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- 🇳🇿NZ · Parenting#114500 to 3K
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Recent episodes
Things That Are Hard But Get Easier
Aug 2, 2021
33m 33s
Co-Parenting With a Narcissist with Psychotherapist Serafin Upton
Jul 13, 2021
56m 48s
Dad Talk: The Importance of Supporting Your Ex
Jun 28, 2021
31m 07s
You Have Children and You're Separating...Now What?
Jun 14, 2021
25m 23s
How To Turn Arguments Into Helpful Discussions
May 24, 2021
29m 51s
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| Date | Episode | Description | Length | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 8/2/21 |  Things That Are Hard But Get Easier | Last episode for the season!! This episode we share our thoughts on all the things we found hard when we first separated but got easier over time...owning our co-parenting status and not caring if people didn't understand it, letting go of that "perfect" fantasy of 2.5 children, dating and not having to see your co-parent everyday [or having to see them everyday] all takes some getting used to....EPISODE RESOURCESPodcast: Circularity - The Redesign of EverythingRead: Esther Perel - The State of Affairs : Rethinking InfidelityFOLLOW ALONGOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG: @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 33m 33s | |
| 7/13/21 |  Co-Parenting With a Narcissist with Psychotherapist Serafin Upton | On this episode Moni chats with Serafin Upton, a NZ based psychotherapist who specialises in recovering from narcissistic relationships and emotional abuse. She helps us understand narcissistic personality disorder vs narcissistic traits, identify and manage a relationship with a narcissist and how to support and protect your children from narcissistic abuse.EPISODE RESOURCESRead: Mark Ettensohn - Unmasking Narcissism: A Guide to Understanding the Narcissist in Your LifeRead: Esther Perel - Mating in Captivity : Unlocking Erotic IntelligenceRead: Esther Perel - The State of Affairs : Rethinking InfidelityPodcast: Where Should We Begin? with Esther PerelPodcast Episode: Brené with Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce D. Perry on Trauma, Resilience, and HealingOur Family Wizard AppFOLLOW ALONGSerafin Upton's Wesbite: www.serafinupton.co.nzOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG: @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 56m 48s | |
| 6/28/21 |  Dad Talk: The Importance of Supporting Your Ex | On this episode Ellie chats with her co-parent Charlie Goldsmith. Hear what Charlie has to say about the importance of respecting and supporting the mother of your child/ren and the positive programming around relationships and communication this can create for them, why it’s better (and easier) to get along, building a community around your child as well as rewriting the narrative that being friends with your ex is “weird”.SHOW LINKSCharlies IG: @charliegoldsmithOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG: @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 31m 07s | |
| 6/14/21 |  You Have Children and You're Separating...Now What? | We share some tips for what to do next once the decision to separate has been made when you share children and one or both of you are thinking about how to start the co-parenting journey.IntroductionBeing clear about the decision to separateDeciding the best living and child-sharing arrangements for your familyManaging communication and maintaining privacyFinding a support person in a professional or trusted friendEstablishing early boundaries around parental decisions, sex and datingRespecting someone else’s grieving period might be different to yoursHow to manage your alone time when your child/ren is with the other parentHonouring your feelings and resourcing / supporting yourself through themDisclaimer: This episode is relevant to situations where there are two capable parents and children are safe in each parents hands.SHOW LINKSOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG: @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 25m 23s | |
| 5/24/21 |  How To Turn Arguments Into Helpful Discussions | We talk about handling arguments and conflict in your co-parenting / parenting relationship and how to come out of an argument better than when you went in.IntroductionArguments can be a good thing providing awareness about what your wounds are, where expectations aren’t being met or holes in your communication.Arguments vs discussionHow attachment styles influence your ability to have hard discussions and handle conflict and knowing your co-parents attachment style is a sign of love.Strategies to help when you’re in the midst of an argumentHow to recover after an argument so you finish better off, not worse off.SHOW LINKSBook: Attached by Amir Levine HEREOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG: @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 29m 51s | |
| 5/17/21 |  Letting Go Of The Stories You’re Telling Yourself | Join Ellie and Monique as they discuss how important letting go of the stories you tell yourself is to your co-parenting journey.How to identify the difference between what is ACTUALLY happening vs the stories you’re telling yourself about what you THINK is happening.Why we need to let go of unhelpful stories from our romantic relationships so we can transition into a co-parenting relationshipCommon held beliefs such as ‘The white picket fence’ and ‘single mum’ narratives and letting go of years of conditioning and societal expectations around what successful relationships and self-worth looks like.When two co-parents are stuck in their stories and no-one is willing to budge.At home practices to help you rewrite the stories you tell yourselfSHOW LINKS5 Journaling prompts to help rewrite unhelpful stories HERETed Talk: How to Get Your Brain to Focus by Chris Bailey HERESubscribe to the Holistic Psychologist's newsletter for her free future self journalOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 39m 47s | |
| 5/10/21 |  5 Principles for Successful Co-Parenting | We share 5 principles that we believe form a healthy co-parenting relationship including practical tips and tools you can implement and practice in your life.Rule 1: Respect and how to be considerate of differing needs, feelings, experiences or expectations.Rule 2: Avoiding exposing children to parental conflictTeaching kids that not all romantic relationships work out and creating a new narrative around navigation relationships and separation.Rule 3: Willingness to do self-workDaily practices you could incorporate to help you do self-workRule 4: Check in with your kids frequentlyTips to help teach your kids how to express their emotionsRule 5: Determined shared parenting values and goalsSHOW LINKSSee the Parenting Triangle on Instagram HEREOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 29m 56s | |
| 5/3/21 |  Welcome to the Together Apart Podcast. | We are Ellie Lemons and Monique Barry and our podcast Parenting Together Apart is a resource for co-parents, by co-parents. We share our co-parenting / co-living journeys and our intentions for this resource.Who is Together Apart for?Defining co-parenting3:12 Ellie’s co-parenting storyThe timeline of the co-parenting journey and where we are now is not where we startedMonique’s co-parenting storyTaking responsibility for our healing and taking a child centred approach to parenting after separationQuestioning the stories you tell yourself about what breakups look likeShow LinksOur Website: www.togetherapartpodcast.comFind us on IG: @parentingtogetherapartFollow Ellie: @ellielemonsFollow Moni: @moniquebarry_ | 23m 55s |
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Chart Positions
1 placement across 1 market.
Chart Positions
1 placement across 1 market.