Habits of a Mother

Send us Fan Mail In this Advent reflection, Dr. Betsey explores how self-reliance can quietly replace trust in God, even during seasons of prayer and silence. She reflects on the invitation of Advent to slow down, turn inward, and seek solitude with the Lord — and how that solitude can gently reveal the places we are still carrying things on our own. This episode unpacks the difference between sacred silence and spiritual isolation, offers a simple “Name It to Tame It” mindset practice, refle...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I share an honest look at the season when I had four kids under four and felt overwhelmed, guilty and unsure if I could really handle the motherhood journey God gave me. I talk about the help I needed, the lies I believed about doing it all alone, and how God slowly grew my confidence as my children grew. If you are in a season that feels impossible, this conversation will remind you that help is holy, community is a gift and God will strengthen you in every ...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever walked away from a conversation replaying every word you said? In this episode, Dr. Betsey shares how insecurity takes root when we let the world define our worth and how true healing begins when we see ourselves the way God does. A gentle reminder that you are already seen, known, and loved. Follow along on Instagram for all the pregnancy and postpartum advice! Check out Dr. Betsey's online courses.

Send us Fan Mail Fear has a sneaky way of creeping into our everyday lives—especially in motherhood. In this episode of Habits of a Mother, Dr. Betsey shares how the smallest daily choices can either lead us into bondage—cycles of fear, control, and distraction—or into bonding with Christ through habits of hope and freedom. You’ll hear practical examples of what bondage looks like in daily life, and how simple, intentional practices like prayer, Scripture, and gratitude can re-anchor your hea...

Send us Fan Mail Mom guilt has a way of creeping in from the moment we wake up until the moment we fall into bed at night. But what if instead of carrying the weight of guilt, we could trade it for God’s grace? In this episode, I share encouragement from the life and writings of Edith Stein and how her wisdom offers a simple rhythm of peace for mothers who feel overwhelmed, weary, or inadequate. If you’ve ever ended your day replaying mistakes or wishing you’d done more, this conversation wil...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever been in a season where your faith life felt strong — you were praying daily, opening your Bible, sensing God’s presence — and then life happened? One small distraction after another pulled you away, until you found yourself spiritually dry, short on patience, and running on self-reliance instead of God’s strength. In this honest, from-the-heart episode, I share my own recent spiral and how God gently brought me back. You’ll learn my simple R.E.S.E.T. method for ...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever done something kind for your kids, only for them to throw it back in your face—or not even say thank you? That extra sting we feel? That’s the trap of transactional love. And it’s something I’ve been wrestling with in my own heart after sitting with the story of Mary and Martha in Luke 10. In today’s episode, I’m sharing how this familiar passage is teaching me to reflect on my "why" behind loving my family. This episode might be the heart-check you need this we...

Send us Fan Mail In today’s episode, I’m getting real about a habit I didn’t know I had—putting my marriage at the bottom of my priority list. After a hard conversation with my husband (and a humbling moment at Starbucks), God opened my eyes to how I’d unintentionally been treating him like an afterthought. I’m sharing the simple ways I’m reorienting my heart, reordering my priorities, and loving my husband more intentionally—without adding pressure or guilt. If you’ve ever felt like motherho...