Charlie Kirk Said Taylor Swift Should Submit—Here’s Why That Belief Breaks Relationships

About this episode

Amanda Carroll discusses the harmful effects of patriarchal beliefs on relationships, using Charlie Kirk's comments as a starting point.

I want to be clear: I am heartbroken that Charlie Kirk was murdered. My heart breaks for his wife, for his two young children, and for everyone affected by this tragedy. But I also want to be clear about something else: he should not be made a Christian martyr. Charlie Kirk built a platform that promoted racism, misogyny, and a relationship model that has harmed generations of women—telling us our highest calling is to stay home, have babies, and submit to our husbands. He even said Taylor Swift should “submit to her husband.” I said: Absolutely not. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real damage of patriarchal relationships—for women, for men, and for everyone. I know the cost because I paid it. I was the stay-at-home, Proverbs 31 wife. And it didn’t protect me. It broke me. Now I’m calling out the systems that keep women silent, broke, and stuck—and I’m giving you the tools to break free. SHOW NOTES Free Downloads: Get it Here: 10 Questions to Find an Emotionally Equal Partner D ownload your free guide: The High Value Woman’s Guide to Dating Want a high-value relationship without playing small? Let’s build your plan. 📞 Book your free Dating Strategy Call with Amanda today…

People in this episode

Hosts: Amanda Carroll, Amanda

Topics covered

• patriarchy
• relationships
• women's rights
• misogyny
• emotional health

Keywords

• submission
• Christian martyr
• Proverbs 31
• emotional equality

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