I've Said It a Hundred Times. Why Doesn't He Hear Me?

About this episode

Dr. Dar Hawks discusses why feeling unheard in relationships is often not a delivery problem and offers practical solutions.

You've said it clearly. You've said it calmly. You've said it ten different ways. And you still don't feel heard. In this episode, Dr. Dar Hawks explains why feeling unheard in your relationship is almost never a delivery problem, and what is actually getting in the way. You'll learn about The Closed Door(tm), the Heart Guard(tm), and Too Full to Hear(tm), three real reasons your words aren't landing, plus three practical shifts you can make right now so your needs finally get through. ...

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Dar Hawks

Topics covered

• communication
• relationships
• emotional barriers
• self-improvement
• listening skills

Keywords

• communication issues
• feeling unheard
• relationship advice
• emotional barriers
• listening techniques

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