264. Honey Archive: How To Own Your Slut Era with Zachary Zane

264. Honey Archive: How To Own Your Slut Era with Zachary Zane

From Honeydew Me by Emma Norman & Cass Anderson

April 29, 2026 · 56 min

About this episode

Zachary Zane joins the hosts to discuss embracing sexuality without shame and redefining what it means to be a 'slut'.

Zachary Zane aka “The Boyslut” joins us for one of our most freeing conversations yet. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author known for his honest, no-BS takes on sexuality, shame, and modern dating. We’re talking about what it actually means to embrace your sexuality without shame, how to define pleasure on your own terms, and why the word “slut” might not mean what you think it does. We cover: Redefining “slut” (and taking your power back). Why being a “slut” has nothing to do with numbers and everything to do with ownership, desire, and self-expression. Why shame is the biggest block to good sex. How internalized shame shapes your sex life more than your actual experiences, and how to start unlearning it. What it really means to explore your sexuality. Moving beyond performative sex into curiosity, experimentation, and figuring out what actually feels good for you. The pressure to be “good” in bed (and why it backfires). How trying to meet expectations kills connection and pleasure, and what to focus on instead. Communication that actually makes sex better. Why being honest about your wants, turn-ons, and boundaries is the key to more satisfying sex. Letting go of…

People in this episode

Hosts: Emma Norman, Cass Anderson

Guest: Zachary Zane

Topics covered

  • sexuality
  • shame
  • self-expression
  • communication
  • pleasure
  • identity

Keywords

  • sexuality
  • shame
  • pleasure
  • communication
  • self-expression
  • identity
  • exploration

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