Pro Se Pitfalls: Why Representing Yourself Can Cost You More

About this episode

This episode discusses the challenges and risks of representing oneself in family court, highlighting the importance of legal representation.

Send a text Thinking about representing yourself in family court? In this candid conversation, we break down what “pro se” really means—and why even seasoned attorneys won’t do it. We cover when mediation helps (and its limits), the critical protections people miss in DIY agreements (like securing alimony with life insurance), and the evidentiary traps that derail cases—hello, hearsay and inadmissible police reports. You’ll hear how judges expect self-represented parties to follow the same ru...

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Host: Julie Potts, Esq

Topics covered

• pro se representation
• family court
• mediation
• DIY agreements
• legal pitfalls
• evidentiary issues

Keywords

• pro se
• family court
• mediation
• alimony
• life insurance
• hearsay
• inadmissible evidence

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