31 The Thing About Labels (Ali Kolbert)

About this episode

Comedian Ali Kolbert joins to discuss sexual identity, labels, and personal experiences in relationships.

We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian who sometimes will fuck a guy. We also talk about Ali ending her engagement, toxic relationships, hating how people post on Instagram, and so much more. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Follow Ali @AliKolbert Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

People in this episode

Host: Remy Kassimir

Guest: Ali Kolbert

Topics covered

• sexual identity
• labels
• lesbian
• bisexual
• toxic relationships
• social media

Keywords

• sexual identity
• lesbian
• bisexual
• toxic relationships
• Instagram
• comedy
• podcast

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