Episode 298: Students, Singleness, Dating & Friendships with Heather Flies & Tony Myles

About this episode

Tony Myles and Heather Flies discuss insights from their experience in student ministry, focusing on relationships, dating, and singleness.

In this episode, Tony Myles and Heather Flies share insights from their years in student ministry, reflecting on both the challenges and successes of connecting with today’s youth. They discuss their new book on relationships, dating, and singleness, emphasizing the need for honest conversations between parents and students as ministry continues to evolve. Heather Flies & Tony Myles Connect with Heather and Tony and find resources at the following sites: YM360 – https://youthministry360.com Heather Flies IG Tony Myles IG The Volunteer Playbook My first book is out! Buy the book by visiting volunteerplaybook.com or by visiting Amazon . Episode Notes Key Takeaways Heather has dedicated 28 years to youth ministry at the same church. Tony emphasizes the importance of being teachable in youth ministry. Creating a diverse volunteer team enhances youth engagement. Engaging parents in youth ministry is crucial for success. The book aims to provide a platform for youth to wrestle with their questions. LINK TO BOOK: Single, Dating, Friendships, and Romance: Questions for All of Your Answers Singleness should be viewed as a gift, not a waiting period. Communication exercises help youth…

People in this episode

Guests: Tony Myles, Heather Flies

Topics covered

• students
• relationships
• dating
• singleness
• youth ministry

Keywords

• youth ministry
• honest conversations
• parent-student relationships
• challenges in youth
• successes in youth

Mentioned in this episode

Products: YM360, Volunteer Playbook

Books & works: Students, Singleness, Dating & Friendships with Heather Flies & Tony Myles, The Volunteer Playbook

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