Queer Women Rising® with Sophia Spallino | Finding Lesbian Love. Smart WLW Dating Conversations

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨The Luxury Lesbian™ Event Experience – Invitation-only, in-person gatherings for extraordinary single queer women… thoughtfully curated to spark chemistry and meaningful connection.Request access:https://queercountryclub.com/single-lesbian-events-access ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®. Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://sophiaspallino.com/private-coaching 💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallinoTwo queer women.Two different countries.One intentional decision to stop settling for surface-level dating.In today’s episode of Queer Women Rising, Sophia sits down with Laura and Megan… a couple who met through the Queer Country Club® and built a relationship that crossed oceans, time zones, and expectations.Laura is based in Dublin, Ireland, and works as a driving instructor while also advocating for veganism and animal rights. Megan is a California-based lawyer and passionate advocate for both human and animal rights.Together, they share the real story behind how they met, what drew them together emotionally, how they navigated international dating, and why intentional queer spaces matter so much in today’s dating world.This conversation explores:Lesbian dating burnoutLong-distance queer relationshipsIntentional dating cultureEmotional compatibilityThe Queer Country Club® experienceBuilding a future together across countries

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking - For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ Getaway: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®. Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://sophiaspallino.com/private-coaching 💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispIn this episode of Queer Women Rising, Sophia Spallino breaks down what the bare minimum really looks like in a woman-loving-woman relationship. From airport pickups with flowers to stocking the fridge with her favorite snacks, Sophia explains why these aren’t grand gestures…they’re the baseline of thoughtful lesbian love. She contrasts this with the low bar women are conditioned to accept from men and reminds queer women to expect more, settle less, and embrace the peaceful, intentional love they deserve.

Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®. Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com 🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawispGoing through it now? If you ever desire 1:1 coaching with me to work through a breakup, just book a private session with me here: Sophia Spallino | Private Coaching 🏳️‍🌈❤️‍🩹I asked the queer women in my community to share breakup advice given to them by the older, wiser women in their lives. So I am gonna read it to you. Then I share my best advice. Lesbian dating and breakups are tough. But you are SOFT enough to feel it, heal it, and move along with your life!Promise.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real. 📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darshana_avilaCheck out her website: https://darshanaavila.comJoin her free community: Galgasm!

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Don’t try this at home. Two Lesbians. One carrot. It was fun until it wasn’t.Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.You’ll learn:Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamicsThe benefits of dating someone in a different life stageThe very real challenges, and how to overcome themHow to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of ageWhat makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partnerhttps://bit.ly/sophiawisp✨Work with me as your COACHhttps://SophiaSpallino.com💬Slide into my DMshttps://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino Today’s episode is your cheat sheet for getting a girl to actually respond to you in the DMs.Save these. Copy/paste them. Send them. You’re welcome.1️⃣ “You seem like someone who actually knows what she wants. Am I right or should I keep scrolling?”Why it works: It flatters her decisiveness without being generic. And that playful little challenge? It makes her want to prove you right, or cheekily prove you wrong. 2️⃣ “Okay I have to ask… are you the big spoon, little spoon, or ‘depends on the night’?”Why it works: This skips all the small talk. It’s cheeky, flirty, and dives into playful intimacy without being over the top. It’s irresistible to respond to. 3️⃣ “Something tells me you’re not the type to settle. What’s a green flag you always look for?”Why it works: It makes her feel like a woman with high standards…which we love. It also gives her a moment to show emotional depth without needing to get super vulnerable too fast. 4️⃣ “I’d bet good money you’re a softie under that confident energy. Am I wrong?”Why it works: This gently teases her while giving her the perfect opening to reveal more about herself. It’s confident, direct, and it invites a real connection. 5️⃣ “Your vibe feels intentional… what’s something you wish more women noticed about you right away?”Why it works: This tells her you’re not just here for surface-level attraction. You want to see her. And that? That’s magnetic.