Why ‘Nice Guys’ Kill Attraction (And What Women Actually Want)

Why ‘Nice Guys’ Kill Attraction (And What Women Actually Want)

From Healing with Kink by Karina Gutierrez-Noriega, M.S.Ed.

April 23, 2026 · 11 min

About this episode

Karina discusses the reasons why 'nice guys' may kill attraction and what women truly desire in relationships.

I’m Karina, a Psychotherapist and guide for Feminine and Tantric Embodiment. I blend clinical insight with heart-centered wisdom to help you connect deeply with your body, your desires, and your unique power. Consider this your permission slip to be fully expressed in sex, love, business and life itself. ❤️‍🔥 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@healingwithkink⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠www.karinagutierrez.com⁠⁠ FREE feminine embodiment practices: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Apply for 1:1 Mentorship: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Apply here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ Watch on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to like & subscribe! Your support means the world 🤍

People in this episode

Host: Karina Gutierrez-Noriega

Topics covered

  • attraction
  • relationships
  • masculinity
  • feminine embodiment
  • sexuality

Keywords

  • nice guys
  • attraction
  • women's desires
  • feminine embodiment
  • relationships

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