Episode 32 - Testing Kinky Tests with Surprise Guest Sir Aiden Charming

About this episode

The episode features a discussion on BDSM and sexuality tests with guest Sir Aiden Charming.

Can an online quiz really tell you who you are in BDSM? How long does it take three neurodivergent kinksters to take a test together (and just how many Barbarella references can we fit into our commentary)? Charlie and I decide to take the (in?)famous BDSM Test and compare it with another sexuality self test MojoUpgrade . While working our way into the first test we got a call from one of our favorite humans, Sir Aiden Charming , who joined us in the test adventure and commentary. We laugh, we cringe, we learn about ourselves and each other. This is a truncated version of our online shenanigans, while Patreon listeners have the opportunity to do the tests with us in a 2-hour long play by play, query by query recording. So buckle up for this blast from the past ( we actually recorded this in the summer 2024 but Kat got overwhelmed by the editing process #spoonielife #betterlatethannever) . Have you done these or other sexuality/kink tests? What did you like or dislike? Let us know if there's one you think we should take on the pod! Take the Tests! BDSMtest.org mojoupgrade.com Other resources mentioned: Kat’s Yes/Maybe/No Kink Checklist Scarleteen’s non-kink/beginner friendly Yes…

People in this episode

Host: Katrina "Boots" Rainsong

Guest: Sir Aiden Charming

Topics covered

• BDSM
• kink testing
• neurodivergent experiences
• sexuality
• self-discovery
• podcast commentary

Keywords

• BDSM Test
• MojoUpgrade
• kink
• neurodivergent
• sexuality tests
• self-discovery
• podcast

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: BDSM Test, MojoUpgrade, Scarleteen

Products: Kat’s Yes/Maybe/No Kink Checklist, "Mind the Gap" Underwear

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