Own Your Revival

We all carry the quiet pressure to get it right — in our faith, in our relationships, in the way we show up every day. And when we fall short, it can feel like failure is permanent, like we're defined by our mistakes. But what if holiness isn't about perfection at all? In this episode, we explore a new way of living faithful and free — one where grace meets us in the mess, mistakes become opportunities for repair, and small, humble acts of presence transform our lives. If you've ever felt weighed down by the need to be perfect, this conversation is an invitation to discover a different path: one where faithfulness, not flawlessness, is enough. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com/connect • Book a Discovery Call: Click here to get started

Are your days packed to the brim, yet you still feel like you're falling short in your relationships? In this episode, we uncover the hidden pattern that keeps many of us overcommitted, exhausted, and emotionally unavailable. We explore why saying yes all the time can silently sabotage connection, and how a simple shift in perspective can create space for love to truly flourish. If you've ever felt drained by your calendar, this episode is for you. 📱 Stay Connected • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com/connect • Book a Discovery Call: Click here to get started

In this final episode of Season 2, I'm sharing why I've decided to pause the podcast for the summer....even though I was sure we'd keep going. Inside, you'll hear: 🌿 What finally convinced me to step back for a season, even after feeling certain I'd found a sustainable rhythm 🌿 How this decision brought back memories of something that happened right after my youngest daughter was born — if you've been listening a while, you might remember this story, but today I'm seeing it in a whole new light 🌿 Why honoring the season you're actually in matters more than sticking to the plan you made 🌿 What the Church teaches us about rhythms of rest, reflection, and renewal Plus, I'm offering a few simple reflection questions to help you discern whether it's time for your own pause, pivot, or deeper trust. Mentioned in This Episode: The Family Day Retreat at the Waverly Retreat House (Lincoln area) on July 13 — come say hi if you're local (or want to be for a day. 😉) Season 3 of the podcast returns on August 25 🎉🎙️ Subscribe to the Soulful Sundays email for weekly-ish reflections over the summer Reflection Questions: 1️⃣ What am I hearing in my spirit right now? If God were whispering clarity to me, what might He say? 2️⃣ What does my body feel when I imagine stepping into this choice? Do I sense peace or tension? 3️⃣ What story am I telling about why I can't change my mind? Is that story true, helpful, or necessary? 4️⃣ When I picture this season, what image comes to mind? What would it look like to honor what's unfolding rather than resist it? Stay Connected: • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com/connect • Book a Discovery Call: Click here to get started

I'll never tell you whether to stay or leave a relationship—that's a deeply personal decision, and safety always comes first. What I will say is that sometimes, when one person starts to shift—by speaking up, setting boundaries, and reconnecting with who they are—the dynamic can begin to change. In this episode, I share a moment at the gym that unexpectedly mirrored what real strength looks like in hard relationships. It's not always in the dramatic decisions. Sometimes the flex is in the small reps—done with intention, clarity, and truth. 👉 If this conversation hits close to home and you're ready for 1:1 support, let's talk. Click here to book a free Discovery Call. I'll help you process what's really going on, find clarity, and take the next right step—whatever that looks like for you. 📱 Stay Connected: • Instagram: @andyarbie • Website: www.andyarbie.com/connect

When you're in—or recovering from—a destructive relationship, especially while trying to co-parent, it's tempting to focus solely on the other person's behavior. But what if one of the most powerful paths to healing is found in taking an honest look at your part? In this episode, we dive into a deeper examen of how we may unknowingly contribute to the relational patterns we desperately want to break. This isn't about blame—it's about awareness, growth, and the freedom that comes from doing things differently moving forward. This conversation is raw, real, and rooted in hope—especially for women who feel stuck in fear, shame, or self-doubt. You'll leave with clarity, compassion for yourself, and maybe even the language you've been missing to name what's really going on inside you. Whether you're still in it, out of it, or somewhere in between—this one's for you. 🔗 Mentioned in this Episode: Related Episodes from Own Your Revival: Ep. 16 – Tori Harris Gray on Marriage, Motherhood & Moving with the Holy Spirit Ep. 67 – When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work Ep. 71 – 3 Ways to Find Peace When Big Moments Don't Go as Planned Resources: I Want to Trust You But I Don't by Lysa TerKeurst Al-Anon Family Groups (for families and friends of those affected by another's drinking) 📱 Stay Connected: Instagram: @andyarbie Website: www.andyarbie.com/connect Book a Discovery Call: Click here to get started ✨ I can't wait to connect with you and support you on your journey!

Ever find yourself bracing before holidays, birthdays, or big life events—wondering if someone is going to ruin it again? You're not alone. In this episode, we're digging into a pattern I call emotional whiplash—those sudden outbursts that seem to come out of nowhere right before something good. We'll explore why it happens, what's really going on, and how to start protecting your peace even if someone else refuses to change. This one is especially for the woman who thinks she's crazy for dreading the moments that are supposed to bring joy. You're not crazy. You're waking up. 🎧 Press play to hear: What emotional whiplash really is (and what it's not) Small boundary-building moves I made to protect big moments Why some people stay stuck—and what you can actually do about it 💬 Know a woman who might need to hear this? Share the episode with her. Your share could be the lifeline she's been praying for. 📱 Stay Connected: ➡️ Follow me on Instagram: @andyarbie ➡️ Visit my website: www.andyarbie.com/connect ➡️ Questions about working together? Book a discovery call here

Someone recently asked me how to find a spiritual director, and I shared the best advice I ever got: Even when you think you've found the right one, meet with them a few times before you decide. That wisdom has echoed in so many other areas of life. Because often, we want clarity before we take action. But what if the clarity only comes after we've had the courage to show up, take the next step, and trust the process? In this episode, I'm sharing the tender truth of what it means to move forward without all the answers—and how transformation unfolds one faithful step at a time. 💫 Want more support as you take your next brave step? • 1:1 Coaching: If you're feeling overwhelmed or stuck, I'd love to work with you personally to help you regain clarity, set healthy boundaries, and move forward in peace. Book a discovery call here. 📱 Stay Connected: ➡️ Follow me on Instagram: @andyarbie ➡️ Visit: www.andyarbie.com/connect ➡️ Have questions? Let's chat. Book a discovery call ✨ I can't wait to connect with you and support you on your journey.

In today's episode, we dive into the powerful shift from asking "Why?" to embracing the bigger questions that lead to real change in your life. We often get stuck in the cycle of wondering why things happen or why people act the way they do, but this focus on "why" keeps us from stepping into the role of a change agent in our own lives. I'll walk you through how shifting your perspective can help you take control, make powerful choices, and move toward the transformation you're seeking. Whether you see yourself as a leader or not, this episode will encourage you to take action and start asking, "What am I willing to do?" as you become the catalyst for change you were always meant to be. Mentioned in this episode: 🎬 Ghostbusters (1984) – Dr. Venkman's ESP card test scene 💥 How this moment popped into my head every time my coach called me out for getting stuck in why questions—just like a little electric jolt snapping me back to reality! 💡 Plus, I share The Courage to Engage: A Leadership Manifesto—a powerful reminder of what it means to step up and take ownership of your life. Whenever you need an infusion of truth and courage, come back to this episode and let it fuel you forward. 📱 Stay Connected: ➡️ Follow me on Instagram: @andyarbie ➡️ Visit my website: www.andyarbie.com/connect ➡️ Book a discovery call here. ✨