If They Say “You Complete Me,” Run (S3E12)

About this episode

The episode discusses the importance of recognizing green flags in queer relationships and the difference between safety and the absence of danger.

We wanna hear from you! Text the show HERE What if “no red flags” isn’t the goal? We shine a bright light on the difference between the absence of danger and the presence of safety, unpacking how real green flags look, sound, and feel in a queer relationship. From the rush of love bombing to the slow drain of walking on eggshells, we map the patterns that erode trust and the practices that rebuild it. We start by challenging the scarcity mindset that can show up in sapphic dating and make us...

Topics covered

• queer relationships
• green flags
• love bombing
• trust
• sapphic dating
• safety
• scarcity mindset

Keywords

• queer
• relationships
• green flags
• love bombing
• trust
• safety
• sapphic
• dating

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