Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

In this episode, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how it silently shapes your parenting reactions. She explains how shame, embarrassment, and defensiveness often stem from old wounds — and how awareness and new skills can help you stop passing it on to your children. DM “peace 25” on Instagram to access the free class and learn how to become a secure parent.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to calm children's big emotions without resorting to yelling or punishment. She introduces the concept of behavior levels, explaining how understanding these can help prevent meltdowns. Marcela emphasizes the importance of recognizing early signs of anxiety and defensiveness in children and offers practical strategies for parents to address these behaviors effectively. The episode is part of a five-part series aimed at helping parents raise emotionally secure children. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of repairing relationships with children after moments of reactivity, such as yelling. She emphasizes that meaningful repair can prevent damage to the parent-child relationship and enhance children's self-esteem. Marcela shares insights on how to repair from a place of self-compassion rather than shame, offering practical steps and scripts for parents to reconnect with their children. She also highlights the role of storytelling and role play in helping young children understand and process these moments. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode, Marcela Collier, head coach of HIC Parenting Education Agency and host of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, explores the root causes of parental yelling and reactivity. She discusses the "fire alarm" and "pressure cooker" reactive cycles, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's relationship with anger. Marcela introduces a four-step system to break free from reactivity and highlights the significance of a secure relationship with anger, where parents acknowledge, listen to, and constructively mobilize their anger. The episode encourages reflection on personal anger patterns and offers resources for further learning. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of letting go of control in parenting and embracing trust. She shares insights from Dr. Delany, a psychologist and relationship coach, on how trust can lead to a more peaceful parenting experience. Marcela emphasizes the need to trust in our training, our children, their process, and their choices, while also anchoring ourselves in core values or beliefs. She offers practical advice for parents struggling with control and encourages them to face their trust wounds to foster healing and growth. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how parents can break the cycle of yelling at their children by practicing mindfulness. She emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's inner voice, challenging critical thoughts, and developing skills like mind sight and emotional regulation. Marcela also shares insights on how curiosity and compassion can transform parenting approaches, leading to more peaceful and understanding interactions with children. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of choosing connection to build a non-anxious parenting life. She shares personal experiences and insights on overcoming loneliness and societal pressures, emphasizing the need for community and support in parenting. Marcela also introduces Dr. Deloni's six daily choices for a non-anxious life, focusing on the choice of connection. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the hidden alarm of anxiety in parenting and how it affects our ability to parent with peace. She explores the root causes of anxiety, such as limiting beliefs, trauma responses, chronic unmet needs, and lack of boundaries, and offers insights on how to address these issues to create a more peaceful parenting experience. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, discusses managing behaviors in traumatized children. She shares insights from her experience in therapeutic foster care and personal trauma, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma's impact on the brain and the need for relational safety. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode, Marcela Collier delves into the intricacies of teaching children self-control through emotional intelligence. She shares insights on understanding the root causes of unexplained aggressive behaviors in children and introduces the three pillars of emotional intelligence: body awareness, coping strategies, and emotional vocabulary. Through the story of Darryl, a child struggling with aggression due to past bullying, Marcela illustrates how therapeutic play and consistent practice can transform a child's ability to manage impulses and communicate feelings effectively. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela shares her insights on managing intense child meltdowns. Drawing from personal experiences and research, Marcela introduces the concept of "personal attunement" as the key to calming these challenging moments. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing a child's feelings and sense of safety, addressing underlying causes, and fostering a secure environment through co-regulation. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

In this episode, Marcela Collier talks with Christina, a parent who transformed her parenting approach through HIC coaching. Discover how Christina overcame reactivity and anxiety to foster a secure and calm environment for her child. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class