Why you choose the men you choose...
From Heartbreak Alchemy with Alaska Wolfe by Where your heartbreak becomes the catalyst of the most powerful reinvention of your lifetime.
September 10, 2025 · 60 min
About this episode
This episode explores the reasons behind dating choices and the impact of the body and nervous system on love and relationships.
In this episode of The Heartbreak Alchemy Podcast, we talk about why the f*ck you are are choosing the men you choose and more importantly, why the f*ck you are NOT choosing the men you say you want. This episode goes deep into the role of the body and the nervous system in your dating life, how childhood conditioning and relational dynamics affect your choices in love and §ex and why your body often overrides your mind when it comes to who you’re drawn to. We explore the paradox of being the strong, hyper-competent woman who secretly longs to be chosen and adored, the cycle of over-functioning that attracts under-functioning partners, and how love gets wired as labor, stress, or proving. You’ll hear how this split between body and mind keeps you stuck in heartbreak patterns, and what it actually takes to recode your nervous system so you can feel safe receiving, trusting, and creating the expansive love you desire. This one is INTENSE and SO IMPORTANT. Lets go. Body Oracle™ If you feel called to do the healing and expansion that will allow you to step into your wild next level in life, then Body Oracle™ is for you. It is 3 months of the highest level, 1:1 support, using your…
People in this episode
Host: Alaska Wolfe
Topics covered
- dating choices
- nervous system
- childhood conditioning
- relational dynamics
- self-worth
- love patterns
Keywords
- dating
- relationships
- self-discovery
- nervous system
- love
- heartbreak
- self-worth
- childhood conditioning
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