The Conversation High-Achievers Are Afraid to Have (About Sex, Intimacy & Power)

About this episode

Erin Gerner interviews sex and relationship coach Amy Terwilleger about the challenges high achievers face regarding intimacy and the importance of pleasure in life.

In this episode of the Powerhouse Lawyers podcast, host Erin Gerner interviews Amy Terwilleger, a certified sex and relationship coach. They discuss Amy's unique journey from law to coaching, the common struggles faced by high achievers regarding intimacy, and the importance of pleasure in both personal and professional life. Amy shares insights on how to enhance intimacy, the coaching process, and the significance of addressing grief and loss during transitions. The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about sexuality and the link between pleasure and success. Key Topics Covered Amy's journey from engineer to Women's Studies to BigLaw partner to sex coach Living the "perfect life on paper" but feeling empty inside The midlife reawakening (not crisis) that so many women experience What high-achieving women aren't talking about: libido decline and intimacy struggles Why 80% of women don't orgasm from penetration alone (and why that's NORMAL) The difference between sex coaching and therapy How sex education failed us (all negative, zero pleasure) Why we're taught to be prim and proper but expected to be sex goddesses The science behind pleasure: oxytocin, dopamine…

People in this episode

Host: Erin Gerner

Guest: Amy Terwilleger

Topics covered

• intimacy
• high achievers
• pleasure
• sex coaching
• libido decline
• midlife reawakening

Keywords

• intimacy struggles
• sex coaching
• pleasure science
• libido
• midlife reawakening
• orgasm
• responsive desire

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: BigLaw, Women's Studies

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