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| 5/22/26 |  From Busy Brain to Loving Heart: Confessions of a Problem Seeker | From Busy Brain to Loving Heart: Howard Steinberg on Trauma, Achievement, and Authentic MasculinityHost Andy Grant interviews Howard Steinberg, author of Confessions of a Problem Seeker, about how compulsive hyperthinking and achievement masked inherited trauma from being raised by Holocaust survivors, plus the fear and isolation shaped by a childhood type 1 diabetes diagnosis and a likely undiagnosed ADHD. Steinberg describes building an outwardly successful identity as an entrepreneur while living in survival mode, then facing a midlife unraveling marked by business losses, divorce, and shifting family roles that forced surrender and deeper emotional work. Howard shares how meditation, breathwork, somatic awareness, spiritual therapy, and psychedelic-assisted healing helped him move from mind-based control to heart-based truth, reframing masculinity as love and vulnerability. Key takeaways include: “I wish I had the courage to live an authentic life,” “The mind operates in fear… the heart operates in love,” and “You’re good enough… nothing to prove.”00:00 Top Regret of the Dying00:23 Meet Howard Steinberg01:18 What Is a Problem Seeker03:04 Survival Mode Origins06:50 Hiding Vulnerability08:01 Authenticity and Psychedelics09:11 Midlife Unraveling11:58 Ambition as Survival14:03 Advice for Life Collapse19:05 Tools That Opened the Heart22:54 Somatics Get Out of Your Head24:47 Trauma Family and Community26:17 Forgiving and Reframing Parents27:33 Fatherhood Grandfatherhood Love28:25 Authentic Masculinity Is Love29:20 Where to Find the Book29:46 You’re Good Enough30:42 Closing Reflections and CommunityConnect with HowardHoward Steinberg — https://howardsteinberg.com/Confessions of a Problem Seeker: My Lifetime Journey From Busy Brain To Loving Heart — https://amzn.to/3PS3ffXConnect with Andy:Join other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 405 | — | ||||||
| 5/15/26 |  Men Forge Forward: Overcoming Pressure and Finding Purpose | Men, Masks, and Meaning: Sean Hegarty on Being “Fine,” Identity, and Men Forge ForwardHost Andy Grant talks with Sean Hegarty, founder of Men Forge Forward, about how many men hide stress behind the mask of being “fine,” shaped by pressure, responsibility, and fear of appearing weak. Drawing on years as a paramedic and healthcare manager, Sean describes seeing men buckle under hidden load—especially during COVID when support networks vanished—and shares his own “dark time” after being diagnosed with complex PTSD and Functional Neurological Disorder, which ended his paramedic career and triggered depression and suicidal thoughts. Through therapy, networking, and coaching, he learned to separate identity from job, focus inward on values, and build an accessible Skool-based community that became a supportive brotherhood. He explains signs of being stuck, the power of vulnerability and peer support, his critique of commercial coaching frameworks, and emphasizes that “it’s okay not to be okay.”00:00 I'm Fine Lie00:23 Meet Sean Hegarty01:11 Emergency Care Stress04:10 Masks And Weakness06:51 Losing Paramedic Identity08:38 Coaching Turning Point11:20 Building Men Forge13:36 Brotherhood Community16:23 Not Finished Just Stuck21:34 Signs He's Not Fine23:39 Leading With Micro Wins25:54 Connect And Closing Connect with SeanMen Forge Forward — http://menforgeforward.com/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanhegarty01/Connect with Andy:Join other like-minded men in the Authentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 404 | — | ||||||
| 5/8/26 |  Redefining Strength Emotional Fitness and Vulnerability | Emotional Fitness: Redefining Strength Through Self-Love and VulnerabilityHost Andy Grant welcomes Shaun Zetlin—master fitness trainer, motivational speaker, and author of Emotional Fitness—who defines “emotional fitness” as empowering yourself emotionally through exercise and releasing emotions stored in the body. Shaun shares how being born with club feet, being picked last, and a humiliating kickball incident where a camp counselor yelled, “What a loser,” led him to survive on shame and fueled his mission to help others not feel ashamed of their bodies. He reframes strength as facing and befriending childhood pain, accepting “Little Shaun” and recognizing that “You wouldn’t be Big Shaun without Little Shaun.” Shaun describes a turning point in high school theatre when he found belonging and confidence, and explains why men avoid vulnerability out of fear of being unlovable and cling to familiar belief systems. Viral quotes: “Shame…is the cruelest emotion of all”; “Surviving on shame”; “Everybody suffers in their own way.”00:00 Shame and the Mission00:18 Meet Shaun Zetlin01:01 What Emotional Fitness Means02:08 From Outcast to Training03:19 Redefining Strength07:06 Finding Belonging on Stage09:39 Kickball Trauma and Shame12:12 Why Men Fear Vulnerability16:31 Using the Gym to Avoid Feelings18:42 Turning Pain into Service24:00 How to Connect and Final Wisdom25:52 Closing Message and CommunityConnect with ShaunShaun Zetlin — https://www.zetlinfitness.com/Instagram — https://instagram.com/zetlinfitness/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/shaun-zetlin-96167270ResourcesEmotional Fitness: Empower Yourself Emotionally Through Exercise by Shaun Zetlin — https://amzn.to/4tnXcxmConnect with Andy:Join other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 403 | — | ||||||
| 5/1/26 |  Reinventing Yourself: Autonomy, Competence, and Connection | Reinvention, Grief, and Identity After Corporate LifeOn Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with reinvention coach Shelley McIntyre about why workplace change triggers resistance rooted in grief and fear of loss, explained through self-determination theory’s three needs: autonomy, competence, and connection. McIntyre distinguishes reinvention coaching from career coaching by focusing on identity questions—when high achievers feel they’ve “masked” themselves with competence, status, and titles, and fear they won’t matter without them. They discuss the hidden grief of losing a career path, the “invisible contract” of loyalty for security that companies don’t actually honor, and signs it’s time to move on, including not liking who you’ve become, loss of belief in the work, and body sensations like “soul rot.” McIntyre outlines phases of reinvention (identity crisis, rebuilding foundation, experimentation) and emphasizes vulnerability, emotional vocabulary tools like an emotions wheel, and low-stakes steps like talking to people who’ve left corporate life, while reminding men that their value is inherent.00:00 Three Needs Triangle00:44 Meet The Guest01:26 From Strategy To Coaching02:10 Resistance And Grief03:31 Self Determination At Work04:45 Reinvention Not Career Coaching06:11 When Competence Becomes Mask07:57 Title Status And Terror10:19 Layoffs Threaten Autonomy10:49 Signs It's Time To Leave12:55 Annihilation Fear And Culture14:45 Invisible Contract Myth17:33 Razor Blade Comfort Zone18:20 Four Phases Of Reinvention20:02 Crisis Versus Pre-Growth24:15 Vulnerability Fuels Change27:16 Emotion Wheel And Vocabulary29:01 Low Stakes First Steps30:42 Where To Find Shelley31:11 Inherent Value Closing31:55 Final Takeaways And InviteConnect with ShelleyShelley McIntyre — https://burnthemapcoaching.com/Burn The Map Podcast — https://burnthemapcoaching.com/podcast/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-mcintyre/Connect with Andy:Join other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 402 | — | ||||||
| 4/24/26 |  Life Reboot: Embracing Vulnerability and Setting Boundaries | From Burnout to Boundaries: Clarity, Values, and Life RebootHost Andy Grant interviews coach Loren Silverman, who helps overwhelmed high performers set healthier boundaries, clarify values, and rebuild steadier lives, including through his gamified 12-week “Life Reboot Nerd Edition” (a Dungeons & Dragons-style framework where clients “level up” real-life skills like boundaries and energy mastery). Silverman shares his own burnout and how the 2022 Ukraine invasion—impacting his Ukrainian dev team—prompted him to travel to Poland to transport refugees, reshaping how he wanted to serve people. Loren emphasizes pausing for self-awareness, naming emotions (using tools like a feelings wheel), and choosing clarity over trying harder when misaligned with values: “Are you just not satisfied, or are you despondent?” He defines boundaries as protecting time and energy, warns against reflexive yeses, describes “cleaner conversations” via clear requests, and uses pinball’s “dead bounce” as a metaphor for patience and measured response. He encourages men to embrace vulnerability and intimacy with male friends.00:00 Name Your Feelings00:18 Meet Loren Silverman00:57 Burnout to Coaching01:36 Ukraine Turning Point05:20 What Burnout Felt Like07:25 Values Before Action08:27 Pause Reboot Grow09:01 Clarity Beats Effort11:15 Life Reboot Nerd Edition14:03 Boundaries That Protect17:25 Clean Conversations19:44 Feelings Wheel Basics20:58 Tracking Real Progress22:04 Pinball Life Lessons24:56 Connect and Final WisdomConnect with LorenLoren Silverman — https://www.silvermancoach.com/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/lorensilverman/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/lorensilvermancoach/Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578400050255Connect with Andy:Join other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 401 | — | ||||||
| 4/17/26 |  The Invisible Scorecard—What Men Measure and Who They Become | Episode 400: The Invisible ScorecardHost Andy Grant marks Real Men Feel’s 400th episode and 10-year anniversary with returning guest Vanessa Cardenas, a relationship reset expert, to examine how men constantly measure themselves through an “invisible scorecard” of success, money, status, age, and relationship milestones. They discuss how comparison “pulls a man out of his life and puts him onto someone else’s timeline,” eroding confidence and intimacy, especially when men fill gaps with imagined stories about past partners. Cardenas emphasizes authenticity, dropping the mask, reducing destructive scorekeeping, and using milestones in healthy ways, noting that clarity builds confidence, which in turn supports intimacy. She shares coaching approaches that focus on the here-and-now, appreciation and recognition in relationships, and practical communication shifts. They also explore how significant transformation can happen in 400 minutes, hours, days, or months, and close by urging men to stop measuring by others’ standards and focus on who they are becoming.00:00 Episode 400 Milestone01:24 Vanessa Returns03:35 Why We Measure04:50 Men Internal Scorecard08:27 Comparison Social Media12:17 Mythic Man Programming14:06 Find Your People17:19 Comparison Kills Intimacy20:20 Clarity Builds Confidence22:22 Say It Differently25:03 Relationship Reset Work26:32 Coaching Not Therapy27:49 Starting Sessions With Praise29:30 Drop Comparisons And Scorecards31:06 Milestones Versus Keeping Score32:14 Transform In 40036:29 Men Need Appreciation39:03 Compliments And Being Noticed42:41 Invest In The Work43:39 Authenticity And Connection46:24 Metallica Quote And Joy47:51 Final Takeaways And ThanksConnect with VanessaUnderstanding Ear — https://understandingear.com LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-cardenas-relationship-reset/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/vanessa_understandingear/YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@Vanessa-CardenasResourcesPrior appearances of Vanessa Cardenas — https://www.realmenfeel.org/guests/vanessa-cardenas/Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | httsp://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 400 | — | ||||||
| 4/10/26 |  Betrayal Trauma Isn't Something You Just Get Over | Betrayal, Shame & Rebuilding Trust: The Therapy Brothers on Real RecoveryOn Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with licensed clinicians Brannon Patrick and Tyler Patrick (the Therapy Brothers) about betrayal, shame, trust, and recovery after relationship rupture. They share what drew them into trauma, addiction, infidelity, and betrayal work, why men often seek help only after disclosure or rock bottom, and how fear of rejection and “unlovability” drives hiding, overperforming, and defensiveness. They describe betrayal trauma as complex trauma with PTSD-like symptoms and explain that healing requires safety, validation, and time rather than pressure to “just get over it.” They unpack “Mr. Nice Guy” patterns as fear-based manipulation, distinguish apology from accountability rooted in personal integrity, and emphasize rebuilding trust through authenticity, empathy, and consistent action. They outline shame resilience—awareness, self-compassion, and courageous disclosure—and discuss surrendering performance-based spirituality. 00:00 Shame and Hiding00:32 Show Intro and Guests01:29 Why They Became Therapists05:33 Men and Rock Bottom09:29 Betrayal Trauma Explained11:53 Why Just Get Over It Fails13:27 Mr Nice Guy Pattern18:07 Authenticity and Self Trust21:03 Roots of Betrayal and Addiction22:12 Apology Versus Accountability23:32 Integrity Apologies24:18 Building Safety Trust25:29 Shame Hiding Cycle28:38 Shame Resilience Tools30:03 Surrender Not Performance33:05 Tyler Rock Bottom Story36:40 Reclaim Your Heart39:19 Connect With Brothers40:16 What Men Need Know42:36 Final TakeawaysConnect with Brannon and TylerReclaim Your Heart — https://reclaimyourheart.orgTherapy Brothers — https://therapybrothers.org/Instagram — https://instagram.com/therapy.brothersYouTube — https://youtube.com/@therapy.brothersConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | https://www.realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 399 | — | ||||||
| 4/3/26 |  Aligning Success with Soul: From Rock Bottom to Purpose | Success, Intuition, and Purpose: Paul Davis on Unlocking Your GeniusHost Andy Grant interviews business growth consultant and intuitive advisor Paul Davis about aligning business success with purpose, meaning, and self-care. Davis explains that financial turnarounds don’t last if the owner’s mindset, beliefs, and unresolved childhood trauma aren’t addressed, citing ACE scores and how fear, shame, and guilt can escalate depression and suicidal ideation. He shares his own lifelong suicidal thoughts, why he hid them to avoid appearing weak or risky in senior roles, and how his brother Eugene’s death prompted him to speak openly and develop a methodology for purpose. Davis outlines “genius” as an innate spirit and describes four purpose elements: a life quest/mission, divine inspiration, three “genius drivers” for fulfillment, and a “genius role” archetype. He emphasizes giving “from the saucer, not from the cup,” building intuition, and living with an “open hand” rather than a constant focus on productivity.00:00 Why Leaders Stay Silent00:27 Meet Paul Davis01:29 Business Meets Mindset03:22 Sunrise Wake Up Call05:15 Dark Questions Early06:29 Research And New Method08:35 Service And Mission09:57 Why Success Feels Empty10:38 Trauma Triggers Self Care15:04 Why He Hid It18:17 Loss Changed Everything20:19 Defining Genius21:02 Divine Inspiration Explained21:32 Why Finding Your Why Fails22:10 Genius Drivers And Fulfillment22:49 Genius Roles And Alignment24:27 Success Without Purpose26:23 Intuition And Seventh Son29:19 What Leaders Need Most31:24 Find Your Lifelong Quest35:00 Meaningful Life And Legacy37:04 Open Hand Living Advice38:59 Final Wrap And ResourcesConnect with PaulPaul Davis — https://davisbusinessconsultants.com/LinkedIn — linkedin.com/in/pauldavisdublinYouTube — https://www.youtube.com/davisconsultantsResourcesGenius Unlocked: Discover Your Life Purpose & Innate Genius by Paul Davis — https://amzn.to/4tq8JNcAll of Paul’s books — https://amzn.to/4t86RrHConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | https://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://www.realmenfeel.org/YouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 398 | — | ||||||
| 3/27/26 |  Men's Silent Struggles: Overcoming Loneliness and Rejection | Rebuilding After Betrayal, Divorce, and the Dead Bedroom: Ralph Brewer on Men, Shame, and SupportHost Andy Grant interviews men’s coach Ralph Brewer about rebuilding after infidelity, divorce, and relationship collapse. Ralph shares his own experience of being divorced within 60 days after his spouse’s infidelity and becoming a single father of three, including how he blamed himself for years and later learned he couldn’t control another person’s choices. He explains how therapy and connecting with other men led him to create the “Dad Starting Over” platform, write five books—starting with the breakout “The Dead Bedroom Fix”—and build HelpForMen.com and the paid Brotherhood community with frequent Zoom meetings, forums, conferences, and coaching. They discuss common patterns among anxious, codependent “Mr. Nice Guy” men paired with avoidant partners, how “man up” emotional suppression causes flatness and mental health issues, the risks of bitterness and rapid rebound dating, and why peer support and asking for help are essential.00:00 Shame and Masculinity00:19 Show Intro and Guest01:28 Ralph's Divorce Story02:34 Owning Too Much Blame03:58 Therapy and Brotherhood05:10 From Blog to Brand07:32 Identity After Breakup10:29 Man Up Culture Costs12:15 Anxious Avoidant Trap15:48 Rewiring Shame and Self-Worth18:07 Dead Bedroom Explained19:58 First Step Honest Inventory21:11 Why Men Choose Wrong21:51 Pragmatic Partner Vetting22:55 Divorce Patterns Repeat23:56 Avoiding Bitter Blame25:36 Rebound Relationship Trap26:53 Neurodivergence And Dating29:27 Rock Bottom And Coping32:04 Brotherhood And Community36:52 How To Find Ralph38:31 Ask For Help40:01 Final TakeawaysConnect with RalphRalph Brewer — https://helpformen.com/Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/dadstartingoverInstagram — https://instagram.com/dadstartingoverResourcesThe Dead Bedroom Fix by Ralph Brewer — https://amzn.to/4tgMJ7nAll of Ralph’s books — https://amzn.to/4s85KYMJoin other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 397 | — | ||||||
| 3/20/26 |  Redefining Success: The Hollow Man Syndrome | The Hollow Man Syndrome: Redefining Success, Vulnerability, and the New AlphaHost Andy Grant interviews Kenyada Meadows, a Bank of America senior vice president and master certified executive coach, about “hollow man syndrome”—men who appear successful but feel empty and unfulfilled. Meadows explains the metaphor of a strong tree with decaying roots and describes how hollowing out can manifest as strained relationships, self-medicating, short tempers, or acting out. He contrasts traditional “alpha” achievement-driven masculinity with “emotional integrity,” emphasizing vulnerability, community, and emotional literacy as skills for connection and asking for help. Meadows outlines his “New Alpha” framework of three domains—relationships at work, at home, and with oneself—critiques the myth of perfect work-life balance with the idea of “wobbling well,” and discusses re-parenting the inner child, grace, and intentional reflection. He shares taking four months of paid parental leave in a competitive Wall Street environment, finding no downside, and encourages men to broaden “providing” beyond money to presence and communication.00:00 The Hollow Tree Metaphor00:31 Meet Kenyada Meadows01:32 Defining Hollow Man Syndrome04:19 Personal Turning Points05:37 Mentorship and The New Alpha08:23 Costs of Traditional Alpha09:56 Emotional Integrity Skills14:38 Why High Achievers Feel Empty16:31 Wobbling Work Life Balance18:40 Reparenting the Inner Child21:07 Taking Paternity Leave24:02 Providing Beyond Money28:04 Three Domains Framework29:49 Rethinking Alpha Culture32:46 Connect and Final Takeaway36:15 Closing and Community InviteConnect with KenyadaKenyada Meadows — https://www.executiveparentcompany.com/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/kenyadameadowscpaciacfe/ResourcesThe New Alpha: Be Three Times the Leader Through Balance, Not Dominance by Kenyada Meadows — https://amzn.to/4bA4BCVConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 396 | — | ||||||
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| 3/13/26 |  Men's Health and Healing: Exploring Modern Masculinity | Men’s Health, Loneliness, and Real MasculinityHost Andy Grant opens by saying men need truth and connection, not shame or fake strength. After a guest postpones due to health news, Andy shares he has a colonoscopy scheduled and urges men to prioritize physical health: get annual checkups, know family history, ask doctors questions, and follow colorectal cancer screening guidance, noting rising deaths under 50 and citing Chadwick Boseman and James Van Der Beek. He then discusses an international survey reporting that about a third of Gen Z men believe wives should obey husbands and husbands should have final say, interpreting this as a search for identity, direction, belonging, respect, purpose, and brotherhood. Andy argues that men are hurting without language, loneliness increases vulnerability to harmful online narratives, and real masculinity is responsibility, integrity, presence, and emotional honesty, inviting listeners to join his community at https://realmenfeel.org/group.00:00 What Men Really Need00:18 Welcome and Plans Change00:44 Colonoscopy Wake Up Call01:22 Screening Facts and Risks02:31 Gen Z Survey Shock03:18 What Men Are Hungry For04:32 Pain Turns Into Anger05:15 Loneliness and Online Voices06:05 Masculinity Without Domination07:17 Why Real Men Feel Exists07:38 Two Reminders and Next StepsConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join us in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 395 | — | ||||||
| 3/6/26 |  The Success Trap: When Winning Feels Empty | Escaping the Success Trap: When Achievement Still Feels EmptyHost Andy Grant discusses “the success trap,” where men achieve promotions, money, status, and accomplishments yet feel empty, disconnected, and numb. Citing a Forbes article, he explains the paradox that believing we’re successful can limit growth by creating fear of risking standing in others’ eyes, even when success lacks meaning. Drawing from his corporate experience and nearly 400 Real Men Feel episodes, he describes signs and outcomes such as identity tied to performance, discomfort with rest, emotional inaccessibility, burnout, midlife crisis, relationship struggles, addiction, and self-destructive behavior. Grant shares quotes from Johnny Cash, Maya Angelou, Albert Schweitzer, and Winston Churchill, then offers three solutions: redefine success to include meaning and connection, reconnect with feelings through reflection and journaling, and build brotherhood to counter isolation, inviting listeners to the Authentic AF community.00:00 The Success Trap00:36 Welcome and Setup01:34 Why Success Feels Empty03:03 My Corporate Wakeup03:44 Signs You Are Stuck04:42 Achievement Armor Costs06:03 Patterns From 400 Talks07:01 Redefining Real Success08:01 Three Ways Out09:53 Join Authentic AFConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join us in the Authentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 394 | — | ||||||
| 2/27/26 |  Midlife Awakening: Finding Fulfillment After 50 | Midlife Identity, Men Speaking Up, and Finding Fulfillment After 50Andy Grant interviews UK-based Philip Briscoe, host of the Mid-life Men Podcast, about his midlife turning point at 50 after leaving a tech job where he felt undervalued and realizing he didn’t know who he was beyond work. Philip describes how stress and lack of fulfillment contributed to depression, anxiety, poor sleep, and lifestyle-related health issues including type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, obesity, and fatty liver, many of which improved after he stepped away. He explains creating his podcast to fill a lack of resources for men, finding purpose by sharing men’s recovery narratives, and later turning interviews into his book Men Speak Up, focused on communication and getting help. They discuss misconceptions about the “midlife crisis,” hormonal and mental-health realities, ageism, normalizing taboo topics like suicidal thoughts, and the importance of supportive friendships and groups.00:00 Burnout and Identity Loss00:57 Meet Philip Briscoe02:08 Turning 50 Wake Up Call03:32 Health Alarms and Change04:09 Finding Purpose Through Podcasting06:46 Work Family and Delayed Joy09:44 Why Mid-life Men Exists12:24 Lessons Men Speak Up15:15 Depression Signs and Support18:45 From Podcast to Book20:51 Midlife Crisis Myths25:59 Purpose as a Continuum27:25 Connect and Final Takeaway30:13 Closing and Community InviteConnect with PhilipPhilip Briscoe — https://www.mid-lifemen.com/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/midlifemenpodcast/Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/midlifemen/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/philipbriscoe/ResourcesMen Speak Up: Journeys Through Mental Health by Philip Briscoe — https://amzn.to/4kT4QgJConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 393 | — | ||||||
| 2/20/26 |  Real Men Feel: Celebrating 10 Years of Breaking Masculinity Myths | Real Men Feel: 10-Year Anniversary—From Blab to Authentic AFAndy Grant celebrates 10 years of Real Men Feel, which first went live on February 23, 2016 on Blab, and thanks co-founder Appio Hunter, past guests, and listeners for helping create a space where men can talk about the full range of emotions. The episode features audio from the very beginning of the first 2016 episode, a clip from episode 100 about two and a half years later reflecting on how the show grew from a planned monthly, 30-minute format into weekly hour-long conversations with guests, and additional segments from more recent discussions. Across multiple guest clips answering the recurring question, “What’s one thing you wish more men knew?”, themes include vulnerability as strength, listening, empathy, belonging and finding a tribe, not having to be the strongest or prove masculinity, being allowed to say no and speak up, self-acceptance and compassion, and not having to go it alone. Andy concludes that men need more connection rather than more advice and invites listeners to join the Authentic AF community at realmenfeel.org/group, offering live calls, men’s circles, meditations, honest conversations, and relationships without performance or posturing.00:00 10-Year Anniversary: Why Real Men Feel Exists02:02 How the Episode Will Unfold: Clips From 2016 to Now02:47 Flashback to Episode 1 (2016): Andy’s Mission & Creating Space for Men04:18 Meet Co-Host Appio Hunter: Emotional Healing & Men as Human Beings06:22 Episode 100 Throwback: Celebrating the Journey & Early Blab Days11:01 From Monthly to Weekly: How the Show’s Format Evolved13:09 “One Thing I Wish More Men Knew” Montage Begins: Vulnerability & Belonging15:49 Relationships as a Portal: Communication, Healing & Intimacy18:58 More Wisdom From Guests: Listening, Ego, Empathy & Authenticity22:45 You Don’t Have to Go It Alone: Voice, Support & Self-Acceptance27:53 Closing Reflections: Connection Over Advice + Join Authentic AFConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 392 | — | ||||||
| 2/13/26 |  Reclaiming Authenticity: Beyond the Buzzword | Are You Being Real?In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant addresses the skepticism surrounding authenticity, particularly among men. He explores how the term has been diluted and misused across contexts, reducing it to a mere buzzword. Andy revisits the core values of his show—authenticity, vulnerability, and compassion—while sharing personal experiences that illustrate the genuine meaning of being authentic. He emphasizes the importance of honesty, responsibility, and emotional openness to truly embody authenticity. Finally, Andy invites listeners to join his online community, Authentic AF at http://realmenfeel.org/group, to further explore and practice genuine self-expression.00:00 Introduction and Host Welcome00:29 The Misuse of Authenticity01:11 Defining True Authenticity02:13 Personal Journey to Authenticity04:13 Practicing Authenticity in Daily Life05:45 Challenges Men Face with Authenticity07:28 Living Authentically and Community Invitation08:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | https://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 391 | — | ||||||
| 2/6/26 |  Discover Your Animal Archetype: The Power of Personality | Unlocking the Real You: The Power of Animal ArchetypesIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Eric Gee, a published author, life and writing coach, who shares his unique personality typing system based on animal archetypes. They discuss how this system provides deeper insights into oneself beyond superficial traits, helping individuals make better life choices across careers, relationships, and personal growth. Eric elaborates on common misconceptions in traditional personality models and the importance of embracing one's true nature. They explore the real-life application of these archetypes in education, relationships, and creative work, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and authenticity. Highlights include discussions of specific animal types, such as stags and peacocks, and their relevance to personal and professional life, as well as the impact of societal and parental expectations on identity.00:00 The Dangers of Not Being Yourself00:18 Introduction to Real Men Feel00:26 Meet Eric Gee: Author and Personality Expert01:23 Understanding Personality Typing03:52 The Power of Animal Archetypes06:14 Common Personality Types and Their Traits07:36 Personality Types in Men and Society11:57 Discovering Your True Personality13:19 Impact of Social Programming on Boys18:55 Upcoming Book and Common Questions19:25 Relationship Dynamics and Personality Types21:12 Creative Expression and Animal Types22:58 Finding Your Authentic Voice25:44 Understanding and Accepting Your Personality29:29 Harry Potter Characters and Personality Types32:43 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery34:38 Where to Learn More and Final ThoughtsConnect with EricEric Gee — https://www.projectyoutopia.com/Take The Test — https://youtopiaproject.com/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/the_power_of_personality/Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/eric.c.gee/LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-gee-3565a79/ResourcesPower of Personality: Unlock the Secrets to Understanding Everyone in Your Life by Eric Gee — https://amzn.to/3Zq3ekyConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 390 | — | ||||||
| 1/30/26 |  Presence Over Perfection For Dads: The Engaged Father Project | Transformative Fatherhood with Jon Hord: From Reactive to PresentIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Jon Hord, founder of the Engaged Father Project. Jon shares his journey from a stressed-out father to becoming an emotionally regulated, present parent. They discuss intentional parenting, emotional regulation, and redefining strong fatherhood. Jon explains the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and conscious choices in improving fatherhood. He also discusses his transition from a corporate career to life coaching and the development of the Engaged Father Project, which helps fathers become the best versions of themselves. Jon offers practical advice for daily practices that can help fathers align their actions with their parenting goals.00:00 The Power of Vulnerability in Fatherhood00:27 Introduction to Real Men Feel00:41 Meet Jon Hord: From Reactive to Present Parenting01:06 The Biggest Disconnect in Fatherhood03:10 Jon's Journey: Becoming the Father He Didn't Want to Be05:40 The Turning Point: Finding a Life Coach08:31 Creating the Engaged Father Project14:03 The Role of a Life Coach15:56 The Importance of Vulnerability in Fatherhood34:54 Daily Practices for Intentional Fatherhood38:09 Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with JonThe Engaged Father Project — https://theengagedfatherproject.com/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/theengagedfatherproject/TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@theengagedfatherpYouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@TheEngagedFatherProjectLinkedIn — http://www.linkedin.com/in/jon-hordConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 389 | — | ||||||
| 1/23/26 |  Finding Freedom: Healing After Incarceration | Overcoming Life's Inner PrisonsIn this compelling episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Matt Melvin, author of 'Bullied Behind Bars.' Matt shares his harrowing experiences of incarceration, bullying, and isolation, focusing on the mental prison of blame and anger that lingered long after his physical release. The conversation delves into the challenges many men face, such as shame, fear, and past trauma, and discusses the importance of emotional survival, men's groups, and what it truly means to feel free inside. Matt talks about his journey to self-love and forgiveness and his plans to create a supportive community for men. This episode provides a powerful reminder that freedom is more about inner connection and honesty rather than external conditions.00:00 Introduction to Forgiveness and Accountability00:13 Welcome to Real Men Feel00:34 Meet Matt Melvin: Author and Survivor02:01 Matt's Journey Through Incarceration05:31 Life After Prison: Challenges and Growth13:11 The Importance of Men's Work and Vulnerability19:23 Matt's Vision for the Future27:45 Final Thoughts and Contact InformationConnect with MattMatt Melvin — https://www.bulliedbehindbars.com/Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/matthew.melvin.5621X — https://x.com/barsbulliedResourcesBullied Behind Bars: A Gay Christian Trump Supporter Goes to Prison by Matt Melvin — https://amzn.to/4r2mSi8Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 388 | — | ||||||
| 1/16/26 |  Vulnerability, Alpha Myths, and Redefining Confidence | Embracing Vulnerability and AuthenticityIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Tyler Foley, a keynote speaker and author of 'The Power to Speak Naked.' They delve into topics such as masculinity, leadership, vulnerability, and the complexities of jealousy and control for men. Tyler shares how his communication skills and diverse influences shape his masculinity and confidence. The conversation also explores relationship dynamics, including how to be supportive of a successful partner and how traditional notions of 'being alpha' are outdated. They discuss how true leadership involves listening, authenticity, and the power of stripping away the facade to reveal the raw, honest truth.00:00 Introduction and Opening Thoughts00:28 Welcome and Guest Introduction00:43 Exploring Masculinity and Leadership01:53 Tyler's Personal Journey and Influences09:12 The Power of Vulnerability13:29 The Concept of Speaking Naked15:46 Authenticity and Self-Awareness16:40 Supporting a Partner's Success21:24 Challenging the Alpha Male Stereotype27:13 Effective Leadership and Communication29:45 Final Thoughts and FarewellConnect with TylerTyler Foley — https://seantylerfoley.comFacebook — https://www.facebook.com/SeanTylerFoleyYYCLinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/seantylerfoleyInstagram — https://www.instagram.com/seantylerfoley/ResourcesThe Power to Speak Naked: How to Speak with Confidence, Communicate Effectively, and Win Your Audience by Tyler Foley — https://amzn.to/3LmZ1eaConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 387 | — | ||||||
| 1/9/26 |  Restoring Confidence: Tackling ED and Performance Anxiety | Overcoming Sexual Performance AnxietyIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant discusses the often taboo topic of erectile dysfunction, sexual performance anxiety, and the fear of being broken with guest Shay Doran. Shay, a coach who helps men overcome these issues, shares his personal journey and insights on why ED is rarely just about the body but more about mindset. They discuss the societal pressures and beliefs that contribute to performance anxiety, the impact on relationships, and the importance of seeking help. Shay also explores the harmful cycle of quick fixes and the cultural differences in perceptions of masculinity and sexual performance. The episode emphasizes that these challenges are normal and that men aren't alone in their struggles.00:00 The Influence of Porn on Sex Education00:36 Introduction to Real Men Feel and Today's Topic00:52 Meet Shay Doran: Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety01:43 Shay's Personal Journey with Performance Anxiety04:24 The Root Causes of Performance Anxiety06:31 The Performative Mindset and Its Impact07:17 Distinguishing Between Medical and Mindset Issues10:06 The Trap of Quick Fixes and Marketing Scams13:10 The Importance of Seeking Help and Guidance17:37 The Relational Impact of Erectile Dysfunction20:31 Addressing the Elephant in the Room21:11 Non-Judgmental Support and Communication22:10 Working with Men on Performance Issues23:19 Unique Challenges for Gay and Bi Men25:43 Decoupling Masculine Identity from Sexual Performance28:26 Common Aha Moments in Therapy30:30 Cultural Differences in Masculinity and Performance Anxiety32:01 Normalizing Sexual Performance Fluctuations34:10 Impact of Porn on Sexual Performance34:56 Connecting with Shay Doran36:14 Beyond Sexual Performance: Living Authentically38:28 Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with ShayShay Doran — https://shay-doran.comYouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@shay-doranConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 386 | — | ||||||
| 12/26/25 |  Fueling Growth with Gratitude and Grief: Finding Purpose in the Shadow of Loss | Navigating Grief with Gratitude: A Conversation with Steve GamlinIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Steve Gamlin, known as the Motivational Firewood Guy. Steve shares his journey of grief and gratitude after losing his wife, Tina, in December 2024. The conversation delves deep into the process of living and creating with a broken heart, the power of visualization, and the impact of everyday kindness. Steve also discusses the importance of authentic expression and being honest about where you are in life. This heartfelt discussion is both uplifting and profoundly human, providing insights into how to find strength and purpose amid profound loss.00:00 Introduction and Personal Tragedy00:41 Meet Steve Gamlin: The Motivational Firewood Guy01:46 The Origin of Motivational Firewood03:50 Understanding Visualization and Vision Boards08:15 The Power of Everyday Kindness14:02 Navigating Grief and Sharing the Journey19:09 Personal Journey Through Grief20:49 Rebuilding and Moving Forward21:26 The Importance of Lived Experience23:26 Honoring Tina Through Vision Boards27:03 Daily Habits and Positivity33:29 Future Relationships and Self-Discovery35:32 Final Thoughts and ConnectionConnect with SteveSteve Gamlin — http://SteveGamlinSpeaker.comFacebook — https://www.facebook.com/SteveGamlinLinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevegamlin/Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 385 | — | ||||||
| 12/19/25 |  No Competition, Just Growth: The Lez Bro's Take on Men's Work | Breaking Down Barriers with the LezBroIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Aastha Lal, a lesbian coach who is transforming men's relationships by providing a safe, non-competitive, and non-judgmental space for growth. Aastha shares her journey in creating the LezBro, a coaching practice where men can explore vulnerability, emotional honesty, and mindfulness. They discuss common challenges men face, such as reactivity and the need for connection, and highlight practical solutions through mindfulness and meditation. Aastha's unique approach bridges the divide in how men approach emotional openness and mental well-being, creating a ripple effect that benefits their relationships and communities. Join Andy and Aastha as they dive deep into the importance of emotional safety and the unexpected benefits of having a lesbian coach for straight men.00:00 Introduction: The Starvation for Connection00:29 Meet the Guest: Aastha Lahl, The LezBro Coach01:17 The Birth of LezBro: A Safe Space for Men03:00 Common Reactions and Client Experiences04:46 The Importance of Vulnerability and Mindfulness09:43 Challenges Men Face: Emotions and Reactivity12:38 Mindfulness in Practice: Real-Life Applications17:12 Connection in Relationships: Single vs. Married Men19:18 Outdated Masculinity and Emotional Expression27:35 Practical Steps for Men: Starting the Journey31:29 Conclusion: Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with AasthaTheLezBro — https://www.thelezbro.com/Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/the.lezbro/Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 384 | — | ||||||
| 12/12/25 |  Embracing Vulnerability: What More Men Should Know | In this unique clip show, host Andy Grant of Real Men Feel compiles powerful, honest answers from 17 previous guests to one pivotal question: 'What do you wish more men knew?' These responses shed light on the significant themes of love, vulnerability, self-worth, and emotional resilience. From emphasizing the importance of self-love and accountability to advocating for better sexual health and emotional expression, these insights reveal a common thread—strength and vulnerability are not opposites, but essential mates. This episode encourages men to be true to themselves and engage deeply with others.00:00 Introduction to Real Men Feel00:37 The Power of Vulnerability03:34 Embracing Emotional Resilience07:35 Redefining Masculinity14:18 The Importance of Sexual Health17:20 Conclusion and Community InvitationConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 383 | — | ||||||
| 12/5/25 |  Veteran Triumphs Over Silent Struggle: Winning The War After The War | From Silence to Strength: A Veteran's JourneyIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Louis Stockley Jr., an army veteran, father, coach, and founder of Before 22. Louis shares his story of serving 17 years in military and federal service, facing emotional shutdowns, and nearly losing his family to his video game addiction. He discusses the pressures of masculinity, how the military shaped him, and the harrowing experiences of transitioning to civilian life. Louis also talks about his turning point and the creation of Before 22, a movement to help veterans find purpose, brotherhood, and support before falling into severe mental health crises. Join Andy and Louis as they explore the importance of vulnerability, brotherhood, and service in reclaiming one's life and voice.00:00 Military Programming and Emotional Suppression00:40 Introduction to Real Men Feel and Guest Louis Stockley Jr.01:27 Louis Stockley's Military Background and Early Challenges03:13 Lessons in Masculinity and Military Discipline07:55 A Painful Lesson in Commitment10:17 Transitioning to Civilian Life18:28 Struggles with Trust and Isolation21:32 The Turning Point: Overcoming Video Game Addiction28:01 Discovering the Power of Fitness29:00 Helping a Friend in Need32:56 The Impact of Brotherhood35:32 Facing Personal Challenges38:10 Understanding Veterans' Struggles41:18 The Mission of Before 2247:33 Encouraging Vulnerability and Seeking Help52:33 Final Thoughts and ResourcesConnect with LouisLinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/lstockley/Louis on TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@vetcoachlouisBefore 22 — https://www.tiktok.com/@before22adayLouis on IG — https://www.instagram.com/vetcoachlouisBefore 22 — https://www.instagram.com/before22aday/Connect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 382 | — | ||||||
| 11/28/25 |  Breaking Out Of The Man Box: Betting On Yourself and Redefining Masculinity | Breaking the Chains: Reframing TraumaIn this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Eugene Z. Bertrand, a master of social work candidate at Columbia University, advocate for trauma-informed mental healthcare, and first-time author. Eugene discusses his journey of turning pain into purpose by reframing trauma as resilience and the significance of vulnerability for healing. Topics include dismantling myths and stigma around domestic violence, betting on oneself, the intersection of trauma and mental health with incarceration, and the importance of representation and support systems. Eugene also shares about his impactful book 'Resilience: Breaking the Chains' and his role as a mitigation specialist in a federal public defender's office.00:00 Introduction and Myths Around Domestic Violence00:23 Meet Eugene Z. Bertrand01:21 Eugene's Journey and Impact of Real Men Feel02:03 Discussing the Man Box and Male Vulnerability04:35 Creativity as a Healing Tool06:01 Eugene's Book: Resilience Breaking the Chains12:06 Challenges and Opportunities in Mental Health for Black Men16:38 Mitigation Specialist Role and Rehabilitation23:08 Betting on Yourself and Personal Growth26:54 Final Thoughts and ConnectionConnect with EugeneEugene Z Bertrand — https://eugenezbertrand.com/LinkedIn — linkedin.com/in/eugene-bertrandResourcesResilience: Breaking the Chains by Eugene Z Bertrand — https://amzn.to/44oc8Sq200 Powerful Positive Affirmations and 6 Simple Tips to Put Them to Work by Andy Grant — https://amzn.to/4p2k8kdConnect with Andy and the Real Men Feel Podcast:Join me and connect with other like-minded men in theAuthentic AF Community | http://realmenfeel.org/groupInstagram | @realmenfeelshow & @theandygrantAndy Grant | https://theandygrant.com for coaching, healing, and book info!Real Men Feel | http://realmenfeel.orgYouTube | https://youtube.com/realmenfeel#RealMenFeel ep 381 | — | ||||||
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