Stay Wealthy Retirement Podcast

At 63, David has $4 million saved. Two advisors have told him he's ready to retire, and every Monte Carlo simulation agrees... but he still can't bring himself to do it. "I'm no longer being smart," he admits. "I'm just scared to pull the trigger." The uncomfortable part is that no number may fix this, because what's holding David back was never on the spreadsheet. In this episode, I'm joined by Daniel Crosby, Ph.D. — a psychologist and behavioral finance expert — to answer listener questions about the part of retirement the math can't solve. You'll learn: → How to spend in retirement so the enjoyment doesn't wear off so fast → A 3-part framework for putting your money where it creates the most happiness → When changing your plan is wise, and when it's just reacting to noise → The 2 questions to ask when you're financially ready but still can't pull the trigger → What actually moves the 40% of your happiness that's within your control By the end, you'll have a clearer way to separate a plan that works on paper from a retirement you actually feel ready to live. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

You spend 30 or 40 years protecting your future self. Then you finally retire... and the person you were saving for never quite arrives. There's always an older version down the road who still feels like they need protecting. So you keep saving for tomorrow while postponing the life you could enjoy today. But more money for "future you" isn't what makes retirement better. In this episode, Hal Hershfield, Ph.D. — a UCLA professor of Behavioral Decision Making and author of Your Future Self — joins me to explain why. Here's what you'll learn: → Why your brain treats your future self like a stranger (and how that shapes every money decision) → How "projection bias" distorts irreversible choices like when to retire or claim Social Security → The "denominator problem" that stops retirees from spending + a simple reframe to help The distance we feel from our future selves is real and well-documented. It is also, with the right perspective, something we can learn to close. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Umbrella insurance isn't usually the first thing people think about when they picture retirement planning. Most conversations focus on saving enough, investing well, reducing taxes, and creating income. But in retirement, one unintentional accident can create a very different kind of risk. Not just a temporary setback, but a threat to savings you may no longer have decades to rebuild. In this episode, I'm simplifying how umbrella insurance works for retirement savers. Specifically, I'm sharing: → Why liability risk doesn't necessarily disappear after your working years → What umbrella insurance does and doesn't cover → 5 common mistakes people make when buying or reviewing a policy → A simple 4-part formula for estimating how much coverage you actually need You'll also learn why the common "match coverage to net worth" rule can be misleading + why coverage may still make sense even when the math says you don't technically need it. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Many retirement savers assume the anxiety will lift once they hit a certain number. Maybe it's $1 million. Maybe $2 million. Maybe $5 million or more. And then the account crosses the line, the headlines turn ugly, and the worry is still there. A recent Wall Street Journal headline put it bluntly: "Even Rich Retirees Fear Outliving Their Money." In this episode, I'm sharing new research from Fidelity that helps explain why having "enough" so often still doesn't feel like enough. I'm also sharing the four things I consistently see in retirees who feel genuinely secure. Here's what you'll learn: → The retirement planning factor that more than doubles confidence → A cognitive concept that explains why retirement anxiety has very little to do with your account balance → The question many well-prepared retirees still can't answer — and why ignoring it can be so costly Not one of the four pillars has anything to do with the size of your portfolio. Which raises the real question: what's actually keeping wealthy retirees up at night? *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Tax season is finally over. The returns are filed, the stress is behind you, and the last thing you probably want to do is think about taxes again. But the weeks right after tax season are one of the most valuable windows you have all year. Every number from last year is fresh, every missed opportunity is still visible, and every mistake you just uncovered is a clue about what to fix going forward. In this episode, I sit down with Josh Rendler, CFP®, a partner at our firm and someone who spends his days deep inside client tax returns. Together, we're answering some of the biggest questions we're hearing from retirees right now. Here's what you'll learn: → The 3 numbers on last year's return that reveal your biggest 2026 planning opportunities → How to know if charitable giving belongs in your plan (plus the QCD detail that keeps it "invisible" to the IRS) → A fresh, counterintuitive take on Social Security timing While last year's return is still on your desk: what's hiding in there that could make 2026 better? 🤔 *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

According to the FBI, Americans lost nearly $21 billion to cyber-enabled fraud last year—a 26% increase from the year before. And the single largest category? Investment-related fraud, with more than $8.6 billion in losses. But what's most unsettling isn't the scale... it's how simple some of these scams really are. A retired couple recently lost thousands of dollars from their IRA after a scammer tricked them into sharing a single six-digit verification code over the phone. No hacking. No stolen password. Just one text message and one phone call. In this episode, I'm breaking down how "account takeover" scams work, why they're so effective, and the specific steps you can take to close the security gap. Here's what you'll learn: → The 3-step pattern behind most account takeover scams → Why your personal information may already be compromised (and what that means for your account security) → What to do—and what not to do—when a financial institution contacts you about suspicious activity → 3 simple upgrades to better protect your accounts that most people overlook In a world where scammers only need a few seconds to strike, your ability to slow down and take back control of the moment may be the most valuable layer of protection you have. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Saving for retirement is one challenge. Feeling comfortable (and confident) enough to actually enjoy it is another. Even when the numbers say you're okay, uncertainty about the future can make it hard to use money for the things that matter most. Today, I'm revisiting a conversation with Dr. Daniel Crosby where we talk about money, happiness, and why spending is often harder than saving. It's especially relevant for me as my family currently navigates some big financial decisions... and a birthday trip for my oldest son that almost didn't happen. 🫣 In this episode, we discuss: → What the research gets wrong about the link between money and happiness → Why certain types of spending leave a bigger impact than others → A simple mindset shift that can make spending feel safer in retirement → What people near the end of life rarely regret—and what they wish they had done more of This conversation is a good reminder that money is a tool, and the goal is to use it to support the life you truly value. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Now that the One Big Beautiful Bill Act has made the 2017 tax rates permanent, more retirees are taking a fresh look at Roth conversions. But there's one rule that even reputable sources struggle to explain clearly—and the confusion can lead to costly mistakes. In this episode, I'm simplifying the Roth conversion 5-year rule and sharing: → Why the rule is so confusing (and what most people get wrong) → The fastest way to determine how the rule applies to your specific situation → 4 real-world scenarios so you can see exactly how it works If Roth conversions aren't a fit today, I'm also sharing one simple step everyone can take right now to make future conversions much easier. *** 📝 GRAB THE ROTH 5-YEAR FLOWCHART (PDF) Want to apply what you learned in this episode to your unique situation? Subscribe to the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter and I'll send you my freshly updated Roth 5-Year Flowchart (PDF). It's a simple guide to help you navigate this tricky rule step by step. Grab your copy here. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Health insurance is keeping millions of Americans stuck in jobs they'd otherwise leave. In fact, 1 in 5 workers ages 50–64 say they're staying put because of their employer health coverage. And with recent changes to the ACA, that pressure is only growing. In this episode, I cover: → Why healthcare before Medicare has become a psychological roadblock to early retirement → Why the real cost of waiting until 65 may not be what you think → The options many people overlook and the tradeoffs worth understanding Because for most people, the healthcare challenge does have a solution. And the worst thing you can do is never explore your options at all. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Markets move every day. Headlines change every hour. But the greatest threat to your retirement plan isn't volatility... it's something far less visible. In this episode, I'm breaking down: → The three components of risk most investors focus on (and the one they ignore) → Why rare, extreme events have an outsized impact on long-term wealth → How to build a retirement plan designed to survive (and even benefit from) uncertainty I'm also sharing why many "downside-protection" strategies sound compelling in theory, but are risky and difficult to execute in the real world. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL: Your retirement involves complex, interconnected decisions—taxes, income, healthcare, estate planning, investments. See how they fit together in one coordinated strategy built around your numbers. 👉 Learn More and Book a Call *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Annuities are often sold as a simple solution to a complicated retirement problem. Guaranteed income. Protection from market volatility. Peace of mind that your money won't run out. But behind those promises is a much more complex set of trade-offs that many investors don't consider. Because while annuities can play a role in retirement planning, evaluating them in isolation often leads to unintended consequences (higher fees, reduced flexibility, extra taxes). So in today's episode, I break down how annuities actually work. We'll walk through the major types of annuities, how "guarantees" are structured, what you're really paying for, and where the risks tend to show up later in retirement. I'll also explain when annuities may make sense, when they don't, and how to evaluate them as part of a coordinated retirement plan so you can make informed decisions with confidence. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL: For two decades, we've have helped hundreds of families across the U.S. plan smarter retirements—from tax strategies and investments to income and legacy planning. The result? Less stress. Lower taxes. More confidence about the future. If you're looking for clarity and a proven, personalized process, we'd be honored to have a conversation. 👉 Click to Learn More and Schedule *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

After decades of filing taxes together, most couples assume their retirement plan will continue largely unchanged if one spouse passes away. But for many surviving spouses, the first surprise is a higher tax bill, even when income hasn't changed much. In this episode, I explain how a feature of the tax code can increase taxes after the loss of a spouse. Using a real-world example, I show why tax brackets shrink, why retirement income often doesn't, and how that mismatch can quietly drive taxes higher over time. More importantly, I share a planning framework couples can use while both spouses are still alive. We'll cover common mistakes, why the "married window" matters, and how small, intentional decisions made years in advance can meaningfully protect the surviving spouse. This isn't about fear or worst-case scenarios—it's about avoiding unnecessary surprises and making thoughtful, proactive decisions that support confidence throughout retirement. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL: For two decades, we've have helped hundreds of families across the U.S. plan smarter retirements—from tax strategies and investments to income and legacy planning. The result? Less stress. Lower taxes. More confidence about the future. If you're looking for clarity and a proven, personalized process, we'd be honored to have a conversation. 👉 Click to Learn More and Schedule *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Join the Stay Wealthy Retirement Newsletter → Learn About the Total Retirement System™

Every January, we go through the same routine. Limits adjust, brackets shift, and most years it's just a quick refresh. But 2026 is different. Sweeping tax legislation passed last summer is introducing some of the biggest changes we've seen in a while. And buried inside those updates are two new rules that have already caused widespread confusion (even among experts). In this bonus episode, I walk through the most important tax updates for 2026 and explain why they matter for your retirement plan. I also also break down those two unique rules, sharing how they work, who they apply to, and why they matter. So even if you feel up to speed on the 2026 changes, I'm confident you'll walk away with at least one new and useful insight. *** 📆 BOOK A CALL: For nearly two decades, we've have helped hundreds of families across the U.S. plan smarter retirements—from tax strategies and investments to income and legacy planning. The result? Less stress. Lower taxes. More confidence about the future. If you're looking for clarity and a proven, personalized process, we'd be honored to have a conversation. 👉 Click to Learn More and Schedule *** EPISODE RESOURCES: → Download the 2026 Tax Cheat Sheet → Grab the Episode Show Notes → Learn About the Total Retirement System™