How to feel more loved, with Harry Reis, PhD

How to feel more loved, with Harry Reis, PhD

May 27, 2026 · 29 min · Episode 381

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Harry Reis, PhD discusses the difference between being loved and feeling loved, and shares five mindsets to strengthen relationships.

Even in our closest relationships, we can sometimes feel misunderstood and disconnected. Relationship researcher Harry Reis, PhD, coauthor of How to Feel Loved: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most, talks about the difference between being loved and feeling loved; the five “mindsets” that help people build stronger relationships; and why listening, vulnerability and curiosity are key to feeling more loved. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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