Not Anymore!

A while back I had one of those terrible horrible no good very bad days. I woke up sick, overwhelmed, exhausted, and completely buried under the pressure of everything I needed to do. My brain convinced me every task was an emergency and no amount of mindset work could snap me out of it. For a minute I judged myself hard. I thought I should be handling things better. I thought successful people must have figured out how to avoid bad days altogether. But then I learned something that completel...

In this episode of Not Anymore, I share a story that stopped me in my tracks. I was at the doctor’s office where my kids were laughing and having fun, and I was embarrassed and frustrated, worried about what everyone else was thinking. That moment became a mirror that showed me how often I tie my worth as a mom to how “put together” everything looks on the outside. I talk about what it means to give ourselves permission to feel and to stop pretending we’re fine when we’re not, and to un...

I used to overthink, over-give, and over-please. I tried to prove my worth by doing more and saying yes to everything…but not anymore.In this episode, I’m sharing the 10 leadership principles that have changed my life — from assuming the best in people, setting boundaries, leading by example, and learning to love like Jesus.These principles aren’t about perfection, they are about becoming. About choosing faith over fear, love over judgment, and growth over comparison. If you’ve ever felt stu...

In this episode, I’m opening up about the stories we tell ourselves — and how faith has helped me rewrite fear and find peace, even in the middle of uncertainty. It all started with a conversation I had with one of my kids about Jesus asking His disciples to cast their nets into shallow water. Logically, it didn’t make sense… but they trusted Him — and that trust led to a miracle. That story made me think about how often I’ve tried to “logic” my way through life — in business, parenting, and ...

I’ve been away from the mic for several months — summer trips, back-to-school chaos, and even losing my computer charger. But today I’m back with an episode I wish I could have whispered to myself years ago: You are not your results. For so long, I tied my worth to productivity, performance, and how much I could achieve in a day. I thought crossing off a never-ending to-do list would finally make me feel enough. But it never did. In this raw conversation, I share what I’ve learned about ...

Ever find yourself scrolling, spiraling, and suddenly feeling like you’re not doing enough, being enough, or achieving fast enough? You’re not alone. In this honest episode of Not Anymore, I’m pulling back the curtain on the messy middle—the space most people skip when they tell their transformation story. We’re diving into the trap of comparison, how it messes with your mental health, fuels imposter syndrome, and leaves you chasing someone else’s version of success. I wal...

Have you ever just wanted someone to say, “Yeah... that makes sense. I’d feel that way too”? In this episode, I’m talking about the invisible sign we’re all wearing—“Do you see me? Do I matter?”—and how the answer we all crave is found in one word: validation. I’m sharing real-life stories—from a college freshman homesick and scared, to a moment when I was sobbing in the kitchen and just needed Cody to listen. I talk about how validating your kids, your spouse, and even yourself can change ev...

Lately, I’ve added four little words to the end of my journal entries, and they’ve completely shifted the way I think, act, and trust: It always works out. In this episode, I open up about how I used to let fear, anxiety, and worst-case scenarios take over my thoughts. I’d create full-blown Hollywood productions in my mind about how badly things could go. But then I decided—Not Anymore! Inspired by the powerful story in the book Surrender, I reflect on what it truly means to trust life—and to...