Be More Direct in 3 Sentences

Be More Direct in 3 Sentences

From The Jefferson Fisher Podcast by Civility Media

March 24, 2026 · 20 min · Season 2 · Episode 59

About this episode

This episode discusses how to be more direct in communication using a simple three-step method.

Most people say they want to be more direct, but when the moment comes, they start telling stories, overexplaining, or hoping the other person reads their mind. In this episode, I break down what being direct actually sounds like and why customer service conversations are one of the best places to practice it. I share a simple three-step method you can use anywhere—at work, at home, or in relationships—to say exactly what you mean without sounding harsh. When you learn to stick the landing with your words, people understand you faster, respect you more, and conversations get a whole lot easier. Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 20% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Butcher Box: $20 off your first box and free shipping at https://butcherbox.com/jefferson Momentous. Visit https://www.livemomentous.com/ and use code JEFFERSON for 35% off your first order. BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Order my book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like…

People in this episode

Host: Jefferson Fisher

Topics covered

  • communication
  • directness
  • customer service
  • relationships
  • self-improvement

Keywords

  • direct communication
  • customer service
  • self-improvement
  • communication tips
  • relationships

Sponsors

Cozy Earth, Butcher Box, Momentous, BetterHelp

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Civility Media

Books & works: The Next Conversation Workbook, The Next Conversation

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