It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain
by Sony Music Entertainment
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Recent episodes
Introducing: How to Date
Feb 3, 2025
10m 04s
Endings Make Way For New Beginnings
Jun 21, 2024
22m 05s
Where Can I Find A Life Partner?
Jun 19, 2024
21m 59s
Wokefish and Brocialists
Jun 17, 2024
29m 55s
Lala's Confession
Jun 14, 2024
21m 47s
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| 2/3/25 |  Introducing: How to Date | Looking for love or navigating the modern dating world? We've got just the thing! How to Date is your ultimate guide to the highs, lows, and everything in between of modern romance. Hosted by broadcaster and author Elizabeth Day and relationship expert Mel Schilling, this podcast masterclass dives deep into the complexities of finding connection in today’s world. Whether you're decoding dating apps, breaking old patterns, or building confidence, Elizabeth and Mel are here to help—with humour, honesty, and expert advice. Featuring candid conversations with fascinating guests, you'll learn how to spot red flags, avoid communication pitfalls, cope with rejection, and even find love that's truly worthy of you. Plus, practical tips and exercises make this a must-listen for anyone looking to date with confidence and self-worth. After all, the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself. A Daylight and Sony Music Entertainment Production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 10m 04s | ||||||
| 6/21/24 |  Endings Make Way For New Beginnings | The last hurrah! Thank you SO much for supporting the podcast and sending in all your dilemmas, icks, confessions and red flags over the past year. This podcast couldn't have happened without you! This final episode not only looks at the usual icks and confessions but also at the great things you've achieved over the last year. Thank you and keep following @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram for more content. A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 22m 05s | ||||||
| 6/19/24 |  Where Can I Find A Life Partner? | It's the final agony aunt episode!! Lala takes a look at your latest dilemmas like what to do when a man is masturbating in public and how best to approach the topic of an absent father when you share a child. Plus Lala looks at where we should really be looking to meet life partners. If you've been a victim of assualt you can find help and support at https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/ A Sony Music Entertainment production. Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 21m 59s | ||||||
| 6/17/24 |  Wokefish and Brocialists | Voting registration closes tomorrow and your vote counts! If you're confused about who to vote for you're not alone but that doesn't mean you shouldn't vote. And what about dating someone who has different political views to you or doesn't think voting is important? Lala faced this in a past romantic relationship and took matters in to her own hands. Plus look out for the wokefish and brosialists. Register to vote here: www.gov.ukregister-to-vote If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 29m 55s | ||||||
| 6/14/24 |  Lala's Confession | It's Friday confessions and you guys have been up to all sorts...like being fingered by a co-worker when you're pregnant with your boyfriends baby (!), preventing your cheating exes friend from getting a job AND having sex with people in front of your husband. Plus one of you asked this week if you are a red flag and Lala ends the episode with a confession of her own. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 21m 47s | ||||||
| 6/12/24 |  Put Off By Pubes | Being made to feel disgusting because of pubic hair, worrying about cutting off contact with someone who is suicidal and your long term partner is texting another woman. Lala gives her two cents on your love and relationship dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! If you're a victim of abuse you can find support at helpline@womensaid.org.uk If you or anyone you know is feeling suicidal you can seek help through the Samaritans by phoning 116 123 A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 20m 25s | ||||||
| 6/10/24 |  The Other Side of Cosmetic Surgery | Following on from the conversation with Ashley and Lauren from the Nip, Tuck, Not Giving A... podcast, Lala delves deeper into the problematic side to cosmetic surgery and the conflicting feelings it can bring up. She opens up about her own insecurities when it comes to looking good and her body image and asks should we be embracing this industry or rebelling against it? If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 24m 39s | ||||||
| 6/7/24 |  Ghosted so I put them on Grindr | It's confessions Friday and you lot haven't been holding back... From identifying with Martha from Baby Reindeer to getting ghosted and putting their photos on Grindr, to sleeping with all your flatmates AND the landlord... Lala shares her thoughts on your sectrets. Plus he won't post you on his main feed, he comments on his daughters body and all five ex girlfriends have cheated on him - is it a red flag?? If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 24m 29s | ||||||
| 6/5/24 |  Do Groomers Know They're Grooming? | Do groomers understand the control they have over their victims? Is smashing plates normal behaviour if I have PMDD? How would you cope co-living with an ex? Lala tackles your questions this week. Lucy Faithfull Foundation: https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk/ ACTS Fast: https://www.actsfast.org.uk/ Rights Of Women: https://www.rightsofwomen.org.uk/ If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 21m 12s | ||||||
| 6/3/24 |  WIll I Ever Have Sex Again? With Sofie Hagen | Sofie Hagen is a Danish comedian, podcaster, fat acceptance campaigner, and author of the new book, Will I Ever Have Sex Again?. In this conversation, Lala speaks with Sofie about the challenges many people face in having the sex they desire, the complexities of dating for fat people, and the importance of honesty in body image discussions. They also delve into Sofie's thoughts on the term "involuntarily celibate" and explore their theory on the four stages of saying no. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 24m 15s | ||||||
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| 5/31/24 |  Menstrual Cup and Chilli in Yoga Pants confessions | Father Lala is here to absolve you of all your recent confessions and sins. From wiping your nether regions with a sock, to rubbing chilli in your ex's yoga pants. Lala digs into your confessions. Plus your red flag questions are answered, such as, is it a red flag if he's a drug dealer? Or Is it a red flag that he's asked me not to speak to other men? Lala calls out your relationship red flags. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 19m 01s | ||||||
| 5/29/24 |  Your Mum Texting Your Ex | Lala breaks down your latest dating dilemmas. From an ex boyfriend who enjoyed swinging and sex parties, to educating men on their cat calling behaviour and a mum that is contacting an ex against your will. Get involved in the conversation over on Lala's socials. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 13m 41s | ||||||
| 5/27/24 |  Ask A Bloke Part 2 | Lala puts more of your 'Ask a Bloke' questions to Kae Kurd and Marcus Bronzy from the Haven't Got a Clue podcast. You asked, do guys show thier friends nudes you've sent them? Where are the single, emotionally available men hanging out these days? And do you care what a vulva looks like? And listen, it doesn't matter what the opposite sex thinks, but sometimes it's nice to know. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 20m 44s | ||||||
| 5/24/24 |  Ask a Bloke Part 1 | Lala chats to Kae Kurd and Marcus Bronzy, hosts of Ain't Got A Clue podcast. She gives them the 'bear or man' in a forest scenario and puts your 'ask a bloke' questions to them. From 'what is it about sex that makes men cheat and lie for it ?' to 'when your naked are you thinking about her body or yours?'. Join us on Monday for part 2! If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 24m 50s | ||||||
| 5/22/24 |  Rate My D**k! | Turning 30 and suddenly being seen as wife material, your partner paying for someone to rate his d**k on Only Fans. Plus, dumped by your boyfriend ,via text, after unprotected sex, when trying for a baby AND given no explanation! Wow! Lala tries to make sense of your latest sex and relationship dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 19m 18s | ||||||
| 5/20/24 |  Danny Dyer's Toxic Masculinity Documentary | After Danny Dyer's documentary 'Where Toxic Masculinity Comes From', Lala received masses of dm's from you wanting to know her opinion on it. So here it is. Lala breaks down the documentary, she discusses why it was important that it was made but also where it totally missed out on challenging problematic issues and opinions. Unlike Danny's conclusion that there is a war on men and that everyone sees masculinity as a bad thing, Lala observes that toxic masculinity is alive and kicking and a result of not understanding or addressing what it actually is to be a man. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 25m 46s | ||||||
| 5/17/24 |  Sleeping With Two Brothers | It's Friday and that means it's time to get all your secrets and sins off your chest. From sleeping with two brothers at the same time to sleeping with someone you just don't fancy. Lala gets into all your latest confessions. Plus, he loves a strip club and he wants to reconnect with a female friend - is it a red flag? And head into your weekend right with your Friday night reminder. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 22m 07s | ||||||
| 5/15/24 |  Frightened of Forty | Lala has got all your sex, relationship, dating and life dilemmas and she's ready to answer them. From anxiety about letting go and trusting in a new relationship to feeling insecure about his erectile dysfunction and worrying about being a failure when turning 40. This agony aunt tells it to you straight. If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 18m 26s | ||||||
| 5/13/24 |  Valuing Different Views with Africa Brooke | Lala speaks to Africa Brooke the globally recognised consultant, mentor and speaker and who has a new book out 'The Third Persepctive'. She went viral for her letter 'While I'm Leaving The Cult of Wokeness' where she rebuked the notion that because she is a black woman she is opressed. She encourages Lala to challenge some of her own beliefs and thoughts and feels without Africa's input on important topics such as trolling and cancel culture it would be a space less understood and debated. Their views might not always align, such as on feminism, but being able to have these types of conversations and to listen to each others experiences only makes our understanding richer and more dimensional. If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 26m 55s | ||||||
| 5/10/24 |  Always Arguing with Sarah Jayne Dunn (Formally Mandy from Hollyoaks) | Lala talks to actor and podcaster, Sarah Jayne Dunn. Sarah was controversially let go from her long running role as Mandy in Hollyoaks after revealing she had set up an Only Fans page. They discuss Sarah's experience of using an often misunderstood platform and how having such a public life from a young age affected her dating experiences. Plus, always arguing in the early stages of a relationship and not being introduced to your partners child, Lala and Sarah answer some of your dating dilemmas. If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 23m 03s | ||||||
| 5/8/24 |  Help! He's Got A Breeding Kink... | Lala is here to give you advice for all your agonising dating dilemmas... including a guy who's got a breeding kink, someone questioning their f**k girl behaviour and navigating a new relationship while transitioning. If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 20m 37s | ||||||
| 5/6/24 |  Baby Reindeer | *TRIGGER WARNING - THIS EPISODE DISCUSSES THEMES OF ABUSE* In this Monday's hot topic Lala breaks down Netflix's hit show, Baby Reindeer. She looks at the backgorund of the main character 'Donny' (played by Richard Gadd in an autiobiographical role) and the abuse that he suffered prior to meeting his stalker, Martha. Lala looks at the behaviour 'Donny' displays as a victim of sexual abuse first and then of stalking, and at how common and understandable it is that victims keep going back to their abusers. If you'd like to ask Lala a question or a suggest a hot topic for her head to @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! If you've been a victim of abuse you can find help at survivorsuk.org or rapecrisis.org.uk A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 21m 29s | ||||||
| 5/3/24 |  Stoned Sex Whilst Mum's Downstairs | Lala steps into her pink confession booth and gets into all your deepest, darkest secrets. Weeing in the bath, having sex where your mum can hear and waiting for a break up so you can have sex with your ex - are they a sinner or a saint? Plus is there dodgy behaviour going on in your love life? Lala calls out your relationship red flags. If you'd like to ask Lala a question or get something off your chest get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 22m 12s | ||||||
| 5/1/24 |  Do My Tattoos Make Me Look Promiscuous? | Lala gets into your latest sex and relationship dilemmas. This week she is applauding one mums approach to not having all the answers when it comes to the sex education with her kid. She gives advice on a s**tty marriage where it might just be time to pull the plug and identifies with a woman who feels objectified over her tattoos. Do you ever feel like that yourself? Join in on the conversation over on instagram @lalalaletmeexplain. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 23m 31s | ||||||
| 4/29/24 |  Cosmetic Surgery And Judgement with Nip, Tuck | For your hot topic this Monday Lala talks to Ashley and Lauren from the Nip, Tuck, Not Giving A... podcast. Both girls are from the cosmetic world having been former patient coordinators and both have had multiple procedures themselves. They discuss what and who we are having cosmetic surgery for. The judgement that surrounds beauty procedures as a whole and the best way to approach surgery if you are thinking of having it yourself. If you'd like to ask Lala a question yourself, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! A Sony Music Entertainment production Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 24m 55s | ||||||
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Chart Positions
11 placements across 8 markets.
Chart Positions
11 placements across 8 markets.