Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships

In this episode, I sit down with Tali Edut—one half of The AstroTwins and a renowned astrologer to the stars—to explore how astrology can offer profound insight into our personalities, relationships, and compatibility. We dive into their groundbreaking IAM System*, a revolutionary framework that simplifies astrology into three core archetypes—Innovator, Authority, and Maven—helping you understand your strengths, challenges, and romantic chemistry on a whole new level. What you'll learn: The biggest misconceptions about astrology and how it can actually be a practical tool for dating and relationships. The three IAM archetypes—Innovator, Authority, and Maven—and what they say about your dating style. How to use astrology as a tool for self-awareness, better communication, and long-term compatibility. How knowing your partner’s archetype can prevent unnecessary conflict and strengthen your connection. How your birth chart can help you break unhealthy patterns and attract the right kind of love. Whether you're a skeptic or a firm believer in the stars, this episode will challenge the way you think about love, attraction, and relationships. Tune in to discover how astrology can be your cosmic guide to understanding yourself—and your love life—on a whole new level. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/  W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 GUEST LINKS:IG: https://www.instagram.com/astrotwins?igsh=YzhhMTVmMm5zcDFxW: https://astrostyle.com/B: https://astrostyle.com/astrology-advantage/?_gl=1*1csv7yt*_gcl_au*MTQxMzc3NTc3LjE3MzgxMTcxMTM.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I sit down with Dr Sarah Woodhouse, author of You’re Not Broken: Break Free from Trauma and Reclaim Your Life, to explore the profound impact trauma has on our daily lives, relationships, and self-perception. Sarah dives deep into the world of childhood trauma, explaining how unresolved wounds from our early years continue to shape our adult relationships and influence how we connect with others. What you'll learn: Why unresolved childhood trauma continues to affect your adult relationships and self-perception. Strategies for managing triggers and how vulnerable conversations with your partner can promote healing. The power of post-traumatic growth and how to shift your mindset to reclaim your life after trauma. How to identify and transform limiting beliefs that arise during the healing process. Key tools and practices to help you heal from trauma and build healthier, more secure relationships. Whether you’re starting your healing journey, struggling to understand the deeper impact of trauma, or seeking tools to reclaim your life, this episode offers transformative insights. Join us as we uncover practical ways to heal, grow, and move forward toward a healthier, more fulfilled version of yourself. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ Â W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 GUEST LINKS:IG: https://www.instagram.com/thesarahwoodhouse/?hl=enW: https://sarahwoodhouse.com/B: https://sarahwoodhouse.com/book/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode I unpack the compelling reasons behind why we are subconsciously drawn to certain types of partners, highlighting how these choices are attempts by our unconscious mind to heal childhood wounds through our romantic relationships. We explore the theory that our partners are not just companions but reflections of our earliest experiences of love and care, pushing us toward unresolved issues from our past. What you'll learn: The foundational principles of Imago Therapy and how it explains our attraction to familiar traits in partners, whether beneficial or detrimental. Strategies for recognising and interrupting unhealthy relational patterns that stem from our childhood experiences. How understanding your 'Imago match' can illuminate the reasons behind passionate yet tumultuous relationships, and how a calmer relationship might indicate a lesser degree of these unconscious matches. Practical steps for using your relationship as a tool for personal growth and healing, transforming conflicts into opportunities to heal childhood wounds. How to build healthier and more fulfilling relationships by engaging in conscious communication and mutual healing with your partner. Whether you're curious about why you're attracted to certain types of people, looking to break cycles of challenging relationships, or simply interested in how to use your relationship for personal growth and healing, this episode provides deep insights and actionable advice. Join me as we delve into how our deepest connections can serve as mirrors to our past and gateways to our emotional healing. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Imago therapy: https://harvilleandhelen.com/initiatives/what-is-imago/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we explore attachment styles with Thais Gibson, an acclaimed author and the creator of Integrated Attachment Theory™. Thais delves into how understanding our attachment styles—patterns established in early childhood that influence how we relate in relationships—can lead to transformative personal growth and healthier, more fulfilling connections. From the anxious to the avoidant, Thais breaks down the common behaviours associated with each style and offers strategies for evolving towards secure attachments. We also discuss the dynamic interplay of different styles in relationships and how this knowledge can resolve conflicts and enhance communication. What you'll learn: The fundamentals of Integrated Attachment Theory™ and how it expands upon traditional attachment concepts. Insights into the developmental origins of various attachment styles and their impact on adult relationships. Effective strategies to transition towards a secure attachment style for personal and relational health. Practical advice for couples facing challenges due to opposing attachment styles. Ways in which parents can apply attachment theory to strengthen bonds with their children. Whether you're looking to deepen your current relationship, mend bridges with loved ones, or simply understand yourself better, this episode with Thais Gibson is for you. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ Â W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 GUEST LINKS:IG: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/?hl=enW: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Link to a free Attachment Style Quiz: QuizLink to Thais’s book LEARNING LOVE: Book See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we delve into the world of anxious attachment with Jessica Baum, renowned therapist and author of the transformative book, Anxiously Attached. In our conversation, Jessica explains what anxious attachment is, how it forms, and its effects on relationships. We also explore the dynamics of anxious-avoidant partnerships and discuss practical strategies for managing insecurities and building healthier, more secure connections. Whether you're new to the concept of attachment styles or seeking to deepen your understanding and heal from anxious attachment, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Jessica provides clarity on why we act the way we do in relationships and how we can start the journey toward healing and secure attachment. What You'll Learn: The definition and characteristics of anxious attachment. How early childhood experiences shape attachment styles. The impact of anxious attachment on relationship dynamics. Strategies to identify and manage anxiously attached behaviours. Techniques for self-soothing and handling fears of abandonment. Insights into the anxious-avoidant relationship dynamic and how to navigate it. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 GUEST LINKS:IG: https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/?hl=enW: https://www.beselffull.com/B: https://www.amazon.com.au/Anxiously-Attached-Becoming-More-Secure/dp/0593331060See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Nicole brings a special year-end treat. In a reflective replay, she revisits 'The Impact of Self-Care on Relationships,' one of her favourite and most impactful episodes. Dive into the essential connection between nurturing yourself and cultivating healthy, meaningful relationships. With insights from the likes of the Holistic Psychologist, Gabor Maté, Kayla Barnes, and Andrew Huberman, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom on why self-care is paramount in love. As we wrap up 2023, Nicole offers a timely reminder about the importance of setting boundaries, enhancing communication, and building strong emotional foundations. Whether you missed it the first time or are ready for a refreshing re-listen, this episode promises to resonate deeply as we step into 2024. Remember, self-care is not just a luxury; it's a necessity for thriving relationships. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the Love Uncensored Hotline we're back to tackling the complex world of dating. Wondering how to find love offline because you want a meet-cute tale for the grandkids rather than a swipe-right story? We’ve got you covered. Feeling worn out from treating dating apps like a nine-to-five but still ending up with zero prospects? Let's strategise a new approach. Are first dates your Achilles heel, with second dates seeming like a myth? We’ll dive into making memorable first impressions that lead to encores. Concerned about your lack of relationship and sexual experience becoming a roadblock to dating? We’ll discuss how to navigate this personal topic with confidence. If you're craving real talk about love and dating, or if you have your own dilemmas you’d like us to dissect, write in! Your question could be featured in the next episode of Love Uncensored Hotline. Join the conversation—no filters, just raw, honest advice. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join Nicole in this uncensored locker room chat with multi-hyphenate Bella Caroutas as they delve into the complex world of dating and relationships in your 20s. Together, they explore: The importance of knowing when to walk away from a relationship and the courage it takes to do so Tips and real talk on getting over a broken heart and dealing with betrayal Navigating love bombing and ghosting, with solid advice on spotting it and handling it Getting into the nitty-gritty of money matters in dating like who picks up the tab and dealing with uneven wallets Whether you're in your 20s or just looking to understand the current dating scene better, this episode is a must-listen. GUEST LINKS: IG: https://instagram.com/bellacaroutasss/ FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's hotline episode, we dive deep into the complex world of attachment styles. We’ll be unpacking: Why do I keep attracting avoidant partners and feel blindsided by them when the relationship ends? As someone anxiously attached, why do I consistently find myself attracting avoidant partners? Should I consider continuing a relationship with an avoidant partner after being strung along for years on end? Throughout this episode, we break down the science and psychology behind why some individuals seem magnetically drawn to avoidant partners. We also explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic, examining its paradoxical nature as well as delving into strategies and insights for making a relationship with an avoidant partner work. Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email, or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's hotline episode, we dive into the challenges of modern dating, the intricacies of personal appearance choices within relationships, and understanding patterns that lead us to certain types of partners. We'll be unpacking: How do you navigate the dating world when it feels like you catch "the ick" just as things start to warm up? When you love your new hairstyle but your boyfriend doesn't, how do you assert your choice without it escalating into a conflict? Especially when you want to feel attractive to him but also stay true to yourself. Why is it that you find yourself continually attracted to love bombers? And how can you protect your heart without shutting it off completely and becoming distrustful? Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email, or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special hotline edition dating and relationship coach, Nicole Colantoni, dives deep into the intricacies of modern love by unpacking some pressing dilemmas shared by listeners: How do you heal after being love-bombed, ghosted, and then taunted with those unexpected DM slides? Is reaching out to a past love from 2 years ago, who still occupies your thoughts, a step forward or backward? In the age of TikTok, how do you gauge if your relationship is 'less fun or romantic' compared to what you see online, and should that be a reason to end things with someone you truly love? And what about those recurring dreams of your partner calling it quits? Should they be taken as subconscious warnings or just the whims of a dreaming mind? Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, your host, dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni, dives deep into the intriguing life of Braeden Rhys, also known as Jett Black. An Australian male escort and multi-award-winning marketing and public relations expert in the international adult entertainment industry, Braeden has mastered the art of living authentically. From being a youth minister to becoming one of Australia's Top 100 Entrepreneurs, Braeden’s journey is one of resilience, self-discovery, and boundless creativity. Whether breaking barriers in the adult entertainment industry, working as an elite gay companion, or performing as a drag queen, Braeden has a story that's both colourful and inspiring. In their conversation, Nicole and Braeden explore the challenges he's overcome, his perspectives on love, intimacy, and self-worth, and how he has found harmony in the dualities of his professional and personal worlds. They discuss his views on self-love and the lessons he's learned about human connection through adversity. Have you ever wondered what it takes to live a life truly on your terms, defying societal norms and embracing every aspect of who you are? Or what secrets underlie the foundation of a healthy, long-lasting relationship? If so, then this episode is for you. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. loveuncensored.co Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095GUEST LINKS: W: https://www.braedenrhys.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today, we’re stepping off the well-trodden path of traditional romance and embarking on a journey where love recognises no boundaries. Your host, dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni, explores ethical non-monogamy, a world where love transcends societal norms and cliches. Joining her on this exploration, is none other than Bill Schwab, the CEO and Founder of Monogamish, the pioneering dating app that's changing the way we experience and engage in relationships. From the personal sparks that ignited the creation of Monogamish to the gritty realities of building a platform that caters to the needs of the non-monogamous community, you'll get an insider's look into it all. Together, they’re breaking down barriers, busting myths, and bringing a narrative often pushed to the fringes, into the spotlight. Whether you're a seasoned non-monogamist, just starting your journey, or simply curious about this rich tapestry of diverse connections, this conversation has something for you. Bill also shares some invaluable advice for navigating non-monogamous relationships and gives you a glimpse into the future path of Monogamish. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. loveuncensored.co Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095GUEST LINKS: IG: https://getmonogamish.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.