E148 Discerning Enemy Mode in Offense

About this episode

Chris and Jen discuss recognizing and shifting out of 'enemy mode' during conflicts.

Chris and Jen explore moments when they—or the people they’re engaging with—slip into “enemy mode” during conflict. They discuss what it feels like, how it shapes our thinking, how to recognize it in others, and practical ways to shift back into a more relational, compassionate mindset. 🔗 LIVE on May 7th: "The Pain of Disappointment: When Leaders Let Us Down" Join Chris Coursey for a 3 1⁄2‑hour event designed to help you understand and navigate the pain and offense that surface when leaders f...

People in this episode

Host: Chris

Guest: Jen

Topics covered

• conflict resolution
• enemy mode
• relational skills
• compassion
• leadership

Keywords

• enemy mode
• conflict
• relational mindset
• compassion
• leadership disappointment

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