(Part 2) You Are My Lil Friend: Lessons From My Mom on Survival, Sacrifice & Showing Up

(Part 2) You Are My Lil Friend: Lessons From My Mom on Survival, Sacrifice & Showing Up

From Subjective by Donyelle Murray

September 19, 2025 · 55 min · Episode 17

About this episode

Donyelle and her mother discuss the challenges and lessons of young motherhood in a candid conversation about resilience and personal growth.

What happens when you’re still figuring out who you are, but you already have kids depending on you? In this continuation of one of the most personal conversations yet, Donyelle and her mother go even deeper into the realities of young motherhood — the unspoken fears, the resilience it demanded, and the lessons that only come with time and reflection. In part two, her mom shares the aftermath of becoming a mother at 16: the ongoing challenges of balancing survival with growth, how faith and community continued to hold her up, and the moments she had to choose between her own becoming and showing up for her kids. Together, they wrestle with the complicated truths of “growing up together” — what that looked like in practice, what it cost, and how it shaped both of them. This isn’t just the rest of the story; it’s an unfiltered look at resilience, healing, and the generational strength that continues to ripple forward. —🖤 JOIN THE SUBJECTIVE COMMUNITY: → 🎧 Listen on ⁠Spotify/Apple⁠ → 📝 Read the newsletter/ ⁠Substack⁠ → 📲 IG / TikTok: @TheSubjectivePod → 📸 IG @_DonyelleMurray → 📥 Business: subjective@donyellemurray.com ✨ Reviews help us grow and reach more listeners, thank you…

People in this episode

Host: Donyelle Murray

Guest: Donyelle's mother

Topics covered

  • young motherhood
  • resilience
  • sacrifice
  • personal growth
  • generational strength
  • faith and community

Keywords

  • young motherhood
  • resilience
  • sacrifice
  • personal growth
  • generational strength
  • faith
  • community

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