Guest: Alexa Lynn

Topics covered

• conscious dating
• empowerment
• intention
• embodiment
• confidence

Keywords

• breakup
• authenticity
• people-pleasing
• R-B-D-S-M framework

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