Ep. 39: What to Do When They Blame You

About this episode

Adam Nisenson discusses the pain of betrayal and the misplaced blame often directed at the betrayed partner.

Nothing cuts deeper than being betrayed and then blamed for it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man who’s being told that the betrayal was somehow his fault. You were distant. You worked too much. You weren’t emotionally available. Now you're not only holding the pain of infidelity, but you’re also carrying guilt that was never yours to begin with. “Their betrayal revealed who they were in that moment, not who you are.” Adam breaks down how blame-sh...

People in this episode

Host: Adam Nisenson

Topics covered

• betrayal
• blame
• infidelity
• guilt
• emotional availability

Keywords

• betrayal
• infidelity
• guilt
• emotional distance
• relationship advice

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