She's Not Broken. He Just Doesn't Know How Yet with Dr. Saida Désilets & Aaron Michael

About this episode

This episode discusses the orgasm gap and how it relates to sexual health and communication in relationships.

If sex has started to feel like something that works for him and not really for you or you're the one quietly wondering why she never seems to get there you're not broken, and you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael reveal why the orgasm gap has almost nothing to do with effort and everything to do with a system nobody taught you including why lasting longer actually means feeling more, not less. Take the free Orgasm Perception Quiz at mylibidodoc.com/orgasmic-perception-questionnaire to find out what your body might already be doing that you're missing.

People in this episode

Host: Dr. Diane Mueller

Guests: Dr. Saida Désilets, Aaron Michael

Topics covered

• orgasm gap
• sexual health
• relationships
• intimacy
• communication

Keywords

• orgasm gap
• sexual health
• intimacy
• relationships
• communication
• Orgasm Perception Quiz

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