Why “How Can I Help You?” Is a Dangerous Question for Chiefs of Staff

About this episode

Emily Sander discusses why Chiefs of Staff should avoid asking 'How can I help you?' and offers strategies for effective leadership.

This episode explains why Chiefs of Staff should avoid asking "How can I help you?" and instead focus on what will move the needle for their principal and team. Emily Sander shares real pitfalls, like getting stuck with small admin tasks, and suggests specific strategies such as spotting communication breakdowns or coaching leaders through challenges. The advice includes leading with strategic proposals rather than just picking up tasks others want to hand off. Get in touch with Emily: Want ...

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Host: Emily Sander

Topics covered

• Chiefs of Staff
• leadership
• communication
• strategic proposals
• team management
• administrative tasks

Keywords

• Chiefs of Staff
• leadership strategies
• communication breakdowns
• administrative tasks
• team dynamics
• coaching leaders

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