Why Authenticity Makes People Uncomfortable Ft. Kenya aka Vain The Villain

About this episode

The episode features a discussion with Kenya aka Vain The Villain on authenticity, accountability in relationships, and her personal standards for dating.

Send us Fan Mail This week I'm joined by Kenya aka SheSoVain to discuss all things from the importance of being authentic and knowing yourself to holding men accountable, to motherhood, NYC nightlife, and so much more. We unpack who Kenya is, how she views herself, and what it takes for her to give her time to a man. While many may say that her expectations are unrealistic, she maintains her standards for herself by setting high standards for the men who nay want to date her, thus weeding out...

People in this episode

Host: Honestly Tho Podcast

Guest: Kenya aka Vain The Villain

Topics covered

• authenticity
• accountability
• motherhood
• NYC nightlife
• dating standards

Keywords

• authenticity
• accountability
• motherhood
• NYC nightlife
• dating standards
• expectations
• relationships

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