Ep. 16: Avoidant Men CAN Heal with James Nepenthe Frank
From The Art of Relating by Tammy Chow
April 6, 2025 · 1h 35m · Episode 16
About this episode
James Nepenthe Frank discusses his journey from emotional unavailability to embracing love and healing through spiritual practices.
In this intimate, soul-bearing conversation, James Nepenthe Frank—Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, dharma teacher, and former monk—shares the journey of transforming from emotionally unavailable and intimacy avoidant to a man fully devoted to love. We discuss the alchemy of group somatic work, radical honesty, and the quiet, relentless devotion of spiritual practice. Together, we explore how healing attachment is not just psychological—it’s spiritual. How relationship, when met with courage and reverence, becomes a living altar. A path to awakening. A place where even avoidant men can heal. If you’ve ever felt stuck in longing, shame, or old relational patterns, this conversation will remind you: it’s never too late to choose love. Tune in for a transmission on grief, transformation, and the sacred possibility inside every connection. Apply for James’ Mens Group More Info Somatic Process Group Waitlist Sign Up Now Radical Aliveness Group Docuseries Watch Now Song: Ayla Nereo “Seeds"
People in this episode
Host: Tammy Chow
Guest: James Nepenthe Frank
Topics covered
- emotional healing
- attachment styles
- spiritual practice
- intimacy
- group work
- personal transformation
Keywords
- avoidant men
- healing attachment
- somatic experiencing
- radical honesty
- spiritual awakening
- relationship patterns
Mentioned in this episode
Books & works: Ayla Nereo “Seeds”
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