Episode 23 Dating, Desire, and Dysphoria | My Life in Heels

About this episode

Tiffany Scott discusses the complexities of dating, desire, and dysphoria as a trans woman in an emotional and honest conversation.

Dating as a trans woman—or even allowing yourself to be desired—can feel complicated, vulnerable, and deeply emotional. In this episode of My Life in Heels, I talk honestly about dating, desire, and dysphoria—how they show up in our bodies, our hearts, and our relationships. From wanting to be wanted, to navigating fetishization, to setting boundaries when dysphoria appears during intimacy, this episode is a gentle but real conversation for trans women and crossdressers who are figuring it ou...

People in this episode

Host: Tiffany Scott

Topics covered

• dating
• desire
• dysphoria
• trans women
• intimacy
• boundaries

Keywords

• trans women
• dating
• desire
• dysphoria
• intimacy
• fetishization
• boundaries

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