Domestic Abuse in LGBTQ+ Relationships with James Barr

Domestic Abuse in LGBTQ+ Relationships with James Barr

From Homo Sapiens by Spirit Studios & Christopher Sweeney

May 7, 2026 · 45 min

About this episode

James Barr discusses his experiences with domestic abuse in LGBTQ+ relationships and the importance of speaking out.

James Barr is co-hosting this week to talk about his powerful live show 'Sorry I Hurt Your Son' and the reality of domestic abuse in queer relationships. From not recognising the signs to questioning whether it “counts” as abuse, James shares how he made sense of his experience and turned it into something life-changing. We dive into why abuse is still so hidden in the LGBTQ+ community, the impact of shame and silence, and why more people need to speak out. Plus, James opens up about the moment he finally left, and how comedy helped him process it all - enjoy listeners! Chris & James x ✉️Get in touch hello@homosapienspodcast.com 📲@homosapiens on instagram 🎥Watch on YouTube @homosapienspod 👆🏼Subscribe for more conversations that matter to the LGBTQ+ community ✨ Here are some resources for any listeners who may need them: Lead Specialist Service Galop – National LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline 0800 999 5428 | help@galop.org.uk Mon–Tue 9:15am–8pm, Wed–Fri 9:15am–4:30pm (closed 1–2pm), closed weekends Trans-specific service: Tuesday 1pm–5pm (per Camden NHS listings); Galop also runs a dedicated Trans Advocacy Service offering confidential advice by phone, email or face-to-face…

People in this episode

Host: Christopher Sweeney

Guest: James Barr

Topics covered

  • domestic abuse
  • LGBTQ+ relationships
  • shame
  • silence
  • comedy
  • mental health

Keywords

  • domestic abuse
  • LGBTQ+
  • queer relationships
  • mental health
  • comedy
  • shame
  • silence

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Galop, London LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Partnership

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