Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl

I had a chance to sit down with one of my favorite women to follow on TikTok, Kristen Shelt (@kristen1942). We got to scratch the surface on an amazing conversation about the human experience and dissecting the reality we create around ourselves. Connect with us on Instagram! @misszenya @notyourgurupodcast @kandyhousela

In this episode, Zenya talks with BB Bad (Bianca Dijkhoffz) (@bb_bad) a powerhouse dancer and DJ from St. Maarten who has performed with Karol G, Sean Paul, and Chris Brown. The two dive into what it means to be a woman navigating the entertainment industry, how Bianca transitioned from professional dancer to full-time DJ headlining her own tour, and the mindset it takes to evolve and stay authentic in a fast-paced creative world. They also talk about what’s next for BB Bad as she continues to carve her own lane in music and performance.Connect: Instagram: @misszenya Instagram: @bb_bad Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast Instagram: @kandyhousela This podcast is a @kandyhousela production.

In this episode, Zenya sits down with Trinidadian singer, songwriter, and content creator Rochelle Chedz (@rochellechedz) for a heartfelt conversation about saying yes — yes to your dreams, yes to taking risks, and yes to creating your own opportunities. Rochelle shares her journey as an independent artist navigating the music industry and how trusting herself opened doors she never imagined. Together, Zenya and Rochelle explore what it means to stay open, stay inspired, and step boldly into your purpose.Connect:Instagram: @misszenyaInstagram: @rochellechedzInstagram: @notyourgurupodcastInstagram: @kandyhouselaThis podcast is a‪ @kandyhousela production.

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with recording artist and close friend Rex & The Rhythm (@callhimerex). The two dive into the realities of life as independent artists without the backing of a record label, discussing the challenges, freedoms, and resilience it takes to carve your own path. Together, they reflect on the importance of leaning on community, building authentic connections, and thriving as creatives through collaboration and self-belief.Connect:Instagram: @misszenyaInstagram: @callhimrexInstagram: @notyourgurupodcastInstagram: @kandyhouselaThis podcast is a KandyHouse production.

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Maya Jupiter (@mayajupiter), a Hip-Hop Artivist who rose to prominence in Australia’s hip-hop scene in the late 90s and early 2000s. Maya shares her journey of finding community and building something meaningful with the resources at hand, not only as a path to self-fulfillment but also as a way to give back and uplift the communities she represents.Connect:Instagram: @misszenyaInstagram: @mayajupiterInstagram: @notyourgurupodcastInstagram: @kandyhouselaThis podcast is a KandyHouse production.

In this episode, Zenya sits down with Grammy-nominated songwriter and artist Tish Hyman (@listen2tish) for an honest conversation about overcoming adversity in the music industry. Together, they explore the realities of balancing personal hardships while still showing up to entertain and inspire an audience, and what it truly takes to keep creating when life gets heavy.Connect:Instagram: @misszenyaInstagram: @listen2tishInstagram: @notyourgurupodcastInstagram: @kandyhousela

In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Tracy Fowler (@yougotthistracy), a radio host, podcast producer, and fellow dream chaser originally from Barbados. Together, they share what it’s really like to leave behind your home country in pursuit of something bigger. In this case, building a new life and career in Los Angeles. From navigating uncertainty to trusting the process, this conversation is all about taking a leap of faith, chasing purpose, and building a life that feels aligned with your soul.Connect:Instagram: @misszenyaInstagram: @yougotthistracyInstagram: @notyourgurupodcastInstagram: @kandyhousela

What does it mean to choose your family? And how do we protect those bonds in an industry that doesn’t always feel real? In this heart-centered episode, Zenya sits down with one of her closest friends, singer and songwriter Dessy Di Lauro (@dessydilauro), for a vulnerable and grounded conversation about friendship, loyalty, and navigating the entertainment industry with your heart still intact.Zenya and Dessy explore the importance of chosen family, the deep friendships that often become stronger than blood and how to maintain those connections when life and career get chaotic. Together, they reflect on the sacredness of showing up for one another, the healing power of community, and what it means to hold space when the world can feel transactional.Connect:Instagram: @misszenyaInstagram: @dessydilauroInstagram: @notyourgurupodcastInstagram: @kandyhousela

When was the last time you said “no”—and really meant it? In this episode, Zenya is joined by friend and kundalini instructor River (@riverxshima) for a soul-deep conversation about energetic alignment, self-protection, and the powerful truth behind the “sacred no” and “expansive yes.” Together, they explore how learning to say no to what doesn’t serve you—and yes to what scares you—can open the door to a more grounded, meaningful, and fulfilling life. This episode is a permission slip to trust your intuition, establish boundaries, and expand into the highest version of yourself.Whether you're navigating people-pleasing tendencies, starting a spiritual journey, or simply trying to reclaim your time and energy, this episode offers gentle insight and grounded wisdom to support your growth.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misszenyahttps://www.instagram.com/notyourgurupodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/kandyhousehttps://www.instagram.com/riverxshima

Welcome to the very first episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl. A new series from KandyHouse hosted by singer, songwriter, and soulful storyteller, Zenya (@misszenya). In this premiere episode, Zenya opens up about her perspective on love, self-worth, and navigating modern relationships. She answers questions submitted by her audience on Instagram — from the biggest red flags and the worst apologies from past partners to the best relationship advice they’ve ever received. With her signature blend of vulnerability, wisdom, and humor, Zenya shares her own insights on healing, growing, and setting boundaries — all while keeping it real and relatable. It’s a soft launch into a series made for those who are tired of toxic love and ready for something deeper. Whether you're looking for clarity, comfort, or just a girl who gets it, you're in the right place. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misszenya https://www.instagram.com/notyourgurupodcast https://www.instagram.com/kandyhouse