Grounded

Why do we feel spiritually stuck… even when life is going well?In this episode, I open up about something I didn’t expect to be encountering post-PhD: feeling spiritually understimulated.No books or reading, just a check-in on what happens when stillness can lead to feeling disconnected, unfocused, and even bored sometimes.Things I am thinking about…Why do we associate spiritual growth with struggle and suffering?How can routines be a means of reconnecting? Why boredom and stillness might actually be necessary for growth?Chapters00:00 Grounding Question: Why Do We Think Spiritual Growth Has to Be Stressful?00:30 Opening01:11 Feeling Spiritually Understimulated

There’s so much talk about the divine feminine out there. So what’s divine about being femme?✨This week, we turn to Audre Lorde and Ashley Coleman Taylor to get a sense of what is divine about the Black femme through a Black queer and religious studies lens.We talk about A LOT.What’s the difference between popular culture takes and social media discourse on the divine feminine and Lorde and Coleman’s theorizing about the Black femme as divine? A lot. Most of the time, the girls are not talking about the same thing. And we get into how a lot of talk about the divine feminine defines itself over and against the Black femme embodiment like that of the rap girls (Sexyy Red, Cardi B, Megan Thee Stallion, etc.).I explore how Lorde and Coleman Taylor’s work offer a beautiful and capacious understanding of the divine femme! You’ll have to listen for that! And how this definition also opens up a third option for how people answer questions about being Muslim and queerness.Chapters00:00 Opening00:40 Grounded in the Baddie Routine03:34 Grounding Question: What Is Divine About the Black Femme05:51 Who Is the Black Femme14:02 Divine: A relentless commitment to becoming on your own termsReferencesColeman Taylor, Ashley. "Religio-erotic Experience and Transoceanic Becoming at the Shoreline in Audre Lorde’s Zami." Journal of the American Academy of Religion 91, no. 3 (2023): 680–697.

Why I think studying religion is a social good…Bet you thought I was gonna say something like “it helps you understand the diversity of the world.” WRONG. If you’ve been here for a while, you know DEI speak ain’t got a place here.Now that I’ve got your attention.The study of religion…Is the study of what people do and the meaning they give to those actions. And once you know that, then you begin to see how power and authority are cultivated, maintained, and resisted in this world.You understand how myths work, you begin to see how systems hold power over you by selling you fiction they market as truth.You understand how rituals work, you begin to see that the most impactful social movements and thinkers have all ritualized resistance in some way.You understand how authority works, you start moving in a way that aligns with what you think should have authority over your life, not what you’re told should have.You understand how knowledge is produced, you start producing your own and finding meaning + purpose in knowledge they’ve told you has none.The study of religion is a social good because it helps one see the world as it is and turns your attention to all the possibilities of what it could be.It’s the study of critique not rooted in despair or ambivalence. It’s the study of how the spiritual AND the material are one and the same. It’s the study of how the status quo is maintained and resisted.Chapters00:00 Welcome00:40 Grounding in my own answers01:59 Why is it important to study religion + spirituality?05:15 Myth of the Millennial Pick Me12:04 Rituals that give the everyday meaning15:10 Authority to move how YOU wanna move21:25 Knowledge also comes from withinReferencesAli, Tazeen M. The Women’s Mosque of America: Authority and Community in US Islam. NYU Press, 2022.Lorde, Audre. “Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power (1978).” Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches (2020): 53–59.Pérez, Elizabeth. “Religion in the Kitchen: Cooking, Talking, and the Making of Black Atlantic Traditions.” In Religion in the Kitchen. New York University Press, 2016.Episode 3: What’s the Difference Between Religion and SpiritualityEpisode 4: Listener Question: How to Make a Writing Practice (or Any Practice) Spiritual

We've got our first listener question!How did you make your writing practice feel like a spiritual practice?I break down three ways I made the dissertation writing practice feel like a spiritual practice: thinking about writing as channeling, ritualizing the whole thing, and working in some collective accountability.I've NEVER been motivated by the kind of disposition that says "get up and grind," "show you're the smartest," "dominate the field you are in," or "be the best." It works for some people, just not me. But what has always helped me tap into the kind of discipline I needed in this moment was seeing the task before me as a challenge for obtaining spiritual depth. You mean I’ll get to know myself better through this practice? Develop a deeper connection to my ancestors? Think about my work as part of a larger tradition? Now that I will get up and do every day.Works referenced:For my reference to "archival ancestors," see Ahmad Greene-Hayes Underworld Work: Black Atlantic Religion Making in Jim Crow New Orleans (University of Chicago Press, 2025).For my reference to "ancestrally responsible work," check out the amazing public, artistic, and scholarly work of Alexis Pauline Gumbs, including Survival is a Promise: The Eternal Life of Audre Lorde (Penguin, 2024).For my note on getting started with ancestor veneration, I learned so much from Ehime Ora's Spiritu Come From Water: An Introduction to Ancestral Veneration and Reclaiming African Spiritual Practices (Hay House, 2025) and JuJu Bae's The Book of Juju: Africana Spirituality for Healing, Liberation, and Self-Discovery (Sterling Ethos, 2024).

I have a very complex, sometimes maybe a little too intense, relationship I have had with time. One that left me extremely skeptical of the saying "we're our ancestors' wildest dreams" when I first heard it. I’m coming to this reflection during the cross-over episode that is Ramadan intersecting with Black History Month, which has got me thinking its time to heal my own relationship to time.This week, I'm finding grounding in a beautiful concept written about by Alexis Pauline Gumbs: dream time. This idea really changed how I think about my responsibility to, as they say, use my time wisely.Follow me @imanabdk on socials for more at the intersections of the spiritual and the intellectual!--I did the reading so you don't have to, but as always, I'd love to hear what you think about it too! Send me a DM or comment on the show directly on Spotify.Alexis Pauline Gumbs, “Prophecy in the Present Tense: Harriet Tubman, the Combahee Pilgrimage, and Dreams Coming True,” Meridians 12, no. 2 (2014): 142–152.

If you’re anything like me, you want your big-idea, smart podcasts to have some soul and life to them. But when you go looking for that in the more “woo-woo” corners, it can feel like everyone is promising to change your life or sell you something. And it doesn’t always feel grounded in the kind of research and intellectual work that makes spirituality feel real.So I’ve got something for you.Welcome to the Grounded Podcast with your host, Dr. Iman. This is a space where the intellectual meets the spiritual. I’m a professor, a scholar of religion, and someone learning how to find her footing in real time.I’ll introduce you to the people, conversations, and schools of thought that have changed how I see the world. Together, we’ll seek clarity not through passivity or bypassing, but through intuition, critique, and imagination.Some episodes are just me reflecting on where I’m finding my footing. Others draw from my research on religion and spirituality, tracing where I’ve seen others find theirs. And sometimes we’re joined by experts, friends, and even you, the listeners, learning with each other and seeking rootedness together.So wherever this takes us, I’m really glad you’re here.Let’s get grounded.