375. Are You Codependent or Just a Good Person? Here’s How to Tell

375. Are You Codependent or Just a Good Person? Here’s How to Tell

March 23, 2026 · 40 min · Season 8 · Episode 375

About this episode

Dr. Abby Medcalf explores the difference between codependency and genuine compassion, providing insights and tools for self-assessment.

You’re a caring person. You show up. You give. You’d do just about anything for the people you love. So when someone suggests you might be codependent, it stings because, from where you’re standing, you’re just being a good person. But what if both things are true? Today I’m going to show you the difference between true compassion and fear-based helping, the sneakiest place codependency actually hides, four questions to tell which one you’re doing in real time, and five things to do the moment you catch yourself crossing that line. ____________________________ Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/why-caring-people-are-often-codependent   Download The Compassion Check. It’s a quick self-quiz that helps you see in real time whether you’re giving from love or from fear: https://abbymedcalf.com/compassion-check Join my online community, One Love Collective, on Substack: https://abbymedcalf.com/substack .   You'll get... ✨ Early drops + ad-free podcast episodes ✨ Worksheets, journal prompts, downloads, and guided visualizations ✨ Community chats and live Q&A calls with Abby _________   Subscribe to the Love Letter and get my little messages each…

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