Discipline

Discipline

From Raise & Release by Rachel Gunn

March 10, 2026 · 24 min · Season 1 · Episode 9

About this episode

This episode discusses healthy discipline as a teaching tool that evolves through different parenting stages.

Episode Summary In this episode, we talk about what healthy discipline actually looks like and how it changes as our kids grow. Instead of seeing discipline as punishment, we explore how it can be a tool for teaching, guiding, and building trust with our children. Using the stages of parenting framework, we discuss how discipline shifts from setting clear boundaries in the toddler years to teaching and shaping the heart in the elementary years, and eventually to coaching and influence as our kids move into the teen years. As highlighted in Impact Parenting , effective discipline is about guiding children toward understanding their actions while nurturing their growth and character. We also walk through practical approaches parents can use in each stage, including the PBS model for younger children and the curiosity–conversation–correction approach for older kids. Throughout the conversation, we share real-life scenarios and examples of how curiosity and connection can lead to better outcomes than reacting in frustration. The goal of discipline isn’t control. It’s helping our children learn to manage themselves and make wise decisions as they grow. Key Topics Covered The three…

People in this episode

Host: Rachel Gunn

Topics covered

  • healthy discipline
  • parenting stages
  • teaching and guiding
  • PBS model
  • curiosity and connection
  • coaching and influence

Keywords

  • discipline
  • parenting
  • boundaries
  • teaching
  • coaching
  • PBS model
  • curiosity
  • connection

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Impact Parenting

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